怎样判断异地老公出轨，丈夫出轨该怎么处理

zenyangpanduanyidilaogongchugui？zenmechajueyidinanyouchugui？fufuwaidizhangfuchuguiwogaizenmezuo?baniandefufu，yizhiqingganfeichanghao。jibenshangmeiyouchaojiajia。fuqiyidifenjuhuichuguima？zheijinianfuqiliangdifenju，yeconglaimeiyoudanyouguotahuichuxianhunhouchugui。danjinjitiandeshi，yaowoyibuzhongyule。

zenmechajueyidinanyouchugui？wohaizaiyididagongzhuanqian，liangsangeyuehuijiayici，qianyitianhuijiaouranfaxianjiazhongzhenglixianglijingranyouanquantao，runhuaye，heweige。anquantaoherunhuayeyemeiyoukaifengshi，danweigeyouyidahezhuangheyigedulibaozhuangdexiaohe，quanshimeiyoukaifengshide。

zheizhongdajiazhiqianyemeiyoushiyongguo，yinci wofaxianlehoujinguanjingyadanmeiyoushuopo。zaizhuzaileyiwanhoujishilaidaotangyidi，19haozoude，21haohuijiade。huijiahoufajuedulibaozhuangdexiaoheweigejingranmeile。

rennaileertian，yemingquezheijitianwomenzaiyiqishitameiyoushiyongguo，guaiwanmojiaolejihui，tadoumeiyouloudong。danwojinqijihuihuijiale，fajuetadeweixinmeiyicidouqingchule。zaijiashangciciwuyuanwuguchuxianyouxiaotuidewanaike，wopobudeyicaiyitawaibianyouxierenle。

womenjiajiusankouren，daerzizaishangputonggaozhong，qizaotanhei，dabaitianjiazhongjiutayigerenzaijia，shijianhekongjiandoubianjiedehen。mingriwoyegailikaile，xiayicihuijiahenyoukenengyaodaochunjiejiaqi。woyebuzhidaoyinggaizenmeban，xubuxuyaolijiwenqi?xiwangshiqing，queyoudanxinshiqing。

zheijitianxiangxiangxuduo ，huoxushimeiyouburongzhiyidezhijiezhengjuba，wobingbingbushihennaonu，jinjinyizhenzhentongxinhewufakongzhideyanlei。

richangshenghuo，woshiqianghandeyifang，jiazhongjichuwozhuwai。danqingganshang，wojiaoweilieshi。rongmaoxianzhubitongnianlingrenshuaituiyaowoneixinshenchubuzixin。

erzhangfuyouyulianghaodexintai，youkanqilaifenwainianqing，bingmeiyouchengnianrendefapangheyounigan，zhengjie，qingxin，gancuililuoshixiaohuobanmenduitadeyinxiang。fufuwaidizhangfuchuguiwogaibugailihun?

提议：

ninhao，nizhangfuchuguiyouneiyanghaoduogecengmiandeyuangu。

yi、dajiawaidi，tadeshenglixuyaowufadedaokaolv，niyouguishuyuneileiqianghanderen，tazhiyouzishenchuli，congtayeyaoyongxingyongpinzheier，haikeyikandechutadeshenglixuqiufeichangmingxian。

er、nideqianghanshitazaochengjingweizhixinxinlizhuangtai，nizhangqixingzhuwai，jitamenchushileyigexiangduixingshushideziranhuanjing，cushitazizhanglepengzhangdexinlizhuangtai，meiyoujiangnidetourudanghuishi。

san、nidebuzixinzaocheng ninanyixiangbiedewenroudenvrenneiban，changchangxiangzhangfubiaodaaiyi，nizaiwaimiandagongzhuanqian，henyoukenengyejiushiniduobilaoporenwujiaosedejiekou。nirenweilaogonggecengmianbiaozhundoufeichanghao，neixinshenchuganjuebupeita，zhiyouyonggengweinuligongzuolaitianbuzheiyikuaidequekou。

fuqiyidifenjuhuichuguima？zhenduinidezhuangkuang，chufeishinifanhuitadeshenpang，pingfenshengmingweirenchushi，xinxindilizaitadeyanqian，tacaihuiyouyidingdeshoulianxing。

jiaruniyaotiaoxuanyizoulezhi，tahunhouchuguibidinghuizaici。tayehuichongfenkaolvxiaohai，yehuinianzhenidehao，burongyineimakuaidecunjinchi。

nimeiyoushuopo，zaimeiyoubawoquezaozhengjuqian，jinshenxingshi，zheizhongquanshiduide。nixuyaoxianjingxiaxin，haohaodixiangyixiangxiayibudeduice。zaitahaichuzaijiaoaozidaxinlizhuangtaidezhuangkuangxia，nizairuhechaonaoneiquanshiyushiwubude。

nixuyaoweizijiyixiedanliangyuzixinxin，jirantaquleni，jiuzhengshijinixiyinzhutadedian。nixuyaozaicizhankaizishendefengcai，xuezhechuanzhedabanchongshiziji。

zenyangpanduanyidilaogongchugui？tanenggouyuelaiyuenianqing，weihenibuneng?zhenglaideqianweihebunengyonglaihaohaoaiziji?weihefeiyaozazaitagenxiaohaideshenshang?yinci ，waidifufuzhangfuchuguigaizenmechuli?jinyouhunhounvxingnibianhaola，fuqiguanxicaihuiyuelaiyuehao，jiazhongcaihuiyuelaiyuegengqiang。