老公出轨变心了怎么办?怎么办才能挽回？

 meiyigefaxianlaogongchuguinvrendouchenjinzaiaitonghenuqizhonghenzhangshijianbukeyipingfu。youdenvxinghuiwujikeshi，zhiyouyileimomian，baoyuanheduqiweizhudao。jiarunifajuezhangfuchuguigerenxingwei，laogongchuguibianxinlezenmeban?danniyoubuyuanrangjiazhongliekai，neimajiuyingdangzhongxinlejielaogongchugui，laogongchuguilezenmegoutong?jinyouneiyangcaikeyigengqiangdejiejuekunnan，rangjiazhongyirujiwangxingfukuailexialai。

老公出轨变心了怎么办?

weihedangshiduiniweimingshicongheduiniwanbantengxideta，rujinduinisangshixingquaihao，erduiqitanvxingxianyinqin？

 shijishangyuangufeichangjiandan，jiushitaduiniyanfan。ganqingwangwanghuizhujian，shiyouyudangshinikeyixiyinzhulingyifang，shitagennizaiyiqi。

 erbansuizheshijiandeliushi，lingyifanghuimanmandejuededangshinixiyinzhutadeneiyigetedianshihenpingshideshier，yincinideyouhuolibianhuimanmanjiangdi，tabianhuiduiniyulaiyumeiyouxingquaihao。

 yinci，zaifajuelaogongchuguihou，bubiganjuetabianshiganletianlinanrongdeshier，shijishangyeshiyouyunizishendeyouhuolibuzuqiangjing，yincitacaiweinengdiyuzhuwaibudeyinyou。

 weiyouniqieqieshishidilejiedaozheiyidian，nicainenggoulixinglumianduilaogongdewaiyu，caiburongyiyinweibulizhihebulixing，rangjiazhongcongciliekai。

老公的心的心，你该怎么做？

jiaruhunyinshenghuozhonglaogongchanshengchugui，danniyoubuyuanrangjiazhongliekai，neima，niwubibaituokunjing，ranglaogongwanquanxingwu。

 jirannizaoyilejieshiyinweizishendeyouhuolibugoucairanglaogongwuruqitu，neima，niyejiuyingdanglejiehuodezhangfuzhenxinshiyizuilijidefangshibianshirangzishendeyouhuoligaoguoxiaosan。

 yaorangzishendeyouhuoliquanfangweiditigao，neimaniyejiuyingdangcongwaimian，benzhi，shenghuoxiguanshangbuduanwanshanziwo，jinyouneiyang，nicainenggourangzishengengyoufengcai，yecainenggourangzishendelaogonghuiguotou，ganxinqingyuandiliudaozishenshenpang。

 bingqiezaizheigequanguochengzhong，nideziwojiazhijianghuichuxianfeichangdashuipingdetigao，jiarunideziwojiazhinenggaoguolingyifang，neimaniyejiuhenyoukenengcaokongganqingdezhudaoquan，yecainenggouranghunyinshenghuowanman。

 jiarunidelaogongyezaihunyinshenghuozhongyouchugui，qianwanbieganjueyiqiecuoquanshilingyifangdeshenshangde，nixuyaoshenshiziji，xunzhaozishendeshenshangdeyuangu。

 suihougenjubuduantigao，caikeyirangzishengengyoufengcai，ergengyoufengcai、gengchusedeni，caikeyirangzhangfulijihuiguotou，caikeyirangjiazhongbubeiliekai。

 zhangfuweihelaogongjingshenchugui，ruhewanliuzhangfudeyiqingbielian？shexiangyixia，jiaruzhangfuduinimendehunyinshenghuomanyilvjigao，dajiabicizhijiannengxianghulijie，goutongjiaoliuyesuanchangshun，neilingyifanghaihuijixulaogongjingshenchuguima？waiyu，tongchangshihunyinshenghuofashenglenanti。

 jiaruzaiwanliushimeiyouxiangqingxiwaiyudeyuanguermaoranxingdong，zhituzhezishenjuedededuilingyifanghaodeniantouqushijicaozuo，zongshishinidewanliubuchenggong。liru，nishibushihuizhijieledangdihelingyifangtiaomingzishendeniantou，“woyijinglejienilaogongjingshenchuguile，jiangba，xiamiannixiangzenyang？”，youhuoshishi，”nijuranshenbeiwowaiyu，wojiujingyounaerhenduibuqinide？”，zhengfengxiangdui、bubujinbi，lingyifangzaigongzuoyalixiahenkenengjiugennichanshengzhengzhi，rangdajiadeguanliangengweijiaolvbuan。qiadangdezuofagaishiruhedeni？qiewangxiakan。

