老婆出轨后老公该如何是好？

 nvrenchuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？laopochuguilegaizenmeban，zheishibuguangezainagenanshengdeshenshangdouhaowuyiwenshiyigezhongbangxiaoxidingshizhadan，yexumeiyigenanshengdefanyingbuyiyang，danqizichuguizheijianshiqingjinanshengchanshengdexintaizhuangtaichongjixingshiyiyangcunyoude。zuoweinansheng，zuidanxindemoguobeidailvmao，danruoneiyangdeshierqueshifashengle。

 laopochuguilegaizenmeban，zheishibuguangezainagenanshengdeshenshangdouhaowuyiwenshiyigezhongbangxiaoxidingshizhadan，yexumeiyigenanshengdefanyingbuyiyang，danqizichuguizheijianshiqingjinanshengchanshengdexintaizhuangtaichongjixingshiyiyangcunyoude。zuoweinansheng，zuidanxindemoguobeidailvmao，danruoneiyangdeshierqueshifashengle，yezhiyouquyingduita。womenyiqilaikanyixiahunlianjiaoyouxinlizixunshiyouguanlaopochuguilegaizenmebandechudeyixietiyi。

最先，考虑到自身的心里可否均衡。

 zaizuofufuzixundegelizhong，yibancunyouneiyangyigeguilvxing。jiarubicimeiyou“yuanzewentidenanti”，tongchanghuimoheqihao、xiubuhao。erjiaruyifangchuxianle“yuanzewentidenanti”zezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuojiangzaoyuyanjunxingshi。waiyuhehunhouchugui，xianeryijianshi“yuanzewentidenanti”。youyu，xifuchuguineiyangdeshier，duobanhuidaozhilaogongxinlijidadebupinghengli。jiuruxiaogushizhongnanzhurenwengxinlidejidabiequ、zenghendengbupinghengli。jiaruyaoxianghunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu，neimayidingshiyaokeyijunhengxinlizheileitongchuhebupinghengli。jiarujunhengbushang，neimazhihouzairichangshenghuoheyingduixianghushi，bicideguanlianbianhuichuzaiyizhongshidiaozhong，wufazhangqifazhanqushi。youshi，yushijingzishuaihuailejiuqueshisuilewufazaihaiyuan。fuqizhijianyongyouhunhouchuguihuowaiyuhoudesunhaitongchangbianshizheiban。

次之，刚开始自我反省。

 “wenchongbudingwufengpinjiededan”huacaolibucao。yidingqixiandajiadehunyinshenghuochuxianlenanti，suihoucaihuishihunyinshenghuozhongdeyigerenxunzhaohunneichuguijiyu。yinci ，qidaipengdaoxifuchuguinanrenkeyijingxialaixiangyixiang，zishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongshifouhaozhangshijianhushilelaopodetihui，huoshijinjinyiweideyizhaozishendejuedequaita，danzishenjidebingbingbushilaoposuoyaoxiangde。neiyangxiangyixiang，jianghuihuijiangdiyixieduichuguiqizidenaonuhezenghen。lingwaiyehuiranglaopoganjuelaogongkeyiduitayixielejie，duixiubuliangrendeqingganshiyouxiezhude。

第三，再次思考大家中间的情感。

 jiarushuolaogongailaopobilaopoailaogongyaoduoyixie，huoshiduohenduo。laogongbixusisuoyixiazishenjiyutadeai，zhendeshitasuobixudeaima?yaobushi，niyebixujingxiaxinyongxindelaixiangyixiang，niliangshibushiqueshiheshizaiyiqi。

第四，看老婆对婚姻生活是不是有确立的心态。

 yaowoduizhishanghunyinshenghuobukailangdeshixifuchuguizaibeifajuehoudexintai，tadexintaimeiyouxianzhudegaijin。rangwohaizaiyixietichuzhiyitashibushihaishenaizhezishendelaogong，yetichuzhiyitakandairujinhunyinshenghuodexintai。huoxuliangrenbixuwanquandehaohaoditanyitan。laogongruxiangzaicihunyinshenghuo，zuixianyaojiandaolaopoduihunyinshenghuozhihoudeyigequelidexintai，tadexinshibushiyiranzaizheigehunyinshenghuozhong?huozuishaoxiangyaozaicifanhuizheiyihunyinshenghuozhong?zheihenzhongyao。buran，laogongdekuanrongjinjinweizijizaiyicifushangdejiyubale。

 nvrenchuguihoudebiaoxianyounaxie？yigenanrenxiangyaokuanrongzishenqizichugui，yidingshizheigenanrenhenhenaizhezheiyinvxing。keshizhiyouyigerendeaiqingshibunengweichihunyinshenghuode，yinci aiyoushihouyehuichanshengsunhai，qingnanrenmenshensishulvkaoliangshangbiansidian，suihoujinidehunyinshenghuozuochuzishendejuece。