老公出轨该不该原谅?

  zhangfuchuguiqizizenmeban？zhangfuchuguihoulaopozhuabaoruanjian，neigeshihouzhendeshibeitongyujue，keshizheigeshihouzhangfuquegenniquebao，yibuhedisanzhelianluo，zaicizhongguidaojiazhongzhong，nvxingtexiangkuanronglingyifang，zaicijiyutaxinlai，shubuzhizhangfupanbiandezheiyikeguanshishifangfoyigencizhazaixinzhong，jinguanbachulekeshihaiyouyigechuangkouzai，shikezaitishi、weihaizhezishen。

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zhangfuchuguiqizizenmeban？zaizhangfuchuguihou，xuduo laopomanhuaidujidexintaizhuangtai，ganjuexintaizhuangtaibupingheng，henxiangyaozhidaowaiyudeguanjiandian，xiangyaozhidaonagehuyaoshizenmexiyinzhudaozishenzhangfude，zhangfuyoujiujingyoumuyoumanbaozishennaxie。shijishang，jiarunidaizhuzheizhongyihuo，fanfudequguancha，buguantazenyanghuiying，douburongyiyoulingnilingrenmanyidehuida。youyutajianghuiyibianqiuqunidekuanrong，yibianjiangdiduinidesunhaiertiaoxuanzaicisahuang;jiarutameiyouhuiying，ninenggengweifahuo。ertongchangniwendeyueda，tayuefatongkubukan，naizhihuanghualianpian;nilejiedeyueda，nidexinliyehuiyuenanao，yuetongchu，yuefangbuxialaizheijianshiqing。

坚信之上都不是你要想的結果。这并并不是代表着你不能问、不能说他。聪明的作法不是纠缠不清在这一件事儿上。你能挑选一个机遇，和他一次性说清晰。心态应确立、观点要坚定不移，绝不允许他与第三者也有一切往来，还可以明确提出一些规定。例如能够写一封责任书，若有再次发生会获得什么哪些的处罚，每日下班了几点钟回家，多陪伴小孩，参加亲子活动这些。不然，因为负强化的功效，你问得越大，他将会会越忘不掉第三者。

次之，不管你多么的痛楚和不舒服，请不要偏激线路，非常不必是说你这样子一件事，我一定给你也感受一把头上青青大草原的觉得。不然，你不但心里仍然不可以均衡，还会继续给你伤上加伤，要还记得包容另一方的另外也就是放了自己。

zuizhong，dajiabixusikaoyixiazishen，youyuhunyinshenghuoshiyouliangrenxianghujibenjianshede，yigebazhangpaibuxiang。chuxianneiyangdezhuangkuang，shuangfangdouduoduoshaoshaodiyouyiwu，jiarushuolaogongbuyinggaiwaiyu，neimazuolaopodeyeyingdangxiangyixiang，shishazaocheng taneiyang?shijiazhongbuzuwennuan，zishenbuzutiexinta，huanshibiedeshishenmeyuanyinshitayongyouneiyangdexingwei?suihoumudexingdezuochuxiangduidegenggai。

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