改变传统婚恋观 花镇婚恋咨询成主流

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　　面对分手：探寻心里均衡

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　　以往回望：理智思考，并不是结束

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　　面对情绪变化：客观慰藉心里

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　　找到新的方位：再次思考人生规划

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　　交流和处理：理智沟通交流解决矛盾

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　　自我疗愈：理智面对情感上的痛苦

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　　未来发展趋势：理智管理决策走出阴影

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　　理智是智慧的源泉

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