假如妻子变心出轨该不该原谅？

 nvrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？henduonvxinghunneichugui,daduoshuyouyuzishendezhangfuduizishenbutaihao,huoshizhangfubuzuchuse。huoshiyouyupoxizhijianjiejuebutaihao，xiaochulexianghujiandeqinggan，yekenengshizhangfuzuolesunhaizishendeshier。ruzhangfuzemaxifu，duixifuxintailengmo，mengpianxifu，shenzhiyoushizhangfu......

很多女性婚内出轨,大多数由于自身的丈夫对自身不太好,或是丈夫不足出色。或是由于婆媳之间解决不太好，消除了相互间的情感，也可能是丈夫做了损害自身的事儿。如丈夫责骂媳妇，对媳妇心态冷漠，蒙骗媳妇，甚至有是丈夫出外相爱的人。

 yongyouzheizhongsunhaizhihou，xifujiuburongyibafuqiguanxikandetaizhong，pengdaowaimianduizishenhaodenansheng，huoxudadongzhizhongbianhuihongxingchuqiang，maixiangwaiyu。neimaqizichuguiyingbuyinggaikuanrongni?dajiahuanshiyaoxiangxiqingkuangshenrufenxi。

一、反省自己，知彼知己。

 qizichugui，weizijidailedailvmao，shikeshabukeru!shurenshubukeren?zuoweiyiqieyigenanrenneixinyidinghenzaoxin，zhenhenbunengbaxifujisuishiwanduan。bulihunba，xinlidudehuang。yuanliangba，youdanyouchuguinvrenyici，shifouhuichengyin，zhihoushifouhuizaicifasheng。shifouhuidierci，disancideyuanliang。rangzishenyuelaiyuemeilejichudeweirenchushidaodedixian。buyuanliangba，xiangyixiangweilaideluyeshizhongzhongkunnan，youyuzishendeneixinzaoshoudesunhaibingbushisuibianjiunengyonghuanbierenlaiwanliude。

 keshinixuyaoxiangxianglihunledehua，zishenkefoujienalihunlededanshennannvyuxiaohaizi，huanshigengnengjienayigezishenqianrangzhizhongwanliulaidekanqilaixiangxidejiani?nayigegengqiangni?nayigeduinichanshengdesunhaigengxiaoni?shiyiruci，dajiajuede，niyebixupingjingxialaitishengsikaozishen，yiqiebiyouyin。zheishibushinijiehunhouyuelaiyuebulangmanle，meiyoujiehunqiandeqinqinwowole，meiyoujixifuhuashijianyongxinle，duixifubuguanxintitiele，yincitacaigudujimo，queshichulaixunkaixinxuncijixing。ruguoshizheileizhuangkuang，dajiajuedeneibianshinizuoweilaogongdenantile，ruguoyigenvrentianshengbianshiqidaibeichongnizhede，tayeshiyoushenaihezhuiqiuwanmeiaidezhipeiquan。zheileizhuangkuangxia，tanenggoukuanrong，feichangzhidekuanrong。

 ruguoshinidelaopoxingqingjiuxihuannianhuarecao，taoyanpingpingchangchangderichangshenghuo，jiuqidainanshengjinjinweiraozhezishenerhuo，xiaiganhuangdanpingdanwuqideshier，neimatajiubuzhinidekuanrong。quangaonihuanshiquannijinzaotingshou，jinzaobaituokunjing，zhaoxunnidedierchunba!zhongjiurenshengkuduan，meibiyaoyouyujiehunqianmeiyoutigaojingti，zhaobuduirenerweihaizishenyishengdehunyinshenghuoxingfukuaile。

