为什么出轨，你有想过吗？

 chuguinanrenyounaxiebiaoxian？hunyinshenghuozaoshouzhangfuchugui，zhenduinvxingeryanhaowuyiwenshirenshengdaolujiaoda dekebei。qingchunnianshaodewusifengxian、quanxinquanyidezijintourubenrenweinenggouzaizishenweihubaoyanghunyinshenghuohaiganglihaohaoguoriziyibeizi，wukenaiheshitaideshijihenanshengzheibanbukaopu。

nanshengzhaodisanzhele，queshijiulijiliyima?ganyuanzishenyunyingdejiazhongjiuneimebeihui?

lijiliyiduixiaohaihaome?jiehunhouzaihunbuyidingjiukeyizhaoyigehaolaogong?

yexunineixinhuanshizhenshenaizhenizhangfu，zhenjiubaidexiama?

 qingshanggaodenvrendoushichongfenkaolvzheiyixiliedenanti，jiaruoqueshiyikuernao。nanshengbuyidinghuilingqing，zongshigengweitutianduinideyanjuan，zongshijiasuliyidesulvhexinxin!neimanvxingzenyangrentonggeaiwanliuwaiyudezhangfuni?

第一点：不能用性惩罚看待另一方

 xuduo nvxing，huozhizishenzhangfuzaiwaimianyouhunhouchuguihou，duizishenzhangfuzhuyaobiaoxiandeshifendichu，naizhihuijueyulaogongyourentishangdeyiqiechupeng。

 shexiang，laogongzai“kaijiangpitu”shi。huodedebingbushitianmandeshenti，erbinsimo、wenxiangruanyuderouqingsishui。zhishizheibanjingyanjiaoxun，tayoumeiyoushenmeqingxujiangnironghuazaitaderentilini?jiaruoniyizhizaizheigeshihouhuijueta，neijianzhigengweibazijizhangfuwangwaitui。

 yongxingchengfalingyifang，nvxinghuodedeshiyishidehuosheng，queshihunyinshenghuocongtianmeimaixiangbinghedegangkaishi!“bingdongsanchi，feiyirizhihan”，bianshizheigeyisi。

第二点：不必盲目跟风地为亲人寻求帮助

 yixienvxingchuziyuhuhunjiqie，lejielaogongchuguihou，pobujidaidixiangnanxingqinrenxunqiubangzhu。bujinmeiyouzuodaoyugumudi，fandaojiandingbuyilenanshenglihunledexinxin。

 hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendeshier，danghunyinshenghuochanshengbuxingshi，shiliangrenpingxinjingqidishangyizhechuli，bushangpobudeyi，bubisuibianyouqiuyugeyoudeqinren。youyuyidanhewoqinrensikailelian，huibayuanhenheyuanhendaliangdizhuanjiadaolaopotouding，juyoudebuchangshidegongxiao。

 nixuyaozuodeshixunzhaoyigegendajiameishierdedisanfangjiyubangzhu。youyu，jinyouyudajiabuxianggandeyouxiurencaihuigengweikeguanxingdeduidaidajiadeshier。neiyangcaikeyigengqiangdechulishier!

第三点：不必拿小孩作为不离异的背黑锅

 xuduo nvxing，yizhinaxiaohaidangbeiheiguo，budanzaiyingduilaogongchuguishi，baxiaohaizuoweiyigendaocao;zaijiehunqiannaxiaohaizuoweibupinbobunulidebeiheiguo。

 jiarubabamamahunyinpolie，weilebaobaobuliyi。danbabazhengribugui，duixiaohaimeilibutan，mamalunluomanfulaosao、ruanruoxiaojidepofu，zongshichongzhexiaohaixuxutaotaodixuanxiexinzhongdezenghen，huoshipinlemingdiwumielaogong，zheileijiazhongduixiaohaidesunhaigengtai!huishixiaohaipianzhi、buzixin，duishijiantianmanshiluohewunai。

 chuguinanrenyounaxiebiaoxian？nvxingzaiyingduizishenzhangfuchuguishi，jiarubaozhengxinlijiandingbuyiheqiangjing，jiunengfangzhibeibidaojuedi!jixianghuliuyudi，bubichuyubeidongdihoutui;youshijijiyidian，fanshouweigong，yexujiukeyijiejuexianjieduandekunjing。