老公精神出轨还能要吗？

 laogongchuguilewogaizenmezuo？laogongjingshenchuguihainengyaoma?chuguinanrenbingbudaibiaozhechedidepanbian，zuoweilaopozuixianyaobaochilizhi，jishijieguobudahao，yebuhuitaiganga。laogongyouwaiyugairuhechuli?xiabianjiujiaonijiejuelaogongchuguilede６geliucheng。

第一步：搜集直接证据

 laogongyouwaiyugairuhechuli？yaoquelideshi，zhenduiyigebuzhongshidelingyibaneryan，foudingtamenyouhunhouchuguishishifendianxingxingde，jibiannizouruquerqie“bawozhutamen”degerenxingwei，niyenenggouneiyangshuo。tamentiaoqi，dangtamenchuanshangyifushi，tamenyaoshuo，“bingbushizheiyangzide！”

 yincizheiyibushixiangzishenzhengshitashibushiqueshiwaiyu．．．．．．keguanshishibianshizheiban。zaininqinrudianzijisuanjihuoanzhuangzhongxiaoxingshelujiyiqian，ninhenyoukenengbixulejiexiangguanfalvfaguideguiding。

 yixiedianxingxingde“zhijiezhengju”nenggougenjuchaxundianziyouxianglaisouji，jiarutakaiqidianziyouxiang，chaxuntadexiangjitupianhejiaoyouruanjian，jiarutadeshoujishangmeiyoukaiqi，huoshixianshangdengludianhuazhangdanbingxunzhaoxuduoshufenzhongdaotongyigelianxidianhua。

第２步：应对

 lijiduitashuo，duitashuonilejieshierzaoyicunyoule，erqienizaiyouzhijiezhengju。buyaogaosutazhijiezhengjuzainaer，huoshizhijiezhengjushisha，zhixushitalejienilejieke。

 suihou，tashuoming，weilegenghaodishihunyinshenghuoheli，jiangburongyiyouchuguixingweidegerenxingwei。qingtaqiangdiaonantiyiwanbizheishi。

 baozhengtamingbaiwanbizheidaibiaozhetazaiyebuhuilianluodisanzhele。tawubiyuanyigenjuxiangquanbuzhanghaogongxiangziyuandenglumimalaiduitadeshijianchengdan。

第三步：公布

 xiangyigeshifenshouzunzhongdequanweizhuanjiagongbuzheiyishiqing，tahenyoukenenghuiyangtouzhengqiu．．．．．．henyoukenenghuibianchengqinhunyinshenghuo，bingduitashuoyingdangwanbihunwailianbingjinidehunlianwentierqinfen。zheigerenkenengshitadebabamamazhiyi，zongjiaoxinyanglingdaozhe，jiaoshihuolaozong。

 yubierenbaomixingbingxiangtamenbiaoshuninqidaitamenbaomixing，danninbixuxiezhu。suihoubiaoshunidelingyibandeshierbinggaozhitamenshiqing。jiaruneng，xiangtamenzhanxianzhijiezhengju。suihouyaoqiushouzunzhongderendaoyunindelaogonggoutongjiaoliushixiezhuninbingshiyongnin，bingguidingtamenzaiduzhongzhi。

第４步：曝出这一件事儿

 jiangzheishipulujihenyoukenengshouqianzaixingliyiweihaideren。puchushenhoudeniantoubingbushijiangnilaogongdemingchenghexinyunongkua，zhishihuijuerangshier“mimi”bingjiangbuzhongshidechoueshiqingsongdaodangri。，tadebabamamahexiongmei，tadezhujiaotanghuoxingqichangdi，nidepengyou，tadeyixiepengyou，nideguzhu，tadepengyou，jiqilingyigenvrendelingyibangaozhitamen，bijiaoyanzhongde，nidehunyinshenghuoyoushenmewenti，bingqiuzhu。

meishenmenenggoujingjiao，bingxuehuifangxialingyigenvrendelingyibandejiaobulaiwanbihunwailian。：qisushizuihaoshidewanliuma？

流程５：完毕这一段情感

 zaizheiliyibuzhong，xieyifengxinrangnidelaogongbingbiaoshuniaita。renkenizaiganshenme，zuochugongxian，bingzhanxianniyijingganshenmelaiwanbizheizhongshier。

 suihoushuo，chufeishitamenwanbiyubierendequanbulianluoerqiezaiyebuyutalianluo，burannijiangpobudeyitingzhiyutadequanbulianluo。

 zheiyibushenhoudeniantoushishitazhunquedilejieliyikenengshinaxiede－nimeiyoubixudadaotarichangshenghuodeyiqieyaoqiu！jiarutachangshilianluo，niyinggaishuo：

 “nitongdianhuashiyouyuniyizhunbeihaowanbinidehunwailianle？e，nibushi。neimaqingzhongshiwodeyixiang，bubichupeng，zhizhinizhunbeihaoneiyangzuo，zaijianle。”suihouguadiaodianhua。

 daoqijinweizhi，taderichangshenghuohenyoukenengbingbushunli。dangtajianchibuxiezuotarenshicuowudeshiershi，tahenyoukenengganjuebixuzhizetadenanti。xiwangtashishifenmengliede，tiejinzuizhongdeliuchengjiangyouliyutajizijidetiaoxuandanfubenrenyiwu。

 lihunzhiqianwojianyidezuihouyibushihelihefaliangdifenju。henduoshierzai２nianneibianzhijiyi。yiner，wojianyizheiduifuqixunzhaohelihefaliangdifenju，youyuzheihuituichiliyidesifachengxubingweihujiazhong。woyibantiyihelihefaliangdifenjuzuishaoyinian。

 zheiyibuzhongshidelingyibanhenyoukenenghuicujin“xunsu”liyi，changshishitamendehunwailianhefa，danwuyiliwai，helihefaliangdifenjujiangshiquanbucanjiazhehaiyoujihuicongxintaichuizhiguoshanchezhongxiufubingyougengqiangdejiyu。

 wanbimaimai。laogongjingshenchuguihainengyaoma?yidanshierqueshiwanbi，xiangxiangtayirannenggoujuecetaningkefenli。keshi，zailiangzhidezhuangkuangxia，ninengjinyiqieqinfenlaizhengjiunidehunyinshenghuo。