老公变心出轨，老婆要离婚该怎么办？

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？laopoyaolihun，benzhishiduinizheiyijianshierdeguodufanying。shierjiranzaoyiyinweinierqi，nidexuanzejiushifenguanjian。jiarunitiaoxuanlehehunwailianmubiaonuanweixialai，laopoziranyaoyuniliyi。jiaruniyaotiaoxuanxifu，neimazishenjiuxuyaohehunwaiqingrenwanquanfen......

 nvxingzheiyishengtongchangyaochengzhongxuduo，youyuhuaizheduiyuyangushiyiyangdexiangxiangjindaohunyinshenghuo，zuihoutongchanghuibeishijisipodeposui。youyumeirenhuiyizhaonilixianghuadefangfakandaini，zheijiushishehuixianxiang。dangnvxingshenaizhenanshengdeqingkuangxia，nanshengdewaiyubianhuicushinizaoshoudesunhaijiuyueda。yinci，yibianzhengshinideguandian，niyaogenzheigerenlikebaituoyiqieguanlian。zhangfuchugui，xifuguoduanlihunleyinggaizenmebanni?

最先，你需要明白控制自己的心态

 nixuyaolejieyaobushiyouyunidewaiyu，xifujiuburongyigenninaoliyi，jiranlingyifangzaoyiyaogenniliyi，neimanijiuxuyaoxiangyixiangzishenshenmedifangbaoqianbieren，yeyaobubizaicineiyangxialai。jiarunijiaocailiangzhichuankendingshibuhaode，xifudeguandianyifangmianshijinizuoxiaxuanze，lingyifangmianshixiangzhengshinidaodihaiyouduoaita。xiyinxifu，zuishaonikeyisuodingdajiadepingwenderichangshenghuo。erjiaruxifuyidanlikai，nizheimeduoniandeqinfenhaoxiangdouzaoyimeiyouyiyi。yaolejiexuduohunwailianderen，nijibianxianggenbierenlaidaoyiqi，bierenyebuyidingqueshixiangyaogenleni。yaobutuqian，yaobutuai，zhenshixianggensuinidequzhikeshu。

次之，要明白做选择

 laopoyaolihun，benzhishiduinizheiyijianshierdeguodufanying。shierjiranzaoyiyinweinierqi，nidexuanzejiushifenguanjian。jiarunitiaoxuanlehehunwailianmubiaonuanweixialai，laopoziranyaoyuniliyi。jiaruniyaotiaoxuanxifu，neimazishenjiuxuyaohehunwaiqingrenwanquantichufenshou，haohaoquxifuyanqiangaiguozixin。jiarunihulihutude，niweilaiderenshengdaoluhuoxuzaoyibunengyiliao，tebieshizaiyongyouxiaohaizhihou，henduorenyikaishidoujuedemeiyoushenme。keshiyidanlaopolikaiyihou，ninengjuededaohenxianzhudeshaolenaxie。yaoxuehaojianjue，meishenmelebuqide，mingbaidangdan，quandouhuigenghaoqilaide。

再度，要用真情吸引媳妇

 jiaruniheqizizhongjianyeyouqinggan，neimahuanshiyaoxiangbanfaliuyouta。xiangbanfaqiuqutajiarendekuanrong。jiarunishineileishifenyoubenshidenanshenghaixing，jiarunimeiyoushiduoshaokenai，neimadajiadexianshizhuangkuangzongshiyulaiyubujinrenyi。yinciyaoshoulongzishendezheixiexingzi，jienanideshiji，yaoxuezherangzishenfazhan。tebieshizaiwanhundenanshenggaohunwailianzishenbianshibufuzerende，niduizishendexifujueqing，duitarenyeshiwuyi。yigeboqingguayidenanshengzongshirangtarenquxiaoheqiaobuqi。yincinixuyaolejiezishenjiliangzhong，caizhidaonigairuhequzuo。

最终，要学好安稳为人处事，争取她和好如初

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？youshiduixifuhaozishenbianshiyigechusenanshengdezhuyaobiaoxian。jiaruyigenanrenxunhuawenliu，nanyixiangxiangzheigenanrendeshizhihaodaonaliqu。jiaruzhenaiyigeren，jiuyingdangzhengdehelingyifangzaiyiqi，jiaruqueshibukeyihelingyifangzaiyiqi，zuishaoyaomingbaihelingyifangweichishidudejianju。neiyangnicaimingbaishenmeshiwubidexiai。yejixifushangxinideyimian，tangruomingbaihaohaozuoren，tabidingyehuimingbaixiangfanxiangyixiang。