老公变心，怎么通过沟通去挽回？老公为什么变心

 xiaofenwanhun8nian，youyige6suidehaizi，laogongshidaqiyedeguanliceng，tazigezekaiyijiazhongxiaoxingdemeirongyuan，fufushouyiposhen，richangshenghuofanmang，danyesuanshixingfukuaile。laogongweishenmebianxin？

 kexiaofenjinqizongganjue，laogongbuduijing，qizaotanhei，changchangwaichu，fangfoyoujishizaimanzheta。wendaoyuangu，laogongbianshuogongzuozhongmang，qiyeyoufashoudezhunbei，jiaojiduodengdeng。

chuziyunvrenmingxiandediliugan，xiaofenganjueyijianshibingmeiyouzheimejiandan，laogongdagailvshuohuangle。

 youyici，tahuijiadaolushang，kandaolelaogongdeche，qianzuoyezuoleren，dangtaxiaopaobuxiangqianshi，lvdengliang，laogongdechefeichierqu。

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 neiyiciyihou，xiaofenyoufajueleyixiezhenxiang，lirutazailaogongdefuzhuangdaizijiandaobinguandeshoukuanpingzheng，erneiyigeriqilaogongyeshihenwanhuijia。

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yishizhijian，xiaofenbuqingchugaizenmeban。

 qinggandeshi，zuibutaihaokaoliang。nicaiyilaogongchugui，danruguomeizhuodaoxianxingbiaozhun，mangmugenfengquchize，tayidinghuiqiangciduoli，jueburenzhang，haihuijixudaodayipa，shuoniwuliqunao。

youshininenghenqi，ganjuenanrenbanidangshaguashua，danoueryoujiaoxingxinli：wanyizishenqueshiwuxiantaleni？

 woxiangshuodeshi，nidanxin，nicaiyi，danzheixienantibingbuhuixiaotui，nantihuoshizaineili。niyizhizaiyitiantiannanao，yitiantianzhengtuo，yitianyouyitian，nantirengranmeiyouchulidechurukou。

jiarujinineiyangdeyihuo，nenggoufaxiaoxibangwo，dedaoyiciganqingquezhendejiyu，lijizhaochuwentigenbenyuanyin，wanhuihunyin。

猜疑老公出轨，但又没石锤，该用什么方法去认证呢？

一，查交友软件

 xuduonanshengchuguijinjinzhaoxunshenmigan，bingmeiyouqueshilihunle。neitaweilegenghaodibuzaochengjiazhongduijue，zaichuguihouhuichuxianyichangdangxin，huijiashihuiqinglixitong，shandiaoweixinliaotianjilu，shinizhanjinshajue。

danshanchule，niyirannengcongduanxiaoxi，tongxunjilulixunzhaozhenxiang。

 yeyoushoujiweixin，chayichashifouyouxinhao，weixinpengyouquanshifouyouhesheihudongjiaoliujingchang，fayuniyouguandejutineirongshishifouyoupaixupingbidiao，huoshiyouwubiedeneirongbujinikande。

jiarutayouniyongyuanbuzhidaodemimi，neimenihaiyaodangxinle。

二，查消费记录

chuxuka，shoujiweixin，zhifubaoqianbaozheixiedexiaofeijilu，quanshihenzhijiede，tayounacengmiandekaizhi，yimuleran。

daezhuanzhang，diandan，dade，maidongxijilu，biedexiaofeizheixie，dounenggouzhaodaozhuyaoyongtuhedongxiang，jinerzhaodaogenyuan。

shoujiandizhi，waimaisongcanxiangxidizhi，jiunengqingxitashifoujiqitanvshimailelipin，dingguocanzheixie。

