爱情里哪些是不起眼的致命伤？

　　dinghunyihoufenshouzenmechuli，fenshoushiyizhongtongkuergujidezaoyu，dandangzheiyichangfenshouchuxianyudinghunhou，qifuzaxinggengshangyicenglou。zaimianduizheiyangdezhuangkuangshi，womenyinggaijiejuehaodinghunzhihoufenshoudegeleicengmian，ruqinggan、dandanghezichan。congzhenchenggoutongjiaoliudaofalvzixunfuwu，meiyibudoubixushensishulv。chulifangfakenenghuiyingerenjibenqingkuangerbutong，danshijianlizaizunzhongyulijiedejichushang，womennengxianghuxinrenbingzhubucongfenshoudeyinmaizhongkuachu，jizijihaiyoulingyifangzhaodaogenghaodemingtian。

　　fenshoushiyiduanrenshengzhongtongkuerjianxinlvcheng，tebieshidangdinghunyihou，zheiduanlvchenggengjiashichongchizhefanzadeqingganyuzeren。neiyang，zaiwomenmianduidinghunwanghoudefenshoushi，yinggairuhechulini？

　　懂得尊重的情感，面对实际

　　dinghunyihoufenshouzenmechuli，fenshoushiyizhongqingganlidewaishang，womenyinggaiweizijizugoudeshijianlaijieshouhemianduizheigeshishi。bunengtaobihuoyizhiziyideqinggan，yuqishuoyayiganbibushangqingtu。xunqiuzhichihelijiederen，biruhaopengyou、qinrenhuozhezhuanyexinlizixunshi，nengbangzhuwomenjiejuexinlidefannao，bingjiwomentigongdalizhichihejutizhidao。

　　真诚沟通交流，处理矛盾

　　bulunshidinghunqianhaishidinghunhou，zhenchenggoutongjiaoliushizhongdoushichuliwentidehexin。mianduifenshou，bicizhijianbixutanchengdibiaodaguandianhetihui，jijizhudongxunqiujiejuewentidefangshi。tongguoduihua，yexukeyixunzhaodegongshi，jiejuemaodun，huoshijuedingdefenshoubingshangyifenshoudefangfahezerenfendan。

　　维护职工权益，寻求法律保障

　　zaidinghunshi，womenyexuzaizichanhuofalvyijufangmianyousuofuwuchengnuo。dangfenshoufashengdeshihou，womenyinggaibaohuhaozijidezhigongquanyi。jiarucunzaifenqizaocheng，lijizixunzhiminglvshi，lejiezijifalvfaguiliyiyuyiwu，bianyuzuochumingzhidexuanzeguanlijuece。

　　解决夫妻共同财产，切分恩怨

　　zaifenshouyihou，womenyexuxuyaojiejuegongtongyongyoudezichan。zheijiangbaokuofangdichan、chezi、fuzhaideng。weilefangzhijiufenanjianhejinyibudeqinggansunhai，nenggouxunqiugengzhuanyedefalvyijianheshangyi，tanxungongpinggongzheng、youxiaojiejuefangan。biciyaoyihuihuahetuoxieweiyuanze，bingshixiancaichangongpingqiefen。

　　自我提升，积极主动找到新的发展方向

　　fenshousuiranshiwomenxinteng，danyeshiyigezhongxinshenshizijihezhaodaoxindechutouzhirijihui。baochilianghaodexintaiduidaifenshou，congzheidangzhongshenshizijirenwujiaose，lejiezijideyaoqiuhesixiang。chixuxuexiyuchengzhang，tanxunxindejihuiyukuaile，shibaituofenshouheiyingdezhongyaoyibu。

　　结束语

　　dinghunyihoufenshouzenmechuli，zaiwomenmianduidinghunwanghoudefenshoushi，shouxiandongdezunzhongdeqinggan，bingganyumianduishiji。genjuzhenchenggoutongyuxunqiushiyong，chulimaodunbingweihuzishenquanyi。yucitongshi，jiejuefuqigongtongcaichanshiyingxunqiufalvfuwu，yibaozhenggongzhengheyouxiao。zuizhuyaodeshi，buyaotingliuzaifenshoudekuchuzhong，fanershixunzhaoziwotishenghexinfazhanfangxiang，yinglaigengmeihaodeweilai。