发现妻子出轨变心怎么办？

 nvrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？renhuoyibeizi，huizaoshoushiduoshaowanbanwunaideshi，ouyushiduoshaoenyuanqingchouderen。zhenduiyigenvreneryan，taruhunyinshenghuocaisuanshiwanshandeqishidian。nvxingdaduoshushilixinghuade，jirandangshitiaoxuanjiageleni，neiyidingshibanikankandegaoyuyiqie。keshihunyinshenghuozhongjiubuyiyangganqing，bingbushimeitiantan......

 renzheiyibeizi，dajiadouqidaizishenyouyigewennuandejia，meiriquanshigekuailederen。danzairichangshenghuozhong，bingbushiyiqiedoujinrenyuan，meiridajiadoushipengdaogeshigeyangdekunaohejiannan。dangxifuchugui，jiatinghunyinzaoyukunjing，niyinggaizenmeban，xifuchuguigaizenmeban?niyougaizenmezuo?ganshenme，caikeyirangzishenbaituoqingxudexiaokanni?

一、思索该怎么办

 renhuoyibeizi，huizaoshoushiduoshaowanbanwunaideshi，ouyushiduoshaoenyuanqingchouderen。zhenduiyigenvreneryan，taruhunyinshenghuocaisuanshiwanshandeqishidian。nvxingdaduoshushilixinghuade，jirandangshitiaoxuanjiageleni，neiyidingshibanikankandegaoyuyiqie。keshihunyinshenghuozhongjiubuyiyangganqing，bingbushimeitiandaqingmaqiao，meitianlanmande，zhishipingpingdandanzhongdexiangzhixiangxi。dangnvxingjuededaofuqijiandezhuangkuangbingbushiruzishensuoyugudeneiban。rujiazhongjingjifazhanqingkuangbutaihao、fuqizhijiansanguanbuhe、poxizhijianbuhe、jiazhongneiwaiziranhuanjingbutaihaodengyaosu，daozhifuqiganqingyulaiyujiaolvbuan，duihunyinaiqingjuedeshifenxinhan，shichuguinvrendetuidonglizhiyi，youyuzishenbukeyihuodezishenyaoxiangdeshenglixuejiqixintaizhuangtaishangdeguanxin。

 dangxifuchuguidenantichulai，yizhiyaoquyingduide，neijiangzenyangyingduixifuchugui。dajiashibushiyaokuanronglingyifangni?yifangmian，ruguowomenzhuyaobiaoxianchujuebujinjinjijiao，henqingqingsongsongdikuanronglingyifang，neidaibiaozhedajiaduilingyifangkandebingbushihenzhongyao，youyutadehaobuzaiyidouhaimeijinijuededaozaoshousunhai。zheiduichuguidelaopoeryan，jianghuiyeshiyizhongfangren，tahuiganjueniyagenjiubuzaiyita。zheiduibeikuanrongdeyifangfandaohuichanshengyizhonggengbijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。lingyifangmian，dajiaguidinglingyifangduizheishikaizhanbiaoshuhuoshizhiqian。niwangwangneiyangmingquetichu，zuishaobiaoming，nijilingyifangyigejiyu，ranglaopolejienideguandian。jiarulingyifangzhiqian，fandaoduixianghudeganqingshiyizhongshifangchulai，rangxianghudounenggengweizhenzhengkandaolingyifangzhenzhengrendebenxingdeyimian，baituoxiaohaimenghuanbandexiangxiang，rangxianghunenggougengweitiejinzhenshidelingyifang。

二、应当干什么

 shidaidebianqian，rangnvxingxiangnanshengyiyangzonghengchichengyuchuruzhichang，xiangnanshengyiyangyaochulaizhuanqianzhuanqianyangjia。zaizhirenyuanchangzhongmeiyigerendoubuyi，yibiangongzuozhongshafeikuxin。tamenzaigongzuoshang，yiyanghuipengdaoneiyangneibandemafanshi。keshinvxingchuwaizailei，zaifanhuijialeyeyaozhufan，xiyifu，shoushiwuzi。yincinvxinghuodeyulaiyujianxin。erzuoweizhangfu，yidingyaoyoutiwulaopojianxindexin，yaojijididanfuqiyibufenjiawuhuo，yishentilixingganshoulaopodejianxin。youfantongchi，youhuotonggan，huannanyugong，huxiangzhaogu。zheizaiyidingshuipingshangnenggouhuanjielaopodejianxin，haikeyisuzaoliangrendeqinggan。