一、丈夫老公精神出轨的缘故

 shenglixuqiuwufadedaodadao。tamenzheileigerenxingweideshenhoutixiandezhenghaoshishenglixuqiuwufadedaodadao，yejiushidajiadefuqishenghuobuhexie。danglaogongyouyaoqiudeqingkuangxianilengdanhuijue，huoshishiyouyuduibicizhijiandelejieershiqushenmigan。

 yali。yalijirenchanshengdezhuanbianshipiqibaozao，minganduoyi，xiabanlefanhuijiashiquanburenchengpibeideqingkuang。dangnanrenzaodaoyalishi，jiarulaopobukeyijiyukuanweihejili，fensanhuatadezhuanzhuli，shitazaicidaqijingshen，fandaoyimaiyuan、lengyanlengyudeyikouqiranglaogonggengweiyanjuan，neitaxintaibaofayeshizaowandeshi。

 jiejuekuzaowuweiderichangshenghuo。jiaowangjiule，zaisuonanmianzaochengshijuepilao，“sannianzhitong”、“qinianzhiyang”yeshilaiyuanyuduihunyinshenghuodeyanfan。“hunyinshenghuoshiganqingdemuzang”，shijishangyeshiyouyubicidebudangyunying。dangrichangshenghuozhujianyuelaiyuepingpingdandanfaweideqingkuangxia，nanshengbianhuiyiciwaiyizhongfangfalaizhaoxuncijixing，erwaiyubianshizaiqizhongyizhong。

二、挽留移情别恋丈夫的错误行为

 hunyinshenghuofashengnanti，shiliangrendeyiwu。jianxinmeiyigenvrenzaijiarenshiyemeiyouxiangguozishendenanshengyouyitianhuiwaiyu。yincidangzhangfuchuguihou，meifajianxin，“weihetahuineiyangdaiwo？”，shijishang，hunyinshenghuoyizhishiliangrendeshi，chulenanti，yezhiyoushiliangrendenanti。zheiyilejie，zhenduiwanhuilaogongdexinshihenzhongyaode。buran，nihuaizhezenghendexinquwanhuilaogongdexin，qiebuluntashibeiniwanliuhuoshibihui，neiyangderiziguoxialaiduibenren、jiazhongnaizhi２gedajiazuquanshiyizhongcuican。

 meishenmemudidezhengzhizongshirangjihuamaodun，lianggerenyuelaiyueyuan。zhengzhishisha？zhengzhibianshiliangbazui，bulijingrendedanaodeguolv，hulaladejiangchuyidaduihanyougongjinenglideyuyan。nijuedezishenmeiyouzaizhengzhi，jinjinzaijiangli，zaibiaoshu，keshitabingbuneiyangjuede，tayeshiyouzishenkaolvdaoheyuanyin，nide“biaoshu”bianshizaifourentadejiaofa！zanchengdehuajihubianshijingjianjianduande，jinyoufourendehuacaihuiraowanzi。nixuyaogaoqingchu，zhengzhidegenbenyuanyinlaiyuanyufenqi，keshizhengzhikendingbingbushigoutongjiaoliudeyizhong，gengbingbushihuajiemaodundefangshi。zhengzhizongshirangfenqikuozhang，rangtanbengdedajiayuelaiyueyuan，shinigengweinanguo，shitagengbukenhuijiale。

