花镇情感CEO肖然：如何判断一家情感咨询机构是否专业？

　　fenshouhoushuoshenmekeyiwanhui，zaifenshouhou，youshiwomendouxiangzhidaozijigaishuoshenmelaiwanhuiduifangdexin。wanhuiyiduanganqingjuefeiyishi，eryanciqiahaoshiqizhongdeyizhongnengliang。zaimianduifenshoudexianshidecankushi，womenkeyigenjuzhenzhidegoutongjiaoliulaichuandazijidexinlingzhenshitiyan，biaodawomendeqianjiuhehuiyi。zhenchengdehuayunenggoujiejuemaodunhewujie，zhonggourentongheqingganqiaoliang，weizhongfanxingfukuailedelumianzhujiujiben。wanhuifenshou，yanyudenengliangjiushiwomenzuizhuyaodewuqizhuangbei。

　　失去之后还有没有挽回的可能性?

　　fenshoushiyiduanganqingzhongzuitongkudejinglizhiyi，danyoushihoudajiahouhuimojifenshoudejuece，qipanzaiciwanhuiganqing。danshi，yaowanhuiyiduanfenshouzhihoudeaiqingjuefeiyishi，bixujingguoshenzhongkaolvheqiaomiaodigoutongdejiqiao。zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangyaotaolunfenshouhoushuoshenmekeyiwanhuidexingshi，xiwangnenggoujininyixieqishihezhidao。

　　表述深深的歉意与悔意

　　dangmianduifenshoujuedingshi，womenkeyigenjubiaoshuzhenchengdeqianjiuhehuiyilaidakailingyifangdexinling。chengxinertanlvdichengrenzijidecuowuyubuzu，jiduifangzhiqian，bingbiaodachutamendailaideshanghaijuedezhenxinshiyidehuihen。zheimezuokeyinengrangduifangtihuidaozijidechengxinhenenggouweigenggaizuochunuli，jinerkaiqizaicigoutongjiaoliudedamenkou。

　　重建信任与情感桥梁

　　fenshouwangwangshiyouyuxinlaibeishanghaihuoqingganshengshueryinqide，yincizhongjianxinrenheqingganqiaoliangshiwanhuiaiqingdeguanjianyibu。womenkeyiyongwennuanhezhenzhideyuyanlaibiaoshudajiaduibicideganxiehezhenxi，bingxushuwomenyiqiandezhuduomeihaojiyi。genjuzhuiyikuaileshiguang，jiqiduiweilaideqixuyuxiwang，womenkeyijiqilingyifangxinzhongdekewang，ranqiaiqingdehuomiao。

　　重新思考问题和改变思想

　　fenshouzhihoudegoutongjiaoliubujinjinshibiaoshuneixinshenchudeqinggan，haiyaosikaoyudiaozhengzijidewenti。womenkeyifansiguoquwentihefenqi，yongyuchengdanzijizeren，bingjichujiejuewentixinrenshiyufangfa。jiduifangzhanxianwomendeshengmingziwogaibian，jiqiweilenengxianghuzhijiangenghaodemingtianerxiangyaozuochudenuli。tongguojijidebianhua，womenkeyijiduifangzhanxiandajiadejuexinhejianchibuxie，tishengwanhuiaiqingchenggongdekenengxing。

　　给对方空间和时间

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，womenhaiyinggaijiduifangchongzukongjianheshijian，rangtamennenggoushulizishendesixuheqinggan。buyaopinfandajiaohuoguoduzhuiqiu，ershiyonglijiehezunzhongdexintaidairenjiewudaishi。meigerendouyinggaishijianjienazijideqingganheduiguoqudesikao，womenyaojiduifangzugoudeshijianlaizhongxinshenshidajiaxianghuzhijiandeguanxi。

　　汇总

　　fenshouhoushuoshenmekeyiwanhuiaiqingshiyimenyishu，xuyaodajiayongzhenchengyuzhihuilaihuajiemaodunhewujie，zaizhongxinjiaoliuzhongtanxunyitongdejihui。genjubiaoshuzhenchengdeqianjiuyuhuiyi、zhongjianxinrenyuqingganqiaoliang、zhongxinsikaowentihegaibiansixiang，jiqijiduifangkongjianheshijian，womenkeyiweiwanhuiaiqingdaxiajichu。zuihou，buguanwanhuichenggongyufou，dajiadouyidingyaocongguoqudejinglizhongfazhan，bingzunzhongduifangdetiaoxuanqueding。