二、看妻子出轨后的心态。

 suhuashuodehao：“renwuwanren，shunengwuguo”。qizichuguiyidingyouyidingdeyuangu，yaobushijingshenkongxu，naibuzhujimo，zhuiqiuwanmeicijixing，yaobushimeiyouzhujian，jingbuzhuyinyou。keshijiehunhouqizichugui，yehuibianchengliangrenzhongjianshizhongdejiedi。jiarubicizhongjianyongyouxiaohai，liyidehuayehuiduixiaohaidesunhaigengda。zuoweixifu，xiaohaidemama，renxingwangwei，hunneichugui，duiquanbujiazhongdesunhaiquanshifeichangdade。jiranbicidangshiwanhun，jiuxuyaodanfuqijiazhongdeyiwu，duijiazhongzhongshi。chuziyuduijiatinghemudezhangjiukaolvdao，nihuanshiyaoheqizijingxialaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliuxia。kanyixiaxifuduizishenwaiyudexintaihelejie，kanyixiayoumuyoujiejuekunnandefangshi ，bushangpobudeyi，huanshibubisuibianliyi。yaolejiebaochiyigejiazishenquanshibuyide。jiarutajinjinlveweiduinayigenanshengyoudianeryisi，keshitahuanshishenaizheni，youhuiguozhiyi，neimanijiuxuyaojitajietixia，jitayicihuiguozixindejiyu，suihougaohaogecengmian，zhangwoyixieqizichuguigaizenyangwanhuihunyindefangshi ，jianxindajiahuibidangshigengxingfu。zhongjiufufuhuanshizhengshidehao。ziranninanguoshimianbulede，jiaruxifutianxingbulan，jinjinyuwangwaiyu，erqiezhenxinshiyihuigai。zuoweinansheng，yibianjiazhongdeyizhixing，duliangbiandayidian，yuanliangyicimeishenmelebuqide。

 liangrenkefouguohao，zhongyaoyeyaokaoliangrenzishenyunying。nanshengkeyidajuweizhongbianshihaolaogong。yaolejiexingxingfenshidongwuherenleidequedian，jiaruninengxuehuifangxia，feichangaifeichangaita，jiububizhemozijile。zaizhihouderichangshenghuojianjiandiquxiufuzheiyitongdianba!keshiyuyanzhongjian，yidingyaorangtagaoqingchunideweirenchushidaodedixian，yujiatingduitashouyudeyiwuheqidai，rangtaxiaobianjiazhongxiaohaidexuexipeixun，jiazhongderichangshenghuofenpei，jiecijihuitishenglaopodejiatingzerengan。

 ziran，jiaruxifudewaiyuzishenbianshiyouxinde，shiyigeguannianganqingfengfuduocaideren。ergennimeifagoutongjiaoliu，bingqieduizheiyijiazaoyimeishenmelianlianbusheketan，doubujuedezishenyoucuo，meishenmeneijiudexin，jiarubicidoumeiyouxiaohaidehua，neimaniyejiumeiyoubixuyuanlianghuoshizaichangshiwanliushenmele。zhongjiu，tadexinzaoyizaijialile，nicunzhetaderenyoumeiyoushenmeyongni?bingqieyidannvxingruguobuaile，duoshuowuyi。nvxingtongchangshibijiaominganyouchiqing，aiyigerenyuanyinnenggouchengqianshangwan,buaiyigerendeqingkuangxiayuanyinzhiyouyige:ganqingmeiyoule!nibeidailedailvmao，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，niyejiunenggoubadailvmaofangchulai，yazhidegaozhixifu，wohenaini，jiarunixuyaozhuiqiunishuobailedexingfukuaile，woyefangniquwan，bingzhufutaxingfukuaile。jibianbuzuofufu，yebubizuochoudi。yaokuankuozishendexionghuai，zuonanrenyaonadeqifangdexiabaidexia，zhongjiuqiangniudeguabutian，zhangtongbibushangduantong，rujinliangrenzaiyiqihaibibushangfenlidehao。jiarujuedeshangxin，jiutaitouwangwangtiankongba，taneimedayidingnenggoukuanrongnidequanbubiequ。

三、让自身更为出色一点。

 nanshengshibushichuse，nengfoudanfugaidanfudeyiwu，nvxingdangranfeichangrongyiwaiyu。liru，zairujinzheileishehuifazhan，nanshengyalishanda，yaodanfudeyiwubingbuqingya。dajiachangshuo“wuzi”gaosheng，fangwu，cheliang，jinqian，xiaohai，laopo。suhuashuodehao：pinjianfuqibaishiai，dangnanrennengliyouxian，youshihoujiubuyidingnengfeichanghaodidanfuqizhuanqianyangjia，nvxingjiujijianghuixiangwaiqiuzhu。ernvxingxiangwaiqiuzhujiaoda deziyuanhenuli，jijianghuibianshiroushenjiaqingganle。suoyishuo，nanshengrangzishenyuelaiyuegengchuse，zaizheizhongcengmianbuxunvxingcaolao，dangran，bianhuijiangdichuguinvrendejianghui。

