如何用乐观的心态挽回变心的老公？

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？renshengdaoluyizhihuizaoshouyixiejiongjing，zheizhongjiongjingkanqilaiqiannanwanxian，qishishimolianrendeshijiyu。shijishangjidaodajiadecongbushicuobai，zhishimianduikunjingdexintai。rujinshehuifazhanshangshixingyigecijiaocuoshang。yidanniyueguocuobai，zefengcaiwuxian。yingduizhangfuchugui，zongshishiduoshaode......

 shijieshangyizhongyaojiaomengpotang。weishenmenishuoni?youyuyouguoduoderenyidanzaoshoujiongjing，jiugangkaishimaiyuanrenshengdaolu。wangwangmaiyuanrenshengdaolu，bianshisixiangguannianlijianxinzheileiyaodecunyou。gengyounaizhi，youyuzheileihouhuimojideguannianfengbishilezishenyibeizi。shuobailekailang，bianshifoudinglemengpotangdecunyou，yinci caihuiyuelaiyueyingyong，jijizhudong，dandadixiangqianzou!yidannizijiyuelaiyuekailang，neimayingduiwaiyudezhangfu，niyejiuhuiyongleguandexintaiwanliuwaiyudezhangfu，jianxindajiadehunyinshenghuohuiyizhixingfukuailexialai，suoyishuolianghaodexintaishierbianhuiwanghaodefangweifazhanqushi。

一、掌握挫败的实质

 renshengdaoluyizhihuizaoshouyixiejiongjing，zheizhongjiongjingkanqilaiqiannanwanxian，qishishimolianrendeshijiyu。shijishangjidaodajiadecongbushicuobai，zhishimianduikunjingdexintai。rujinshehuifazhanshangshixingyigecijiaocuoshang。yidanniyueguocuobai，zefengcaiwuxian。yingduizhangfuchugui，zongshishiduoshaodexinjineixinyehuichuxianheiyingcunyou。keshijiarunizijiyoutaiyangguangyiyangdehuihuang，neimazheizhongheiyingduinieryanjiuwuzuqingzhong。

 zhangfuchugui，zuishaozhengshitayeyoufengcaicunyou。huanjunancongming，waiyuzongbitachuhuoxingba!jiaruniqueshichongzuaita，nijiuxuyaorangzishenxiangdekai。fahuo，zibizheng，dachaodanaozongshihuileniziji，bingqiezhiyouzhengshiniderenshengdaolulitataiguoduguanjian。fanguolai，jinyoukailang，kuankuohuodadadu，caikeyijinixixingemian。yincicikenizuixianyaopouxizhangfuchuguideyuangu，cikenijiuxuyaomingbaichuguinanrensandayuangu，suihouqupouxilianggeren，zuizhongqugenggai、tigao。

二、学好迁移，杜绝焦虑情绪

 zhangfuchugui，nijiaoda dezaodongbuanshijishangbianshilaiyuanyujiaolvqingxu。zheileijiaolvqingxuyoushibingbushiniziji，zhishinizhoubianrendeguandian，nizhoubianrendexintaisuojuece。jiaruniyizhixiangzheizhongnanti，neimabianhuifeichangrongyizaocheng nizijijiaolvbuan，jiaolvqingxu。fanguolai，jiaruninengxianggaoqingchu，renyishengsheikeyimeiyoushierni?nantichulaiyizhiyaoyingduide，liangzhezhijiandianjizhetarenruhekan，zenmejiang，bibushangrengranbarichangshenghuoguodegaoduandaqi。tarendemuguangneimazaiyiyouhebini?shenmejinijuedenanshouderen，jiububizongchanzaiyiqi，shenmejiniganjuekunaodeshi，jiupaodaonaowai。zongeryanzhi，juederuheshushizishenjiuzenmewan。

 jinyouneiyangcaikeyirangzishendexintaizhuangtaihoudezaifu。nixuyaozuodebianshigaohaonidefenleibiedeshier，rangquanbudeyiqiezhixujingran。jiarunifenhaomeiyouzaoshouzheiyijianshierdeweihaieryijuebuzhen，tarengengfeichangrongyiduinilingyanxiangkan。zhenshideyingyongshanzhan，bingbushizaijingjichangshang，zhishizaiqigaishang，tangruozhendingziru，zhangfutazongshiwaiyuyouruozennai?shuobailebuzhanerqurenzhibing，jiushizheigedadaoli。

三、用社会正能量危害丈夫

 haoduorenpingchanghepenyouyiqirenaofeifan，keshiyidanyongyoushierjiugangkaishifengbiziji。duanjuehequanbupenyoudelianluo，shijishangzheigeshihounigengbixuheshehuizhengnengliangdepenyouweiban。yuefazaizishendexinnianchuxiansongxiedeqingkuangxia，yuefabixuyouqiangjingdejingshenshizhizhichengdian。jiarunimeiyouxunzhao，neimajiububidujuezheixieshehuizhengnengliangdepenyou。youyurenyoushiquanshijiweimingande，kenengzaimingandeqingkuangxiatarendeyijuhuajiukeyiwennuannideyisheng。kenengzaimingandeqingkuangxiatarendeyijuhuajiukeyizhaoliangnixinliquanbudeqidai。quanbu，bubidiuqizheixieshehuizhengnengliangdepenyou，yaorangzishentianmanshehuizhengnengliang。nidefengcaibianshiwulunzaiyiqiezhuangkuangxia，niduirichangshenghuodoumanhuaixinxinheqidai。neiyangdenvxing，zhangfudiuleqibuzigankeshi?

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？jijidexintaibianshihemengpotangshuozaijian。duishijiyoubaochiqingxingdelejie，xuehaoqianyijiaolvqingxu，youmingbaizaijiongjingzhongweichiduirichangshenghuodezixinxinheqidai，yongyouzheizhong，niyejiuyongyouwanyouyinlidinglv。neimarichangshenghuodejiannanhecuobaidoushibeinicaizaijiaoxia。wanhuizhangfu，yehuiyuelaiyueqingeryiju。