这五类要注意了，否则离出轨就不远了

 youwaiyuzenmeban？chuguidehunyinlijinqizaizhenglizheimeduonianjiejueguodehunwailianshilishi，huranfajueyixieguilvxing，shuliyixiafaxian，xialiezhei6leihunyinshenghuo，chuguilvzhanjufeichangdadezhanbi。

1、夫妇都长得慢的婚姻生活

 youwaiyuzenmeban？zheileihunyinshenghuoduochuxianzai85hou、jiulinghoudedushengzideshenshang，tamenwanhunshiquanpingzhijue，hunhouquankaobabamama，guannianhezhengtishilishangmeiyouzuodaokeyiwanhundeguifan。

 hunhouhuanshixiaopengyou，yeyaobabamamazaizhengzhishangdeshiyong，naizhilianzishende“xiaowuzi”yemeiyou，hebabamamatongzhu，yiranguozhe“fanlaizhangkouyilaishenshou”deshenghuo。

 gengkongbudeshi，tamenhaitongchangmeiyouzhujiandebaxiaohaishengle，liantamenzijidoumeizhangdale，xiaohaishengwanhoujiujiaodaobicibabamamadaiyang。

tamenzaihunyinshenghuolichedishi2gedanduderen，meishenmerenwujiaoseyushiminggan。

gengshijiehunhounanshengmeiyouyaliyudangdan，tabianhuizaiciquwan，tadewaiyujuedabufenyeshi“wan”chuqude;

 ernianqingdeqizizaizaoshoulaogongyongyouqitanvxinghou，doubumingbaijiejue，gengshenzhiyehuitiaoxuanwaiyu，laiduifulaogong，neiyanglianggerendehunyinshenghuoxunsubianhuiyaowan。

2、谈恋爱時间超五年的同学们或两小无猜的婚姻生活

 lianggerenlijingneimezhangdetanlianaishijian，shifendedouxianghulejie，youqishitanlianaishiyouyouchongzudechongzuzhangwo，lianggerenzuihoulaidaoyiqi，yeshiyizhongyuanfen。

keshizheileiyuanfen，jiaowangbushanshihuibansuizheshijianyidianyidiandebeishijixiaoqiandiaode，hunhoulianggerenqueshibianshiyoushoumozuoshou。

jiehunhouchuguinanren，yeshiyinweixianghumeile“ai”deshenmiganhecijixing，erpaodaowaibianquxunzhaocijixing。

 erqieyinweixianghujiaowangguozhang，feichangshilaopocongneixinshangmianyoudaliangdeyikao，yehuirangzhangfuchuguihouhuigengweifangzong，tashichidinglelaopo“haipa”“buyuan”“bushede”liyidexintaizhuangtai。

3、倒插门或长期性住在女性家中的婚姻生活。

bulunshinanxingyinshierdaochamennvxing，huanshijiehunhouyuyuefuyuemuyiqitongzhu，wuxutaizhangqi，bianhuifashengzhengzhi。

 erqieguyeyuyuefuyuemudefenqi，xuduohuanshishifenyinxingde，jixianghuyoujianyi，feichangshilaogongyouniantou，doushizangzaixinlibuyongshuochuqu。

 youqishilaoposhidunvde，laogongjiatingtiaojianbingbushifeichanghaode，kanbudaodejiatingjiufenhuizaifuqijianzaochengyidaowuxingzhongde“chaju”，laogonghunneichuguiyeshijiaoweideyinxing。

 yibanlaishuo，laopoheyuefuyuemudounanyifajue，youyutazaijialidezhuyaobiaoxiankendingshimeisheile，haodelebude，eryidantadegongzuoyouyidingdeyouqisehou，tabianhuiyouyizhong“tuqiyangmei”dexixingyuse，neishihoudetayagenjiuburongyizaiyilaopoheyuefuyuemudeguandianle。

 youhendadezongzhi“wodechibangzhangyingqilaile，youchuxile，congcibubishoudajiajiadeqi”zhigan，tadewaiyuyebingrugusui，yaoxiangzhengjiudejiyujiuhenshaole。