三、挽留移情别恋丈夫的恰当作法

 zuixian，laopokandailaogongyaojinkenengduoyixietiexinyuwenwan。nvxingdetiexinyuwenwanduifangzhichuguinanrenshizuihaoshidewuqizhuangbei。jiusuanzhangfuqueshichuguile，tayehuilaolaoshishidizainiwenwandejingongxiajianqibaiqi。shijishang，yumuhuduibi，shanjierenyidenvxingyizhibulushengsedijiangnanshengannaibuzhudexinwanquanxiyin。

 cizhi，xiangjinbanfabaituohunyinshenghuochanshengdeshijuedeshenmeipilao。hunyinshenghuoheganqingduibi，shaoleyisilanman，duolexuduolingsui，shaoleyisireqing，duolexuduopingpingdandan。ganqingnenggoufenbugushen，hunyinshenghuozeyidabanguishuyujibuqishiduoshaoyilian。yinci，qingshanggaodenvrenhuixiangjinbanfabaituohunyinshenghuochanshengdeshijuedeshenmeipilao。erjutizuofa，ziranyaoyagenxiangxiqingkuangerzhiding。liru，gaibianxianzhuangdewaizaihebenzhi，jinyouduizhengzhiliao，caikeyiliaoxiaoxianzhu。jinyouneiyang，caikeyishiwaiyuzhangfuhehaoruchu。

 zuizhong，nvrenyaoweipingpingdandandehunyinshenghuoyinruxinxianyangfen。shichangdiweizheiyiduanqinggantishengxiereqing，rangbicifanhuichulianqingrenyiyangdetianmei。nvxingbubirenweijialerenjiuwuxuchuanzhedaban，zaijialiqinjianchijiazhongjiuhuibianwei“renlaozhuhuang”。nvrenyaoyoudandudejingjifazhangongzuonengli，neiyangcaikeyizaijialilingrenxinfu，bingqienvxingyouzishendegongzuocaiburongyiyoukongyudeshijianlaoshihusiluanxiang。

四、更改相处模式

 yitongzhuiyi。ninishifouhaijidedajiadangshizaiyiqitanlianaishizuiaizuodeshiershishama？nishifouhaijide，dajiayiqiandetianmeizhuiyishishama？ninenggenlingyifangyiqizuoyixiedajiadouxiaikeshiyoufeichangshaozuodeshier，laiyitongxunmiyiqiandemeihaojiyideyucitongshi，youkeyirangzaoyifuhexingdedajiaduiganqinggengyouxindecijixinggan，weidajiadeganqingtishengyidianshiyongxiangliao，yuelaiyuegenglaogu。

 duanqineizongtimubiaoguilv。tashiguishuyudajia２gezhongjiandegerenmubiao，nenggoushiyiqiqulvyou，yiqiquyundongjianshen，yiquxuexitiaowu，biciyongyouyitongdezongtimubiao，bianhuirangdajialiangrenzhongjiandejianjujianshao，youkeyijinxingdajiadezongtimubiao，wanchengmubiaodeqineiyoukeyitigaodajiazhongjiandeqinggan，youkeyitishengdajiazhongjiandemeihaojiyi，rangdajia２gezhongjiandeqingganyuelaiyuexingfu。

 xiao、kailang、shehuizhengnengliang。meiriweichileguandexintai，wulunpengdaoshenmewenti，fashengleshenme，xuehaoyongkailanglianghaodexintaiquduidainanti，rutongqingganzixunshimaikeleigelaoxianshengchangshuode，dangyigerennengzixinxingaoxingderichangshenghuo，shanyufajuerichangshenghuodekuaile，tadeweixiaohexingweiquanshiyouganzhaolide，jishizheigerenwuguanbingbuhaokan。jiangzishendeshehuizhengnengliangchuansongjilingyifang，dajiadeguanlianhuixiangzhegengweijijizhudongyouliangdefangweifazhanqushi。

 zhangfuweihelaogongjingshenchugui，ruhewanliuyiqingbieliandezhangfu？qingganzixunshimaikeleigelaoxianshengshuoguo，zhangqixingguanlian，shijishangjianyanzhi，bianshiranglingyifangduijianglaiyouzhewujinxiangxiangshineikongjian，bingqieganjuegennizaiyiqihuishifenxingfukuaile、shifenjingcaifencheng、shifengengyouyiyi。laogongjingshenchugui，tongchangdaibiaozhedajialiaobushangyikuai，laogongchuguilezenmegoutong?dajiadegoutongjiaoliumeifazaitongyicengjishang，naizhijiushinimeifabaozhenglejiehejilita，caihuishitadezhuanzhulijiertoudaociwaiyigenengshitazaisixiangfangmianweichixinyoulingxiderendeshenshang，zaochengtayiqingbielian。yaoxiangwanliu，jiubixuxunzhaoyuangu，bingqinfengenlingyifangweichizaitongyijiaobushang，bianchengzuilejietaderen。