发现男人变心丈夫出轨怎么办？

 faxiannanrenbianxinzhangfuchuguizenmeban？daduoshumianlinzhangfuchuguidehunyin，ruguochulidehao，shikeyijixude。jiasheniyuanyijixuzheiduanhunyin，niyinggaicongxindilijieshouzheigechuguidenanren。jishijieshoubule，yekeyidanduzhaozijiderizi。

第一，你要放开男人，放松自己。

 ruguonibayigenanrenkandetaizhong，nihuigandaoxiesidili，zheihuijizijiheduifangdailaihendadeyali，zheijihubiranhuijiasutataoxianglingyigeqingganquan，zheiwangwangshinanrendebuchangxingxingwei。fangyigerenzou，nijiuconglimianjiefangchulai。niyoushijianshenshizijideneixin。

第二，给他舒服的同时也要定好底线。

 shuobailejiushiyaoxuehui“ziqiqiren”。nigaosuziji，tahuilaiwanshiyinweigongzuomang，yinweigongzuoleiletaijiuduixingmeiyouxingqu，tazaiwaimiandeshejiaoshitashengzhidexianzhao，tajingchangbuzaihenishuohua，zuoweishenaidetidaibiaoda。shima?liubu。

 nanrenwangwangheqizi、airenxiangchujiule，xinqingyuefuza，jiuyuebumingbaiweishenmeninengzheimedandingcongrong，weishenmezaiganqingbianhuamianqiannijuederuowuqishi，weishenmezailianaizhongniyiranyiranjueran、guzhidihetaxiangchu。haiyouweishenmenituranbiandegengduligengyoumeili，rangtawufaqingyifangqilikaini。

第三，就算男人出轨，你只需要把它当成漫长婚姻中的一个插曲。

 ruguonvrenzhidaonageduihunyingengzhongyao，jiubuhuixianruhunyinjiushichengnuohezhongchengdeluojixianjing。nimenyiqizoudeluhaihenzhang。baorongta，jiwokongjian，wojiubuxuyaojingshenbupingheng，buxuyaobeizhemochengmodadechiru。

第四，婚姻危机也是增强活力的机会。

 buguanshisheichugui，doukeyijifuqiyigejihui，renzhenshenshizijidehunyindaodinalichulewenti。yinweichuguikendingbushiguyide，shiduiyifangdangshiqingxuzhuangtaixuqiudelingyizhongbuchong，qiaqiashiduifangdeshuhuhuozhequeshi，rangwomenkeyichangshizhongxindiaozhenghudongmoshi，erbushifanfuchaojiahuozhelengzhan。weijibianchengzhuanzhedian，ranhoubianchenghuoli。