biaobainvyouchuguilezenmewanhui?zaizheigechongmanyinyouyubianhuadeniandai,ganqinghaoxiangyebiandeyuelaiyuemingan。ruguonifaxiannvyouchuguideneiyike,zheigeshijiefangfodoubenghuaile。
一、冷静应对:先做情绪的主人

fajuechugui,diyifanyingtongchangshinaonu、nanguo、xinhan……danqingjizhu,zheiyangdeqingxunanyijiejueqitawenti,fandaokenengrangnizuochucuowudejueding。yinci,diyibu,xianzuoqingxudezhuren。
shenxiqi,weizijishizhang:fajuechuguideyishunjian,xianshenxiqijihui,rangzijilengjingxialai。buyaojizhezhiyihuozhengzhi,jizijiyidianshijianxiaohuaxishouzheitiaoxiaoxi。
zhuanyizhuyili:quzuoyixienipingchangxiangzuodeshiqing,liruyundongjianshen、wanyouxi、kandianshijudeng。zheibujinnengbangnizanshiwangjitongchu,yenengrangnizailizhizhongsikaoxiayibu。
xunqiuwaijieshiyong:yupengyouhuozhejiarenliaoyiliao,danbingbushiweilemaiyuanhuoxunqiulianmin,fanershiweilehuodebutongdekanfayujianyi。youshi,dangjuzhemi。
二、深入分析:找到问题的本质
lizhiyihou,bianshishenrufenxideshike。jilao,chuguibingbushidanfangmianyiwu,meiyiduanguanxideliekaidouyoutayuangu。
ziwofansheng:xianwenziji,zheiyiduanguanxizhongniyoumeiyounaxiezuodebugouhaodequyu?shifouhushileduifangdeganshou?shifougoutongbuzu?
lejietadedongyin:zuihaoyipingjingdetaiduqulejietachuguidongji。shiyouyuyishichongdong,huoshizhangqijileidebumanyi?shiyouyuwaibudeyinyou,huoshinimendeguanxinanti?
jianbieguanxilideliefeng:pouxinideguanxizhongcunbucunzailiefeng,liruxinrenqueshao、goutongzuai、shenghuodejiezouwufatongbudeng。zheizhongliefengyoukenengshizaochengchuguiqianzaiyuangu。
三、真诚沟通:敞开心扉,复建信任

goutongkeyijiejuewentidehexin。zailengjinghekeguanfenxidejichushang,tanchengdihetagoutong,shifujianxinrendediyibu。
tiaoxuanheshideshijianyuhuanjing:zhaoyigenimenyegandaoshushideshijianduanhekongjianjinxinggoutong,quebaozaiqingxuguojihuogonggongchangsuotaolunzheiyihuati。
biaodanideganshou:yong“i”juzibiaodanideganshou,liru“wozhendehenfushang”erfei“nirangwojuedehenfushang”。neiyangkeyijianshaotafangyuxinli。
lingtingtadeshengyin:jitazugoudejiyubiaodaguandianhetihui。jilao,lingtingbishuogengweizhongyao。genjulingting,nikeyigengquanmiandilejietalichanghedongyin。
yitongxunzhaojiejuefangan:bachuguikanzuoshiyigebixuyitongjiejuewenti,erfeidanfangchizehuokuanrong。yiqitantaozenmexiufuguanxi,zenyangbimianleisishierzaicichuxian。
四、行为证实:以爱复建信任
goutongyihou,bianshixingweideshike。jilao,xinrenbushikongxuelaifeng,ershiyaoyongshijixingdonglaiyanzhengde。

gaibianxianzhuang:genjuzhiqiandeziwofansheng,qinfengaibianxianzhuang。lirutishenggoutongfangfa、zengqiangshiminggan、daijitagengduoguanzhuyuaideng。
fujianxinrenzheigexiaoliucheng:congyixiediandixiaoshizuoqi,liruzhunshihuijiale、jijibaobeixingcheng、gongxiangdiandiandidideng。zhengshizheixieweibuzudaodexiaoshi,qishijiushifujianxinrendezhongyaojishi。
xieshougongchuangmeihaojiyi:yiqiquzuoyixieyouyiyideshi,lirulvyou、canyuhuodongdeng。zheizhongyitongzuimeihaodehuiyikeyizengqiangnimendeguanxiqingganlianjie。
五、寻求技术专业协助:当我没法解决问题时
biaobainvyouchuguilezenmewanhui?youshi,chuguizaochengdeshanghaiheduoyuanxinghenyoukenengyuanyuanchaoguoledajiazijinenggouchulidefanchou。cike,xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhushiyigezhengquedexuanze。
qingganwanhui:zhaoyiweizishendeqingganzhuanjiahuoxinlizhuanjiajinxinglejie。tamennenggoutigongzhuanyedejianyiheyindao,bangnimennenggougenghaodijiejuezheiyiduanguanxi。
fufuyizhi:jiaruwomendoukeyiweilezheiyiduanguanxierfendou,keyixuanzecanyufufuyizhi。zaizhiliaoguochengzhong,dajiaxuedaolegenggaoxiaodegoutongfangfahejiqiaojiejuewentidebanfa。
falvzixunfuwu:jiaruchuguishejilefalvfaguicengmiandewenti,lirulihuncaichanfenge、haizifuyangquandeng,hebuzixunzhuanyedelvshi。tamennenggoubangnirenshizijidequanliheyiwu,fangzhibubiyaodejiufen。
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