出轨的男人，拿哪些来拯救婚姻

 zhangfuchuguilihun zenmewanhui?zaihunyinzhong，nvxingyizhi1gelaoruobingcan。wulunjiazhongchuxianlenaxienanti，haoxiangquanshinvxingdecuo。zheizhangqiyilaiquanshifuquanzhishehuifazhanjinvxingliuyoudekebeihewukenaihe。

 congmingnvrenzaozaoyikanchuanzheishenglisibie，gangkaishiduihunyinbuhuaiyouqidai，eryizhaozishendeqingxuhaohaodehuozhe，fandaoshiriyulaiyucanlan。neima，zhangfuchugui，nanaxielaizhengjiuhunyinni?

一：自立

 chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?dangyigenvhaizili，buyilaiyunanrenerhuodeneishihou，tarenjiugangkaishiduizheiyinvxinglingyanxiangkan。youyuzheiyinvxingzhenshidizhaodaozishendeshehuijiaose，gangkaishidandudanfuqiqiyeshehuizeren。tahuodejianxinyouyutazishentiaoxuan，tahuodexiaosayouyutakaoziji，tahuodetanranyouyutayouzishendezizunhexinxin。

 dangnikeyibazishendejiazhongqingxideganjingzhengjie，zishendegongzuozhongzuodejingranyouxu。nanrenzaiqianyishizhongliyehuilejienidewaiqiangzhonggan，jibiantawaiyule，tayehuigaoqingchu，nagewaiyudelingyibangennibiqilai，benzhijiubuyizuolaopo，erzhiheshizuo1gewanjuhezhuanyonggongjueryi。zhangfuchuguilihunzenmewanhui?zhangciyiwang，nanrenbidinghuiyanjuan。zhangfuchugui，nanaxielaizhengjiuhunyin-zhangfuchuguigaizenmeban

二：独立

 renzheiyibeizizuiguanjiandejiezhujiushishuozishen，dangzijimingbaidulishizheijianzhongrendeneishihou，jiuhuiyuelaiyueyingyonghekailang。youyuzheiyibeizideluzhongguihuanshiyaoyikaozijizou。nanrenwangwanghenxinshenierqu，youyutacongnineibiankanbujiantabixudezhiliang，jiarufufubicibukeyixianghuzhijianshangxi，neimatamendeganqingjiuhuibeishoudaofeichangdayingxiang。chuguidenanrenzenmewanhui?

 haodehunyinbidingdaibiaofufubicidegoutongjiaoliu、gongxiang，naizhibaohandanduderenshengjiazhiguanhejiazhiquxiang。jiarubicizhongjianyeyoushangxiherentong，neimadajiadehunyinjiuburongyiyouyutadewaiyuerturanzhijianmaixiangwangguo。san：xinxin

 ganqinglaiyuanyuyuwang，erhunyinzebixushiji，nanrenqinshenjingliguoyigenvhaiyihou，tadaliangdeshiqidaihoubiandenvxingjuyouqianbianquanbunvxingdeyoushi，erqiehainianqingmaomei。

 keshiquehandeshi，shijijihudouburongyineimabujinrenyi。yincizailianrencengmiancunyoubianjixiaoyongdijian。nanrenhoubianzaizhaogududeshihou，zheiyizongtitihuihuiyuelaiyuejianjiandijiangdi。zheihaikeyilejiexuduozaihundeweiheyizhiganjuehunyinhaibibushangzhiqiandenagehaoni?yinci，zuoweilaopo，zhangfuchugui，nibubiyinererfourenzishenquanbuderenhe。

 yaolejie，nanrenjihuyemeiyounixiangxiangdeneimafeichangrongyikaolv。keshijiarunidongxinxin，youzishenhuozhudelixianghuahexinxin，neimaniyaojianxin，shijianbidinghuibazuiqueshiqingganjiaohuidaonishenbian。

 dangyigenvhaimingbaizili、duli，xinxin，tajiuburongyisuibianxiangshijidixiatou，jibianyigerenguo，yemeishenmebudui。gengburongyizaiyinanrenshizenyangpanbianleta。

 yinweinvrenyaomingbaishuobailezuiwanmeideaiqing，zaiwanhunneiyishunjianzaoyishizaijian。shuobailede“xiaogongzhu”zaihunyingangkaishideneiyishunjianzaoyibeijiangzhi“wupo”。zheiyiquanshijiezhenshiwomenyiqipiaoliangde，jiushishuorenmendezili、dulihexinxin。