老公出轨后不愿碰妻子怎么办？

男人变心的表现有哪些？朱德庸说：“情世间的困境便是婚姻生活，夫妻之间的转折便是婚后出轨。”这话是有一定大道理的。情世间的困境便是婚姻生活，这告知我们结婚了和谈恋爱或出轨是两回事，当2个已经谈恋爱的恋人刚开始相亲结婚之时，也就将要走入她们感情的墓葬，婚姻生活果然是感情的墓葬，2个出轨的人出現困境一样是婚姻生活，由于她们中间沒有婚姻生活的这一存有，而婚姻生活刚好确认了她们出轨的不合理合法，因此是她们的困境。那麼夫妻之间的转折便是婚后出轨又从何说起呢?

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