老公有外遇该如何处理？ 老公有外遇不要慌 教你四招

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 zhenduinanshiwaiyudeshijinanti，lizainanshiguandiandejinyouerzhonggailv：zhunbeigenlaopoliyigenxiaosanzaiyiqi、benbianshiniqingwoyuan、xinrengzaijiali。nvshiyejinyouerzhongtiaoxuan：yizhongshitiaoxuanliyi，cihoutianyamotu，lingyizhongshibasuishiziroujinshuangyanzaicirichangshenghuo。keshishizhongbubitiaoxuandisange，buhuitou，zaicicuicanlingyifangyunizishen。

 laogongyouwaiyugairuhechuli？tufaxingzhuangkuangchanshengshi，nvshideguandianyingdangguanxinxialienanti，youqishizhenduijibianzaoshoupanbianyebuyuansangshiqinrendenvshieryan，duinieryanshifeichangyoumeihaide。

一、操纵家中的经济发展实权

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二、积极主动维护保养媳妇儿关联

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三、回绝蒙骗自身，主动进攻

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 shuobailezhibizhiji，zuixian，niwubikanchuannanrenhunhouchuguimubiaodezhuangkuang，congxiangmaogongzuozhongdaorichangshenghuoqingkuang，xiangbanfagaoqingchu，zhangwoduishoudeyoudianhequedian，nenggouyibubukaizhan，jiaruxingdetongdehua，nenggoulijixunzhaoxiaosantiaomingzheigewenti，ziran，jinyouruguonichediyouxinxindeqingkuangxia，nicaihuitiaoxuanlishilingtuzhuquan。

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四、学好冷暴力难题

 zheizhongshizhemeiyouxianzhudeshijixiaoguo，nanshenghuoshiwudongyuzhong。changshilengbaoli，wuluntaduomedefanganzaokangdelaopo，xiguanxingzaoyishitabianchengrichangshenghuodeyibufen，hurandelenglian，shitayishidaozheigerenmeiyoushideqingxuhexinlizhuangtai。ziran，zheileifangfayebixushijianxianzhi，zhangle，fandaohuixiguanxingmeiyouni。

 youshidangdeshijianhejianju，ranglingyifangzhuyaobiaoxianchulizhisatuodexintai，youshinanshengdebuliexinqiang，huranbuzaihu，fandaojifatadexiyinchongdong，huoxutahuizaidubianchengaizhenidefabingyuanyin。nvxingcishiyingdangliuyidezuiguanjiandeshiqingshitadexintai。bubibutingdizhemoziji。yigebeipanzhenenggouweilegenghaodishijierxiyinta，dantabuyongyundongtadezhenyuanlaihetashichangjingzheng。youyutashentibuhaole，zongshirangxiaosanhuoyi，sunhaizishen，cuihuitadexiaohai。

 laogongjingshenchuguihainengyaoma？dangzheizhongfangshidousangshigongxiaoshi，nvxinghaiyaopingjingxialai，congtoukaishishizishendelirunzuidahua，zaicuozhezhongjinzaodanduzishen，youyufuwuchengnuonidejianglai，jinifangshuifangyuderen，genggaiqingyi，jianglaidouxuyaoyikaoziji。haiyaolejierenshengdaoluzhongzuikaopudejinyouzishen。