盘点恋爱中他想分手的特征

　　fenshouhounvrenhaiqiandemudebujinjinzhishizhixingrenyi，yeshiweilezhuiqiudandu、zizunyuziyou。genjuhaikuan，nvrenqidaijiejueyiwangdeyali，xuehuifangxiacongqiandejiuge，zhongxindedaogerenjiazhiyuzizun。haikuanshiyizhongxuancheng，tamenbuhuizaiyilaitaren，ershizhijieziligengsheng，zhuiqiurenshengdaoludezizhuheduli。yiner，fenshouhounvrenhaiqiandemudeyuanyuanchaoguoleqiancaizishen，fanershiweiledapoyicunguanxi，maijinyigeduli、dulizhanxindeshenghuo。

　　追求单独与自尊

　　fenshouhounvrenhaiqiandemudeyuanyuanchaoguolejiandanjinqianjiaoyi。beihouyinzangzhetamenduiyuduliziyouzizundezhuiqiu。zheileizhuiqiulaiyuanyuduizishendejiazhiderenke，tamenxiwangjiejueyiwangdezhigu，buhuizaiyilaitarendezhiyuan。haikuanchengweiyizhongdaibiao，daibiaozhetamenzizhuzilidejuexinheqinfen。genjuhaiqian，tamenqidaizhengmingzijizizhunengli，fujianzizun，jianlizishenzaizhengzhishangdezizhuyingxiangli。buzaijuxianyuqingtouyihezhongdeyifang，fanershigengjiajianqianghezixinnvshi。

　　摆脱情感上的拘束

　　fenshouhounvrenhaiqiandemudehaizaiyujiejuecongqiandejiugeheqingganshangdejushu。buguanzaiganqinglishiyannazhongrenwujiaose，haikuanshitamenchulixinliwentidefangshizhiyi。genjuhaiqian，nvrenchangshisheqiheqianrendeguanlian，jiechuxianghuzhijiandeqiaoliang。zheileisheqibujinjinzhishixuehuifangxiatongkuyusunhai，gengjiashiweilejizijiyigezhongxinlaiguodehaojihui。haikuankeyizuoweiyigedianli，daibiaozhewanbiyiwang，maijinxindeweilai。zheishiquanyuchuangkou，zhiyuneixindeyizhongfangshi。

　　个人价值与自尊心的追求

　　fenshouhounvrenhaiqiandemudeyucitongshiqishishiweilezhuiqiugerenjiazhiyuzizun。yiqieyinfenkaierzaochengdezhaiwujiufendouhuishinvrenjuedechiruyubuan。tamenbuyuanrangbierenjuedetamendoushiwufaliuzhunansheng，shenzhijinqianshangdeqigai。genjuhaikuan，nvrenchangshizhengmingzijishiyongjiazhiyunengli，xuanchengtamenshikeyiziligengshengdedulidegeti。tamenbuxiangchengweibeidongjieshourenwujiaose，ershixianggenjuhaiqianzhanxianchuzijidezunyanzizun。

　　摆脱依存关系，寻觅独立与自立

　　fenshouhounvrenhaiqiandemudedoushiweiledapocongqiandeyicunguanxi，zhuiqiuduliyuzili。jieshuyiduanganqingwangwanghuirangnvrenshiquyuanyoudejingjizhichiheshenghuoxiguan。genjuhaikuan，tamenkaoyanzheileichuyubeidongqingkuang，yinglaigenghaodeshenghuokaoyan。buhuizaiyilaitaren，nvrengenjugongzuozhengqian，ziligengsheng，jianlizijidejianglai。haikuanbianchengtamenzhanxianzizhunenglihezizhujingshenshizhideyigeguocheng，tongshiyeshiyizhongduizishendezaicixiangmutouzi。

　　还款：复建新生活的起始点

　　fenshouhounvrenhaiqiandemudequjueyuweizijichuangzaoyigequanxindekaishi。haikuandeguochengdangzhong，nvrenyaomianlingezhongtiaozhanhejianku，danshizheishitamenzhongxinfaxianzijidejihui。genjuhaiqian，tamennengzhujianzhongxindiaozhengzijideshenghuo，xunzhaoxindefangweiqudongli。haikuanbudandanshihaiqian，gengjiashijizijisuzaofazhanmubiaodebiaozhi，weijinhoudemeihaoshenghuodiandingjichu。tashicongfenkaideyinmailizouchulai，zaicihuanfahuolihezixindeguanjianyibu。

　　zaifenshouhou，nvrenhaiqiandexiaoguoyuanyuanchaoguoleqiancaizishen。zheishiweilenengzhuiqiudandu、zizunyuziyou。genjuhaikuan，nvrenkeyibaituoyiwangdeyali，kaishixinderenshengpianzhang。haikuanbudandanshijingjijiaoyi，gengshiyizhongfujianzishen、zhuiqiumengxiangyuzhuiqiuxingfudefangshi。tazhanxianlenvrenjianqiangheyonggan，doushitamenmanxuefuhuodeguanjianyibu。