逼得对方有外遇的原因

 youwaiyuzenmeban？chuguidehunyinlitanlianai，hunyinshenghuozhongyoushenmecuowudexingweihuizaocheng dajiadeguanlianzoudaozuihou，naizhibidelingyifanggenjuwaiyulaizhaoxunneixinkuanweidechengduni?kanyixiayoushenmejiushinifanledebuzhengque，jishijiuzhenghaiweishiweiwan。

家暴，解决分歧老用握拳讲话

 tanlianaiqineijiaruqinglvzhijianchuxianlebaoliqingxiang，shihaowuyiwenhuijianjuetichufenshoude，wulunshichuziyunaxiemudiheyuanyinzhixingdebaolixingweiquanshibunengrenshoudegerenxingwei。

 shubuzhi，hunyinshenghuozhonghenduorentongchanghuihushilejiatinglengbaoli，shijishang，jiatinglengbaolidepohuailiyeshifeichangdade，zhangqixingjiatinglengbaoli，zaocheng fuqijianmeiyouyiqiegoutongjiaoliu，yitansishuidehunyinshenghuo，nizhangfu，qizichuguijiulinihenjinle。

心胸狭窄，性情差别很大

lianaiguochengqinglvzhijianhuizizhangfenqishihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，danyixiefenqiquejinjinyinweiyifangdexinxiongxiazhaidaozhide。

 liru，zaifanyilaihuanjie，nanshengdaduoshubadaliangdeshijianhehuolifangdaogongzuozhonghegongzuoshang，erlingyifangyexubianhuijuedelebeilengdan，jiaruzheigeshihounibunengqulejie，haixiaodujichangqudadanaonaode。

 neibanbutaihaodexintaijianghuihuijianjiandileiji，tangruoliangrendeguanlianhaimeiyoujindudaoguoshendehua，zheizhongjiudeyizaocheng tichufenshou，huoshilingyifangpengdaolezhijideren，jiuliwaiyuhenjinle。

争吵冷言冷语

 nannvpengyouchaojiahuochanshengmaodunshizaiyiqiezhengchangdanshideshierle，zhongjiu，liangrendeshengzhangfayuziranhuanjingbuyiyang，renshengjiazhiguanchanshengdebiaozhunyebuyiyang，richangshenghuohexintainianyushenghuoxiguanhaowuyiwenyehuichuxianzhuangjideqingkuangxia。

 pengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuang，shidefangfabianshiliangrenzuoxialaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，jiarupengdaofenqihuonantiyizhiyongzhengchaodefangfa，shenzhishizhengchaoshiyuchuzhisi，yizhibaocukouwenhaolingyifang，zheileijiqisunhaiqinggandeshieryidinghuizaocheng zuizhongdefenli。

无论错在哪方，一定要另一方承认错误

 2geshenghuohuanjingbuyiyangerqierichangshenghuoqinshenjinglijiongranbutongderenyaozaiyiqirichangshenghuo，qingganshangdemoheqiyushenghuoxiguandehuxiangrongrushiwubidequanguocheng，zaizheiliqijian，chuxianyixieyifangbushihedeshierhuoguoshiyeshiwukebimiande。

 jianghuizheizhongshierzhenduibicieryanyemeiyoucuo，jinjinyishiheniantoubuyiyangerzaocheng de，zheigeshihoufeidefenlichulaigeduiyucuo，huoshifeidedengdailingyifanglairencuodehua，jiuyixiejiansuankebole，zhangqixingneiyangdehua，feichangrongyijianglingyifangtuizou。

过度强悍，下意识地干预另一方隐私保护

 zairelian，qinglvwulunrenhechanghezongqidaikeyinizaiyiqi，yinci ，qinglvzhijiankeyishuomeiyoushenmemimiketan，youyushenaizhecaihuizaihu。

 shubuzhi，dangtanlianaijindaodisanjieduan，xiangduixingdandudeguidingbianhuijiaoweibijiaominganzishendeyinsibaohunanti。cishijiaruqiaoqiaofanyuelingyifangshoujishanghuoweixinliaotianjiluhui，jianghuiyouhuidebuchangshi，zuizhonghuiyitichufenshouwanbi。

内心不足善解人意，欠缺基础上门家教沒有孝道

neixinshifouchongzushanjierenyichedinenggoukaoliangyigerendepinxingshehuidaode，haikeyikaoliangyigerenjichudejiazhongxiuyangshuizhun。

conglingyifangshibushikeyihaohaoaizijideqinrenjiukeyiqingxikandechu。

youshi，xingxiaobingbuyidingbixutaoqiande，yifenqingyi，yigewenhao，yijuguanai，dounenggoukandechuyigerendeweirensuyang。

tangruoniaideneirenqianquezheixiefangmiandeguannian，neima，wanhunyihou，zheileiguanniandeqianquezhongjiangbianchengjiatingjiufendebaofadian。

厌烦平淡的生活，在情感外寻找新的刺激性

 youwaiyuzenmeban？lianaixintaixueshuoming，tanlianaidaduoshuqinshenjinglisigehuanjie，fenbieshi“bingcun、fanyilai、danduhexianghuyicun”，dabufenlianrenzaiduguodiyihedierjieduanyihou，zaidisanjieduanjiufeichangrongyizizhangfenqi，erlaidaodisijieduan，yejiushitanlianaishijianyizhang，shenmiganzaisuonanmianmanmantiandan。

 chuguidehunyinlidanjiaruzailingyifangbianchengnizuiaiderenshi，nibunengbaozhenghuxiangzhaoguerqieyiqikaipiguishuyudajiazishenderenshengdaolu，yebubinaqingganlaitanxian，gengbuyaozaiqingganshangzhaoxuncijixing，zuochuwaiyudeshierlai。