发现老公出轨变心后，女人的正确应对方式

 faxianlaogongchuguibianxinhou，nvrendezhengqueyingduifangshi。zenyangcainengbaohuhunyin，nuxingdejiaoyulaogong，miandehenduorenjuzaiyiqirenzhenjiaoyudisanzhe，diutadelian?nihenguzhi，danmeiyounicongming。

 ruguozheiyangzuo，zhangfuduidisanzhedekuijiuhuidaozhiyuanhen。jieguoniyoumeiyouxiangguobeidisanzheqiangjiajiziji?ruguobudasuanlihun，jiubunengmashangfangqi，zuochucuowudewanhuixingdong。duifulaogongchuguidelaopo，zuihaodebanfashishenme?

尽量保持冷静。

 zhidaoqinmiairencengjingheqitayixingzaibeihoushuijue，renherendouhennanxinpingqihededuidaitamen，danshiyaojinliangxinpingqihedebimianlihun，youqishizaishengqideshihou。

 buyaolaoxiangzhe“jieshule，doujieshule。”“wogaizenmeban?zenmeban?zheimejidongbuyongshuozenmeban。bieji，bieji，jingxiaxinlaixiangbanfafaxiefennu。keyizixunxinlizixunshi，buyaomangmuzixunpengyou。zheigeshihou，jishizoucuoyibu，yeyoukenenghuishu。

搞清楚婚外情的事实。

 ruguozhishicaice，qingshuoqingchu。henduorenjibendoushitouyinying。laogongjiaban，huozhezaiwaimianhejiu，huozhejuedeyalida，huozheyudaopengyou，huaiyiyougui，meitianfanlaogongshoujihuozhekoudai，kenengcaishichuguidezhenzhengyuanyin。

含泪抬起头是不可取的。

 wanglebujinxingrenshengongji，henduonvrenkule，beinanrenma“haosehuai”，beidale，wanquanwushizijidexingxiang，chengweinanrendezhichang，beizhangfuhejiarenfumuchao，zaiduifangpengyoumianqianxidajie，diunanrendelian。ruguonixiangrangtadanxin，woshuonideweixieshitachedihenijuejiao，lianweiyidekuijiudoumeiyou。

客观分析丈夫出轨的原因。

zhangfuchuguishibuduide，danhenduoanlizhengminghunyinyouwenti。

 ruguoninengfanshengziji，zuochuxiangyingdegaibian，hunyinjiunengwanhuichenggong，daduoshuzhangfudeshiqingdoubushizhenduilihunde。dangran，zheibujinshiweileyingheqizidezhangfu，yeshiweilezaikeguanfenxihunyinwentidejichushangzuochuxiangyingdegaibian，congercushihunyinjinruyigejiankangdexunhuanxitong。

挽救婚姻的决定是原谅丈夫出轨。

 yuanliangduifangjiushishandaiziji。nixianglihunma?ruguonibuxiang，wobixuyuanliangni。ruguoyuanliangshibukuanrongde，zhengtianguazaizuibian，nanrendezizunxinshihenqiangde。

 jingchangshuozhihuijitadailaimafan，danshijishanghuitixingta。ruguonixiangrangtachediwangji，zuihaobuyaoshuochulai。xiangfan，wobingbugandaoneijiu。ruguoshoubulenihuizenmeban?neijiurenrenba。fouze，zaimeirendedifangdashengmaren，zixunpengyouhezixunshi。