 wanhunshiniyunidelaopobuguanshuoqinaxie，dounengyoulaiyouqu，yongyuefayan，huojianjieyizhi，lejietongyang，bingqiebuguanrenhedouxiangyaohelingyifangshangyi。bansuizheshijiandejiaobu，dajiahainengzheibangoutongjiaoliuwujin，nidehunyinshenghuoyidingburongyibutaihao。zenyangbaozhengzheiyidian?bubikaolvyuxiankuang。zuoweizhangfu，nixuyaobuduankuozhangnidezhishicengmian。rangzishenbianchengyigebaikecidian，keyihuiyingchulaopopengdaodenanti，neiyanglaopobianhuiduinilingyanxiangkan。niduidangjinshehuidedongtaixingzhangwodeyueda，jiuyuenenggentarenkaiqihuatitaolun。rangzishenbianchengyigefengquyoumoderen。danghelaopoxianliaoshi，nikendingbuhuijinjinzuoxialaidiandiantoufuhe，nikeyijiyiduanjiaotantishengxindehuatitaolun，nikeyigongxiangquweidekeguanshishi。nidezhishicengmianyuekuankuo，niyejiuyuenengbawojiaotandemaixiang。

 yaoxuezhezhongshilingyifang，shangxilingyifang。duiweiwandewomenzhongguoreneryan，qingmianshishifenguanjiande，tebieshizaizairenqian。yiner，qianwanbuyaozaibierenyanqianzhizenideairen，jibiantashuolebuzushidangdehua，jiarujianzhineiyang，niyaoxiangwanliuta，neizenmerangxifuhehaoruchuyeshiyizhongfangfa，yincinixuyaojitamenchongzudezhongshi。ciwai，yiqiebixuyongxinqingtinglingyifangdejianyi，jiusuanjinjinquchaoshimaiyigecaipan。youqishihaizijiaoyunanti，bicijianyiyaojinkenengbaochiyizhi。xianghushangxi：shangxilingyifang，baohanta/tadequexian。bubiwangturanghunyinshenghuohuozhezishendeaigenggailingyifang，jinyouxuehaojieshoubingshangxi，caikeyirangguanliangenghemu。

三、什么务必做

 zuixian，yaoxuehaojunhengzishendexinli。renshengdaolutianmanzhexiongyongpengpai，jinyou1tiaolubukeyixuanze，neibianshixuehuifangxiadelu，jinyou1tiaolubukeyihuijue，neibianshifazhandelu。yinciyaoxuehaojunhengzishendexinli。junhengdebennengfanyingnenggouzaojiuwenzhuanyiyangdexingfukuaile。yigemingbaibingnenglinghuoyunyongjunhengguilvderen，jiangjizijiyushenbianderenchanshengfenghoudexingfukuaileyuzidegan，youyutahuizaojiuyigeaidexunhuan。

 cizhi，baochihemudefuqixingshenghuo。fuqixingshenghuoshihunyinshenghuoyoubieyubiedeguanliandeyagenchabie，yeshiyiqiezhengchanghunyinshenghuodebiyaotiaojianhejiben。renheyifangweiciweibiaozhun，weixielingyifangyiqiuqubiedemudizuofaquanshiduihunyinshenghuodecanhai。xinghexiedefuqi，qingganyibandouhenhao。xingdebufuheshifufuyifangwaiyudebenzhiyuangu。shiyongqinrendeshenxinjiankangxihao。gerenxingquaihao，yaoshishishenxinjiankangdedouyinghuodeshiyong。yigeyouxihaoderenshiqianxinde，tuodangde。xihaonenggoubangtafenyou，hainenggoujitamenkaixin，genghuilingrenjuederenshengdeyiyi。

 zuizhong，yaoxianghuodexiaosa，jiugai“jilaogaijilaode，wangdiaogaiwangdiaode”。yingduixifuchugui，shideduifubianshirangzishenguodegengqiang，yizheileifangfacaijianghuichanshengxinlidediaojie。diaojieshisha?haosihainingshigechangshuode：“diaojie，jubeizhenshideshiyongjiazhifenliang，erkuanrongzewu”。zheidaibiaozhe，dajiachengnuozishenyouyigexindeqidian，erxinkaishideyibufenshi，yuanyijuebuzaifanhuifangzhunaohoudeyiwang，liruzuotianyisi，jintianhuishigexinkaishi。zheijiushidiaojie。”nenggouxiangqi，renbujiuneimeyibeizima?youyounaxiekanbukaide?chenshijiandekunaoyoulv，enyuanqingchoujishinianhoubudouhuaweiwuyoulemeiyou?youmeiyoushenmebukeyijiejue，bukeyiqixiaodeni?

