变心了，要不要离婚

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？rujindeshehuixuduo derendoushipengdao“hunyinshenghuo”cengmiandenanti，youxieshihunyinshenghuocengmiandekunjing。dangxia，“waiyu”lvgaole，jinerzaochengdezhongguolihunlvyesuizhegaole。

 changchangtingjianhuojiandaopenyoufuqijianyouyuzheishigaoderenxinhuanghuang，naxietongchua、naonua、dachaodanao、dajiadououzheixie。yinciwoyesisuoneiyangyigenanti，“waiyu”lejiuyidinglihunlema?daliangderenjianghuizoubuguoquxintaizhuangtaizheidao“kan”。

 xuduo derenwanhunzheixienianle，nengshuomeiyouganqingma?!jiarushuoganqingbiandanleneiyeyouzhenqingsuoshuba?!daliangdihuanshidanfuduijiazhong、xiaohai、laonianrendeyiwuba?!hunyinshenghuoyidanchulezheixiefangmiannanti，bicibuyaozaizaicizhengzhiwanshuale，zheizhongjiunanyijiejuenanti。

 douyingdangpingjingxialaihaohaoditanyitan，quanshirichangshenghuozaiyiqihenduoniande“laonianfuqi”le，jiulianzuochulaipingxinjingqideliaoyiliaode“sixiangjuewu”doumeile?!wojuede，jiaruchunantixuduo deqingkuangxiabushiyigerendenanti，yifangdequebutaihaohuoshishuangfangdoubutaihao。

nanrendeshentiwaiyuernvxingzeshilaogongjingshenchugui

 buguannanrennvrensheichuguile，yebubiyigunzidasi，jiubarenkandehuoshibiandeyiwushichu。wozheimeduonianjiandaodechuguideren，nanshengfandaoxuduo quanshijiaoweichenggongderen，nvxingxuduo yeshifeichanghaoderen。“waiyu”shiyigeshehuixianxiang，bukeyidoubuyingdanghenjiandandiguijieweiyunanrenhenvrenzenmezenmedi!zheiyiguqiemeiqutantao。

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？buguannanrenhenvrenruguoshichuantongshihaolaogong、haolaopo，gujia，tengxifu(zhangfu)xiaohai，peihulaoren，gongzuozhongqinfen，renpinhao。youshihoumeiezhizhuyinyouchuguile，jinguanyishijingshenshizhiheroushenhuanaizijintouru，keshiyiguoyiduanshijianxingwu，jueranzhongguijiazhong。

 cikefeichangzhidebeikuanrongma?jiarujinyouliyiyitiaolu，shifoukanqilaihunyinshenghuotaimingan?juecetaiguoduan?jibenshangmeiyigejiehunlederendoushiqinshenjingliyixieqingganwenti，dangzhubupingpingdandanderichangshenghuoshifuqizhijianyuelaiyueyulaiyujianmo，yingduiwaibiantianmanyinyoudequanqiu，mianbuleyouxierenxinyouyuji，qingganchuxianyouyi，bijiaoyanzhongdebianhuizaochengjiazhongkunjing。

 dangfajuezhangfuyongyouhunhouchuguideqingkuangxia，meiyigelaopodefanyingquanshibuyiyangde，youdenaonu，youdeyoushang，youdeweiquqiuquan，yeshiyoudebuguyiqiedijueceliyi。fanyingbuyiyang，huodedejieguoyegeyoubutong。

chuguinanrenhounvxingjiuxuyaoyiyiyangdefangfaduifuhuilaima?

 youdenaoxiuchengnumingquetichuliyi，yibuyibubafuqizhijiandeguanliantuilaidaosilu，lingzishenshenxianzuoyouweinandechujing;youdezezailiyidebianyanjiarantingbu，xiangfangshefadiaojiezishen，youfangfadijiejuelejiazhongkunjing，shizishenhelaogongzhongjiandeqinggangenglaogu。

 renshengdaoludehenduogedaguan，shijishangbianshiyinianzhicha，juecebudui，jianghuibianhuijiaporensan，juecezhengquele，huoxujiunengliuanhuaming，jiukanzhenixiangyaozuochuruhedetiaoxuanle。

 suhuashuodehao“shaolaifufu，laolaiban”，wulunnanrennvrenyoushihouchuguile，jiaruta(ta)keyilejiedaozishendeguoshi，keyirengranxiangyaoyougejia，keyirengranjiedanqiyiwu，wojuedeyemeishenmelebuqide，feiyaoshihunyinshenghuowajiema?wajielejiuhaome?jiulingrenmanyile?jiuzuodaomudile?!

 zaizhaodejiuyidingshishinilingrenmanyi?!wojuedebuyiding!youxierenjianghuiyaoshuo“lilejiuyibuzhaole!”yigerendeshenghuozhuangtaizhenxingfuma?jiuburongyigudanjimo?younaxieshierhuojiannanhenshufudezishenquchuli?dangdebingshi，tahuoshitajibianzaibutaihao，yehuichuxianyibeikaishuishiyikourefansongzhinideyanxiaba!

 nanrenbianxindebiaoxianyounaxie？yinci ，yidanhunyinshenghuochulenanti，bujiqiezuochutiaoxuan，huanshiyingdangpingjingxialai，buhaojiufenliyiduanshijianhuoshichuquzouzou，doupingjingxialaiyihouzailiao，zaizuotiaoxuanhuoshijuece。neiyangshifougengqiangyixieni?!