夫妻感情不和，发现老公出轨了怎么办？

 fuqiganqingbuhe，faxianlaogongchuguilezenmeban？laogongchuguishihenchangjiandeyizhonghunyinweiji，henduonvrenbudongzenmezhengqueyingduinanrenchugui。xiangyaoyouxiaowanjiuhunyin，yingduilaogongchuguidefangfayouqizhongyao。

一、控制情绪不要过于着急

 nanrenchuguihou，nvrenkutianhandihuodadachushou，zhihuirangtalinigengyuan。nvrenbiaoxianyuelengjing，yuezhuangzuoruowuqishi，taxinliyuefabuan。nijiechuantachuguihoumeiyoushiqulizhi，ershizairichangshenghuozhonggengjiaguanxinta，caimeiyourangshitaifazhandaowufashoushidedibu。

 suoyi，xiangyaohaohaowanhuizheiduanganqing，wanliuzheiduanhunyin，jiuyaoxuehuikongzhihaozijideqingxu，qianwanbuyaochongdong，gaosuzijichongdongjiushimogui。

二、吸取教训，提升自我

 laogongchuguiduoshaoyuqiziyouxieguanxi，yingshouxianchamingchuguiyuanyin，xiqujiaoxun、duizhengxiayao、tishengziji、xiaochuyouyin。nvrenhunhoushiquziwoyuanbishiqulaogonggengkepa，zhiyouziqiangzilihuodejingzhi，jibianlihunyenenghuochujingcaidenvrencainengbuganxiaoqu。

 yinci，nvrenbunengbashijianheshengmingdouhaofeizailaogongshenshang，yinggaijianchiyushijujin，buduantishengwanshanziwo，juyouliuzhuxiangliudemeiliyuzixin，cainengzaihunyinzhongliyububaizhidi。

三、重建夫妻和谐相处模式

 danghunyingaoji，mianduigengduowaijieyouhuodeshihou，nijiuyaotigaojingti，weinimendehunyinheaiqingchuangzaoxindexinxianganhuozhehuiyiqizuichudetianmi。lirunimenkeyipaokaigongzuo、paokaishenghuo，laiciduanzandexingfuercimiyue。

 zhongxinzhaohuirelianshideganjue，jikuzaowuweidehunyinzengjiaxindediaoweiji，rangnimendeaiqingshengwen。zheiyangcaishizhengquewanliuweijihunyindebanfa，erbushiyongdachaodanaozhizeduifangbugouhaozheiyangdexingweilaijiejuewentide。

挽救婚姻中，只有夫妻之间共同向着同一个方向努力划掌，彼此懂得共同付出与扶持，才能使这艘船驶向幸福的彼岸。