 nanrenyaoxiangshizishenchuse，zuixianyaoyoushangjinxin，cizhiyaoyoujianrenbubadezikongnengli，zuizhongbianshiyaoliuyisuzaozishendesuyang。yigerendeneihan，yanjie，conghuishiyouneixiangxingwaishifangchuqude。xiannenggoucongfajuezishendequediankaolv，jijidijiuzhengta!duokankanxieshehuixue，chongshizijiderendedanao。nenggougenjupubianshezuyixieyoushiyongjiazhideshuheyixiejingcaidedianying，rangzishenyuelaiyueboxueduoshiyouwenzhong。qimadangxifupengdaonantizixunnidejianyishi，nikanqilaihenyouconghuihexiangfa，neiyangdehuanidexifubianhuijingshenshijieyikaoniyuchongbaini。duotingtingyixiegudianfenggeheyazhidegequ，duokankanxieshehuixueheyoupinweidezazhiqikan。duoliuyizishendeyantanjuzhi，busuibiandenaopiqi。niruoyaocushixifugengaizheni，niyeyaogengweidiaita。ruguoshiqichangshizishendesuojiansuowenlejie，neimaguanniandetishengcaijiushinizhuiqiuwanmeiderenshengjingjie。shizhongbitarenxiaxiangyibu，shizhongbitalingpao，zuoxifuxinliqipandezhangfu，erbushiyizhaozishenderichangshenghuoguifanhuozhu。

四、塑造自身豁达大度的气概。

 yaoxiangxionghuaihuodadadu，zhuyaodebingbushixionghuaizenyang，zhishisixiangguanniandefazhan。henduorendouxianmujiduzheixiexinxiongkuanguang，leguanhuoda，buxiaodujichang，bueryuwozha，tairanziruo，bafengbudongdegaoshou。jinguandajiayibanrenmeifabaozhengneiyangderenshengjingjie，danyizhinenggoutishizishen，nanrenyaokongqi，yaozaixiangdulinengchengchuan。renshengdaoluyizhitianmanzhekekebanban，qiqifufu。qizichugui，hunyinshenghuochuxianlenanti，jiaruwufashihuai，ligaobudong，yehuizaocheng zishenheyigejiazhongdebenkui。yinci，zairichangshenghuozhongyaojuyouleguanhuodadeqigai，yaoshanyuzhangkongzishendeqinggan。neiyangruguonipengdaobeijuhuoshilingrenkunaodeshieryekeyitanxiaoziruo。qinfenjiejuetongkuzhenghuoshitongkubukandebeiguanyanshixintai，youqishineixinshijiedejunheng。ruguonidexingqingleguanhuoda，richangshenghuoduozhongduoyangshi，jiumeiyouchanzhunideren，meiyoujinidanxinwangbudiaodeshier。dangrichangshenghuofashengledafududezhuanbianqingkuangxia，niyejuyoulexunsudiaojiezishen，rongruzhuanbiandegongzuonengli。

 haijidemeiguozuijiechudediyicishijiedazhanyuanlaoailingaimuzaitadedi110geshengchenshibiaoshi：wohengaoxingyoukandaolelingyigemingri，nenghuozhezhenhao。rujinhenduorenqueshiyoumofengqu，yiguoduyansurenzhendexintaiduidairenshengdaolu。keshiwoyizhijinkenengmiandaiweixiao，qingqingsongsongkanrenshengdaolu，wonenghuoneimezhang，niyenenggoubandedao。kongzihuole84sui，zai2000henduonianqiandezhanguoshiqikeyishuogaoshouderen。kongzimingquetichurenzheiyibeiziyaoyou“sixin”：ceyinzhixin(ren)，xiuezhixin(yi);bigongbijingdexin(li);shifeizhixin(zhi)。tashilishenchushi，yeshixiushenyangxingyangshengmijue。jindaikexuejialidongyuanshuo：“nushangyuanqi”。doutishiwomenyaoliuyiguanlizijidexintai，suzaozishenleguanhuodadexintaizhuangtai。danghunyinshenghuochuxiannantiqingkuangxia，rongxuzishenxiaochenjiri，keshihenduonvxinghunneichugui,daduoshuyouyuzishendezhangfuduizishenbutaihao,huoshizhangfubuzuchuse。huoshiyouyupoxizhijianjiejuebutaihao，xiaochulexianghujiandeqinggan，yekenengshizhangfuzuolesunhaizishendeshier。ruzhangfuzemaxifu，duixifuxintailengmo，mengpianxifu，shenzhiyoushizhangfu......