四、家里老婆为大

 hailinggegaoshou fajueyuzhoukongjianjianyouyigeyanzangdeguilvxing“aidexuwei”，zheiguilvxingbujinjiyutiandiwanwu，yeyunxingzairenmenjiazhonghezuzhijiegounei。dajiaxianghuhudongjiaoliudegerenxingweizaoshou“aidexuwei”deweihai。meiyigerendaojiazhongshangdouyouzishenteshudebuwei，yixiefumianxinxiexingshijiandechanshengbianshiyinweiaiqingnongcuolebuweizaocheng，yixieexingshijiannaizhihuibuduanchansheng，shidaixiangchuan。mangmugenfengdeaichengdanxin，xingwuzuyijiejue。zaijiazhongzhong，laopoqizheqianwanjiadegongxiao。yincizhuyaoguanlianbianshiyaojiejuehaohelaopodeguanlian。dangfuqiganqingbijiaohaodeshihou，zuoshenmeshiqingcaikeyiyourenyouyu，shunxinruyi。nenggouzhidingyigefuqiganqingbaoyangfangan。lirumeixingqibaoyang：meixingqilianggerenzuishaofenpei1cibushaoyu2zhongtoudegoutongjiaoliu，tuidongxianghudegoutongjiaoliu。lirudajianenggouyiqichulaiyongcan，yiqikandianyinghuotingxi，shouqianshouyiqitubudaomoudian，bianzoubiangoutongjiaoliu，huozuobiedeyixielianggerendouhenganxingqudeshi。

 dajiazaijiezoukuaiderichangshenghuozhonghexingmingdezhuxingwuchangzhongjuedemangran，lingwaizaijingshenshizhihexinnianshangyezhujiandemingan。suhuashuodehao：“zhengyizhiyan，biyizhiyan”，danqinghaijideshuo：“zhengyizhiyankanlingyifang，biyizhiyankanzishen。”zuizhongyaodeshidaizheainingwanglingyifang，neimanijianghaiyoujihuidedaolaopodeercixiyin。yaoshimeiyoujiazhongzhongdehunyinpolie，doubumingbaiqianrangheaixi。yibianhunyinshenghuodexiangqian，bixukuanronglaopo，bixumianduixianshi，bixujienazhenzhengdexiankuang。

 rangxianghuqingtuchuzishendelei，huxiangxiangzhu，xiangruyimo，baitouxielao。hunyinshenghuoshijienahekuanrong，bixubicixianghuquyunying。“jinrishi，jinribi”zheihua，budankeyongzaixuexipeixun、gongzuofangmian，yeshichulijiatingjiufendeqiaomen。lianggerenrichangshenghuoyidanchuxianfenqi，jinkenengzaizuiduanqineineichuli，buranfeichangrongyijiazhongliefeng。yiner，zuoweilaogongyaoyouyigehuodadexin，yaoxuezhe“yongzhenxinqupeiyang、yongyongxinquyunying、yongguanaiquhuwei、yongxinlaiquweihubaoyang、yongqianjiuquaixi”hunyinshenghuo。renshijishangbuyongguoduodewupin，yaoshishenxinjiankangdehuozhu，zhenxinchengyishenaizhe，yebukeduodeyizhongpoju。

 nvrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？qudechenggongdementongchangxuyanzhe，ruguoniyingyongqutui，tabianhuihuorankailangdongkai。zaizheigechongmanleyinyouhexinfuqizaodeshidai，mimanzheyunianhefangsi，mimanzhesuiyiheduiwaikaifang。yinci，laogongyaorenzhen、zhenxinshiyiqupeiyang、yunyinghunyinaiqing，caikeyizhushihunyinaiqingzheizuoshangwudashadejiben，caikeyiweichihunyinaiqingliyububaizhidi，jiazhongmeimanxingfu。