三，你俩的友好度

 yiqiezhengchangfufudoushiyouqinmiwujiangerenxingweide。jiarutayizhizhaogezhonggeyangyuanyin，dichuni，bupengni，zhaogeleituociqizaotanhei，naizhiyebugui，yeyouyixieturanmaochude，niyongyuanbuzhidaolaiyuanyudexiguanxingxihao，zheizhongdounengcongcebianbiaomingtayouzhuangkuang。

 liruyigenanren，congbukanzongyijiemuhanguodianshiju，huranyouyitiankankanertanyunitanqizheizhonghuatitaolun；liruyigenanrenpingchanghenlalilata，danmouyishijianfanweitafeichangzaihuzishendedapeihepinpaixingxiang；zailiruyigenanren，yiqifengfa，gejirijiuxuyaolaiyici，hurantabupengni，chiroudehuranhensule。fashengxiangjinzhuangkuang，douxuyaoyinqizhongshi。

 xuduonvrenzailaogongchuguihouxinlaitanta，xingshenjingmingan，zongaiminganduoyi。jishilaogongqueshihedisanzheduandiao，tamenhuoshibuganxiangxinlaogonghuizhenxinshiyizhonggui。

yaoxiangxinlai，quekandaomeifazaiduxinlai。yincijiuyizhineiyangdanxin。

yingduilaogongdechugui，gairuheqiadangwanliuni？

 zhenduizanmenzheixiechangreneryan，90%deyingxiangshizaijiaoliuzhongjinxingde，wanliudoubuchuwai。danchuguihouhunyinshenghuoxiufudegoutongjiaoliu，hezanmenpingchangdegoutongjiaoliu，shibuyiyangde。

 pingchangdegoutongjiaoliu，chulidejiushinantizishen。erchuguihouhunyinshenghuoxiufudegoutongjiaoliu，bixuyongai，yongzhenxinshiyi，yongzhenxinshiyi，bashouleshangdeguanlianxiufu，jianjiandiquanyu，zaiyuliaozhongzaicigoujianyouliangdexinlai。

这类沟通交流关键分为4个时期：

yi，shifangchulaixintai，changkuaidima，danbukeyiwurulingyifang

 nvrenzaoshouchugui，shitiantadedashier，yizhihuiqingxubengkuide。dajiahuikongzhibuzhuzishen，quchize，qujingonglingyifang，haojinduozhongfangfaquxuanxieneixindebiequhebumanyi。

 zheileixintaishihenchangguide，womenyaojienazheishicuiruo，naizhiyoudianerchouedezishen，xiangmabianquma，xiangxuanxiebianquxuanxie。danzanmenhaiyaoqingxi，ruguowomendezongtimubiaoshixiufuhunyinshenghuo，neiwururengedehuazuihaoshibuyaoshuo。

queshimeiyoubanfale，jiuweizijianzantingjian。

liru，ninengneiyangshuo：jinriwohenlei，yuemabiciyuebushufu，jinrijiudaozheiliba。

bazhongzhizhengduo+xinlitihuishuochulai。

huoshinihaikeyibiaoshuzigedetihui，jiqiduilingyifangdeguiding。ninengneimeshuo：

xianzaiwohennanguo，xinlibushufu，niruguozhenxiangzheguorizidehua，zheizhongtianniduiwohaodiankeyima？

 zaihunyinshenghuoxiufuzhichu，nvrenganglejielaogongchugui，haichuzaibukezhixindechijinghuanjie，bicidejiedi，tichuzhiyi，bulijie，moshenggan，juligan，quanshihenchangguide。

 xiufuzaoyiyouliewendeguanlian，yuanbenbianshiyitiaoyouzhangdelu。biejigongjinli，biandemanyidian，rangzishenhuanyihuan，hanyanghaozishen，caiyouqiliyinglaixiamiandetiaozhan。

er，guanlifangfahaozishendexintai，tingyitinglaogongchuguideyuangu

 nanshengchugui，yidingshiyouyuanyoude。zheiyiyinsukenengshiduogefangmiande。dajiayexuyaogaoqingchuluojiguanxi，bingbushilaogongchugui，caizaochengnimenhunyinshenghuodengliang；zhishinimendehunyinshenghuofashenglenanti，ernimenmeifajuehuoshimeiquchuli，caizaochengchuguide。

 jishinibabudebatasuishiwanduan，niyeyaotingyitingtadezhenshitihuihexinliniantou，yaogaoqingchuchuguideyuangu，caiyouzhuyushihouguanliandexiufuhegaijin。

