伴侣背着你和别人发信息暧昧怎么办

 yixierenshuo，zaiwangluoshejiaohudongdeshidai，renmengengrongyizuobi。xiangxiangxianzairenmenshiyongdesuoyoushejiaoruanjian。xuduorenyongtalaihuxianglianxi。shenzhixuduoshejiaoruanjianyebeiyonglai“yuyue”。hunnei ☞chugui deyuanyinyounaxie？ruhekefuhunyinchuguiweiji？

一、伴侣背着你和别人发信息暧昧怎么办

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