4、大龄青年奔着“完婚”的目地相亲约会的婚姻生活。

 neiyangdehunyinshenghuo，jiaowangshijianjiaoduanbuyongshuo，zhenduixingtaiqiangle，xiangqinyuehuichenggonglejiuanzhaominsuwenhuawanhun，nongnongdefuyanleshi，meishenmeqingganketan。

 eryidandadaomubiaozuodaomudi，jiehunqinei，fuqijianlirushenghuofangshi、zhongmeiwenhuachayi、jiazhiguannianbuyiyang、poxizhijian、gerencaichanzheixieerzaochengdefenqijiuchulai。

yongyoufenqi，fufuyoubumingbaihuxiangqianrang，chaoduole，qingganjiudanle，waiyuyejiushimingzhengyanshunle。

5、结婚后女性赚钱养家糊口的婚姻生活。

 jingjifazhanshihunyinshenghuoguanjianzuoyongzhiyi，erqie，zaiwoguodehunyinshenghuoli，daduoshuquanshinanzhujiaowainvrenzhunei，tashilaogongzheiyirenwujiaosesuoshouyudezerendandang。

 ruozaijiehunhou，yaokaonvrenlaizhuanqianyangjiahukoudehua，neilaogongderenwujiaosezuoyongjiuwanquanmeiyoule，gengkehendeshi，zonghuiyouyixienanrenzaihunyinshenghuo，bujinbusijinqu，jiushibalaoponvechengleyigenvhanzhi。

 ziran，chukainanrendeyuanyin，zheizhongzhichangnvrenbenshenyeshibutaihaode，ganghaoshitamentaiguoduxiangqipinlemingquzhuanqianyangjiahukou，bazhangfuwanquande“jiaoguan”chengyigeruanfannandenansheng，daidaozheizhongnanshengjuyoushijianyoufuyoushi，xiangbuwaiyudounanle。

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 suoshuwuleihunyinshenghuo，shijishangquanshizishenjiubutaihao，yaobubianshimeiyouganqingjichu，yaobubianshiwanhunshishichunsuiyibianwanhun，yaobubianshijiehunhouderenwujiaosechulenanti，zheixie;

 danwulunruhe，jiranlianggerendouzhenshidezoulaidaoyiqi，neijiuxuyaomingbaihunyinshenghuobingbushinaozhewande，jirandajiaxieshoubingjiantaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdiande，douwubiyaoyouchongzudechongfenzhunbei。

要铭记这几个方面：

 wanhunbushi1+1=2，ershi0.5+0.5=1，bingbushijianyideliangrenderonghe，zhishibixuxianghuxianghuzhijiankuanrong、xianghuzhijianrenshou，xianghulijie，caikeyishiyigezongtide1。

 hunyinshenghuoshifufu2geyibeizidegongzuo，erbushijianyideyizhonghezuojingying，zhiyourenzhenyunying，caikeyiyuebianyuehao，zhiyouxianghudoudongdezijintourujinlaiai，yeyoujianghuizainibixudeqingkuangxiacongzheidangzhongquchuwomendeai;

 fufuyoufenqi，youmaodun，qingganyulaiyudan，yedoubukongbu，tashihunyinshenghuofazhanqushideziranfaze，guanjiandeshi，fuqijianyaoyongyujiena、jieshouxianghujianyouyidingdedebuyukuai，erbushixiaochendeduobi，ganqingdanlejiuxuyaolijijiashangai，rangtarongguanghuanfagengxindefengcai;

 chuguidehunyinlihunwailianrufashaoganmao，meiyizhuanghunyinshenghuodoujianghuihuipengdao，danghunyinshenghuozaoshoudaohunwailianshi，lizhishidiyiyinsu，sikaonengjinixunzhaochuliwaiyuzuifangbiankuaijiedechurukou，eryouwudeqingxudiaojie，huirangdajiaxianghudouzhuihuizhongsheng。