很多女性婚内出轨,大多数由于自身的丈夫对自身不太好,或是丈夫不足出色。或是由于婆媳之间解决不太好，消除了相互间的情感，也可能是丈夫做了损害自身的事儿。如丈夫责骂媳妇，对媳妇心态冷漠，蒙骗媳妇，甚至有是丈夫出外相爱的人。

 yongyouzheizhongsunhaizhihou，xifujiuburongyibafuqiguanxikandetaizhong，pengdaowaimianduizishenhaodenansheng，huoxudadongzhizhongbianhuihongxingchuqiang，maixiangwaiyu。neimaqizichuguiyingbuyinggaikuanrongni?dajiahuanshiyaoxiangxiqingkuangshenrufenxi。

一、反省自己，知彼知己。

 qizichugui，weizijidailedailvmao，shikeshabukeru!shurenshubukeren?zuoweiyiqieyigenanrenneixinyidinghenzaoxin，zhenhenbunengbaxifujisuishiwanduan。bulihunba，xinlidudehuang。yuanliangba，youdanyouchuguinvrenyici，shifouhuichengyin，zhihoushifouhuizaicifasheng。shifouhuidierci，disancideyuanliang。rangzishenyuelaiyuemeilejichudeweirenchushidaodedixian。buyuanliangba，xiangyixiangweilaideluyeshizhongzhongkunnan，youyuzishendeneixinzaoshoudesunhaibingbushisuibianjiunengyonghuanbierenlaiwanliude。

 keshinixuyaoxiangxianglihunledehua，zishenkefoujienalihunlededanshennannvyuxiaohaizi，huanshigengnengjienayigezishenqianrangzhizhongwanliulaidekanqilaixiangxidejiani?nayigegengqiangni?nayigeduinichanshengdesunhaigengxiaoni?shiyiruci，dajiajuede，niyebixupingjingxialaitishengsikaozishen，yiqiebiyouyin。zheishibushinijiehunhouyuelaiyuebulangmanle，meiyoujiehunqiandeqinqinwowole，meiyoujixifuhuashijianyongxinle，duixifubuguanxintitiele，yincitacaigudujimo，queshichulaixunkaixinxuncijixing。ruguoshizheileizhuangkuang，dajiajuedeneibianshinizuoweilaogongdenantile，ruguoyigenvrentianshengbianshiqidaibeichongnizhede，tayeshiyoushenaihezhuiqiuwanmeiaidezhipeiquan。zheileizhuangkuangxia，tanenggoukuanrong，feichangzhidekuanrong。

 ruguoshinidelaopoxingqingjiuxihuannianhuarecao，taoyanpingpingchangchangderichangshenghuo，jiuqidainanshengjinjinweiraozhezishenerhuo，xiaiganhuangdanpingdanwuqideshier，neimatajiubuzhinidekuanrong。quangaonihuanshiquannijinzaotingshou，jinzaobaituokunjing，zhaoxunnidedierchunba!zhongjiurenshengkuduan，meibiyaoyouyujiehunqianmeiyoutigaojingti，zhaobuduirenerweihaizishenyishengdehunyinshenghuoxingfukuaile。