 zaizheigequanguochengli，yaoliuyiguankonghaozishendexintai。niyidandongnu，xiangranglaogongtanbaishuobianhuiyuelaiyuejianxin，nitingjiandejiangbingbushizhenxinhua。

jinyougaoqingchunantichuzaineili，caihaopingdingnimendeguanlian，caikeyilejieyihoudeluzenmeyangzou。

san，sikao，bicifanshengzijizaihunyinguanxilidebugou

 dajialaoshiyaomianduixianshide，hunyinshenghuochulenanti，rizihaixuyaozaiciyiqiguo，neiweilegenghaodirihoudexingfukuaile，jiuxuyaobalihunzuoweizongti，bicifenbiefanshengzijizaihunyinguanxilidebugou。

fenlisisuo，huoshixunzhaozixunguwendexiezhu，suihouzaiheairentaolun，goutongjiaoliu，baxindakai，bawupinrousuilejiangchuqu。

 fufuyiqishangyi，ruhequdadaobicizhijiandeyaoqiu，bazhiqianxiangshuochudehuashuochulai，rangbierendongdenidetihui，zaiyiqichuangjianxindezongtimubiao。

 zheieryetishiyixienvshi，nanshengyexuhuizaichuguihouyouzheizhongdebianbo：wochuguishiyouyunitaiqianghan，jiushinibuzuwenwan，jiushinibuzuxingganmiren，buzutiexin……yinci.wozhaoqitarenle。

 zheishinixuyaoyouzijidefenbian，bubiyiweidijianxintashuodehua，gengbunengbeitadaikenglilaidao。renheshike，yiqiechangsuo，renheyuanyin，tachugui，tapanbianleni，jiushitadecuo。jinguanyunishiduoshaoyoudianerguanlian，dangengduodeqingkuangzaitaneibian。

si，xiufuqi：gongpinghuihua，bicizhijianzhongshi，jijizhudongyijianfankui

婚姻生活裂缝的修复，有2个关键标示：

yishixuehuifangxiashouhairenrenwujiaose，fangleziji，baozhengzhenzhengdekuanronglingyifang

ershilingyifangyaozhenxinshiyizhiqian，zhenxinshiyizhonggui

 nvrendaduoshushilixingde，nifancuowule，jiarunengzhenxinshiyizhiqian，nengjiandaotadetongchu，nengxintongta，bingbiaomingkuijiu，suihoufazifeifuzaisandibiaoshuqianjiu，neitayiranhuiyourouguaduande，yehuirenweizishenbeijieshile。

 zheishidegoutongjiaoliu，fufuliangfangdouxuyaojijizhudongyijianfankuizhenzhengdexinlitihui，bingquedingbierenshifouganjueneiyangxiufumeishenmewenti。

 nimenhainenggouyiqisansanbu，liumaoliugou，kandianshiju，tanyitanxinliniantou，kanyixiaguanlianshifouhuibianhao。nimenhainenggouyiqizhufan，xianliao，nenggouqulvyou，huanyigeshengshudeziranhuanjing，changkaixinfei，nenggouqupashan，zaifengdingxuguomeihaoshenghuodexinyuan。

 zongdelaishuo，womenyaodakaiziji，rangzishenzaiguanlianlishishifangyalimoshide，buhuizaiqumaiyuanhechize，suihouzaiquxiufu，qushezhixindebiaozhun，yiqiweihubaoyangguanlian。

niwangwangzaiyi，shiyouyunihaishiaita。yinci，renzhenquxiufu，caisuanshiwanliulaogongzuizhongyaodeguilv。

 jiranquedingyaokuanrong，tiaoxuanlexiufuzheitiaodaolu，jiuxuyaoxianghaoruhebazheitiaodaoluzouwenzoushun，qianwanbieyouyubuding，beiqitawupinweihaixinqing。

 laogongweishenmebianxin？zaikuanronglaogongdeqingkuangxia，shiyoujiagou，youbiaozhun，youbiaozhunde，buranlaogonghuoshidagailvhuizaiduchuguidee。