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jiaoshi，wolaogonghedisanzhetongjushenghuole，tamenqingganfeichanghao，woxianggaizenmeban?

 jiaoshi，wolaogongyouwaiyu，wozhendehaonanguo，zuikelingdejiushishuowodehaizi，tazennengneimeyijianshi!nikeyibuyaozheiyangma?

jiaoshi，zhangfuyaoyuwoliyi，taxiailetaren，quanshinagejiannvrenrangzhangfuyuwoliyide，jiaoshiwoxiangruhedikangdisanzhe?

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zhangfudechuguixingwei，zhangfudewuqingrangtamenxinhuiyileng;

disanzhedemanhengwuli，rangtamenfenfennanping，shenetongji;

jiangyaofensuidehunyinshenghuo，buxiangxidejiazhong，rangtamenxinrudaoge;

 zheizhongtongchuhesunhaibenbuyingdangchuxianzaitamendeyishizhuxingli，tamenzhiyaoxiangjiazhongxiangxi，yaoxiangkanjianxiaohaixingfukuailedezhangdale，gennanpengyouyiqixiangbandaolao，woxiangyaoneiyangdeniantoudanshifenba。

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感情老师深入分析：

 congshoutuorenyiqiandezisurenmenkeyikandechutabingmeiyouxunzhaonanshengweishenmepanbiantadeyuangu，doumeiyougaoqingchuzhangfuweihebuliyi，weiheyeyaohedisanzhezaicisichan。shijishangrenmenpengdaoguoxuduoneiyangdeshili，youyibufennvshijuedezheijiushishuonansheng“chizhewanlide，kanjianguolide”tianxingxiangmao，shijishangbingbushizheiyang，ruguonizaoshoulelianrenwaiyu，xiwangnikeyilejiezheisandian：

1.不必有极端化的念头

 ruguonizaoshoubeiwaiyu，zaochengnaonu、tongchu、buxiangxin、naizhishiyuanqiquanshipubiandefanying，danzaiqinshenjinglizhihou，yidingyaoshiqizishendezixinxin，zhongguizishendeyishizhuxing。erbingbushipoguanposhuai，zuochujiduanhuasunhailingyifangdegerenxingwei，yebukeyiyouyuyuwanglaisunhaizishen，zheiquanshibukeyongde。

 womenshichengrenle，yaoduizishendegerenxingweichengdan，buzhengquedewanliugerenxingwei，zongshiranglingyifangqiaobuqini，ranglingyifangdujueni。

2.反省自己的不够

 zairenmenganqinglaoshidezhengqueyindaosikaoquanguochengzhong，shoutuorenyetijilexiaiwanmajiangyouxidenanti，lingwaizailejielaogongchuguile，shoutuorenzuochudegerenxingweixingwei，yetixianletaxingqingzhongdeyibufenquedian：feichangrongyiyuwang，buguhouguo，shouxintaicaozong，jiaozongbuwanshan。

 yijulianqingjibenjiqihunyinshenghuoziranhuanjingeryantamenzhongjiandeqingganhuanshihenshende，liangrencongganqingdizhi，daohuandupinku，zhangfudezhuyaobiaoxianyebingbushiboqingguayideren，taduishoutuorendeganqingnulishihenxianzhude，yiduanfeichanghaodeqinggan，chuxianleweijihefengxi，yidingshilianggerenzhongjiandegoutongjiaoliuhejiaowangfangfachulenanti。

 shoutuorenyouyumeiyougongzuozhong，shijianbuzhidaozenyangxiaomo，erxiaidaoledamajiangjiang，qieyinerchuxianlezhengyebugui，zheiduizhangfueryanshiyizhongwuxingzhongdesunhai。nantiyichuxiandeneishihou，zhangfuchongfenkaolvshoutuorenyiqiandenuli，tiaoxuanlerenshou，danshijianjiule，zuihouhuanshihenzhirugule。zheizhongbukenjienade“renshou”huixiaoqiantamendeqinggan，danshoutuorenyiqianbingmeiyougaoduzhongshi，caijidisanzhezaojiulejiyu。

ganqingwanhui、hunyinjiatingzixunjutizhidaoquanweizhuanjia

3.提升本身使用价值

 zaihunyinshenghuoli，wulunnanrennvren，doubixugaoduzhongshizishenyulingyifangdechabie。zhinengfufuzaitongyigaokuanbi，hunyinshenghuocaikeyizoudeyuan。

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 ganqinglaoshijishoutuorenqiangdiaoleyuangu，tayejiangchulezishendeyilv：“jiaoshi，womingbaizishendenantile，kerujinhaiyoushenmeyong?tadeneixinyemeiyouwoderongshenzhichule，woxiangruhezuoa”

 bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan，waiyuzaoyichengweishishi，yaoxiangniuqumuqiandexingshi，haowuyiwenbingbushiduanshijiannenggou chulide，genghekuangrujinshoutuorendezhangfuduishoutuorendeyaoqiuzaoyijiangdaoledidian。neizhenduineiyangdenandian，chukaishoutuorendexianghupeihe，yebixujishuzhuanyedejiaoshilaikaizhanjutizhidao。

 genjurenmendeshenrufenxishoutuorenpengdaodedisanzheguishuyu “qingganxingdisanzhe”yu“nannvguanxi”defuhexingdisanzhe。duiyushoutuorendefenlichulaiziranhuanjing，renmenzhidingle3zhongbuyiyangdejihuafangan，liuzhibeiyong。

 renmenzhengqueyindaoshoutuorenrenqingfenlidisanzhedequanguocheng，diaojiehegaizhengshouhairenxintaizhuangtai，keyizizhudiaojieqingxudeshoutuoren，duijihuafangandezhixingxianghupeihedutigaolexuduo。ranhourenmengenjuziranhuanjingchentuo，chenjichengxianlezishendechengrencuowuxintaijiqigenggaifangan，erqiejiyutajiejuedeshijianyukongjian，suihougenjuganqingxinmaoxianzhi，laifangzhiganqingdebukekongxing。

 genju3yuedeqinfen，shoutuorenfaguolailexibao，tagennanpengyouhehaola，disanzheyejijichechule。shijideguanjiandianjindu，shejishoutuorendesirenxinxi，bukeyiyiyichanshu。zheiliwoxiangyaogaozhizheixieyijingzaoshoubeiwaiyudenvshi：“waiyubukongbu，qiadangdewanliu，nenggou rangairanqi，gengnenggou rangnanshenghuijiale!”