二、看妻子出轨后的心态。

 suhuashuodehao：“renwuwanren，shunengwuguo”。qizichuguiyidingyouyidingdeyuangu，yaobushijingshenkongxu，naibuzhujimo，zhuiqiuwanmeicijixing，yaobushimeiyouzhujian，jingbuzhuyinyou。keshijiehunhouqizichugui，yehuibianchengliangrenzhongjianshizhongdejiedi。jiarubicizhongjianyongyouxiaohai，liyidehuayehuiduixiaohaidesunhaigengda。zuoweixifu，xiaohaidemama，renxingwangwei，hunneichugui，duiquanbujiazhongdesunhaiquanshifeichangdade。jiranbicidangshiwanhun，jiuxuyaodanfuqijiazhongdeyiwu，duijiazhongzhongshi。chuziyuduijiatinghemudezhangjiukaolvdao，nihuanshiyaoheqizijingxialaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliuxia。kanyixiaxifuduizishenwaiyudexintaihelejie，kanyixiayoumuyoujiejuekunnandefangshi ，bushangpobudeyi，huanshibubisuibianliyi。yaolejiebaochiyigejiazishenquanshibuyide。jiarutajinjinlveweiduinayigenanshengyoudianeryisi，keshitahuanshishenaizheni，youhuiguozhiyi，neimanijiuxuyaojitajietixia，jitayicihuiguozixindejiyu，suihougaohaogecengmian，zhangwoyixieqizichuguigaizenyangwanhuihunyindefangshi ，jianxindajiahuibidangshigengxingfu。zhongjiufufuhuanshizhengshidehao。ziranninanguoshimianbulede，jiaruxifutianxingbulan，jinjinyuwangwaiyu，erqiezhenxinshiyihuigai。zuoweinansheng，yibianjiazhongdeyizhixing，duliangbiandayidian，yuanliangyicimeishenmelebuqide。

 liangrenkefouguohao，zhongyaoyeyaokaoliangrenzishenyunying。nanshengkeyidajuweizhongbianshihaolaogong。yaolejiexingxingfenshidongwuherenleidequedian，jiaruninengxuehuifangxia，feichangaifeichangaita，jiububizhemozijile。zaizhihouderichangshenghuojianjiandiquxiufuzheiyitongdianba!keshiyuyanzhongjian，yidingyaorangtagaoqingchunideweirenchushidaodedixian，yujiatingduitashouyudeyiwuheqidai，rangtaxiaobianjiazhongxiaohaidexuexipeixun，jiazhongderichangshenghuofenpei，jiecijihuitishenglaopodejiatingzerengan。

 ziran，jiaruxifudewaiyuzishenbianshiyouxinde，shiyigeguannianganqingfengfuduocaideren。ergennimeifagoutongjiaoliu，bingqieduizheiyijiazaoyimeishenmelianlianbusheketan，doubujuedezishenyoucuo，meishenmeneijiudexin，jiarubicidoumeiyouxiaohaidehua，neimaniyejiumeiyoubixuyuanlianghuoshizaichangshiwanliushenmele。zhongjiu，tadexinzaoyizaijialile，nicunzhetaderenyoumeiyoushenmeyongni?bingqieyidannvxingruguobuaile，duoshuowuyi。nvxingtongchangshibijiaominganyouchiqing，aiyigerenyuanyinnenggouchengqianshangwan,buaiyigerendeqingkuangxiayuanyinzhiyouyige:ganqingmeiyoule!nibeidailedailvmao，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，niyejiunenggoubadailvmaofangchulai，yazhidegaozhixifu，wohenaini，jiarunixuyaozhuiqiunishuobailedexingfukuaile，woyefangniquwan，bingbubishizhongchenjinzaizuotiandebeishangli，sangshiganqingbingbukongbu，padeshisangshiaidexinyang，yuaidezixinxin。

 nvrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？renshengdaoludekankehemolianshirenshengdaoludedaxue，hunyinshenghuogengxiangyibenbuduanchuangxinneirongdebaikecidian，zhenduiqizichuguiyingbuyinggaikuanrongjianxindajiakanguoshangbiandejigefangmian，doushiyoulegeyoudekanfa，bumingbaidenenggouquzhangwoxiazenmecainengwanhuilaogong，qidaidajiadounengfeichanghaodejiejuehaofuqiguanxi。renyizhizaifanzhe，duzhe，caikeyilejie，gaoqingchuyixieshier，caihuikandongyixieren，deyushisuibian，suzaozishendeyikelianghaodexintai。jinyoudangzishenbazijidexintaidiaojiehaola，zishenkeyiguanlizijidexintaile，yiqiebuyuanmandeshierdoushijianjiandiyuanmanqilai。