媳妇为何外遇叛变我？女人偷情大部分是由于这三个心理状态

laopochuguizenmewanhuitadexin？xifuweihewaiyupanbianwo?nvrensishuizuode，shixinlifanza、ganqingxizhideganxingdongwu。jinxienian，bujinyouyuhunyinshenghuobeiju、jiazhongweijidenvxinghuiwaiyu，hunyinshenghuoyujiatingpingwendenvxingyehuiwaiyu，bingqiechengchixushangshengfazhanqushi。nvrenchuguiwanhuilaogongma？qingwennvrenchuguihouhainengwanhuima？

zaihunyinshenghuozhong，weihekanshangquanshoubenfendexifuhuiwaiyuni?qizichuguidexinlizhuangtaiyoushishenmeni?nvrenchuguihouhainengwanhuima？

shijishang，zaihunyinshenghuoli，chuziyuguishugan，nvxingdouqidaikeyizhanyouzhudaoxing。jiarutamenzaihunyinshenghuolijuedequefaanquangan，bianhuiduiaiqinghunyinzaochengcaiyi。

yincitamenduizhangfugezhonggeyangqidaihegengxingaizao，qidaikeyicongzhangfudeshenshangsuoyaodaliangdeaihuodeguishugan;jiaruwufadedao，tamenjiuhuiyouhenyoukenengwaiyu，xianghunneichuguidenanshengsuoyao，kaolvzishendeanquanxingbixu。

yiner，xifuweihewaiyupanbianwo?huizongchulai，nvrentouqingdabufenshiyouyuzheisangexinlizhuangtai：

一、婚后孤单：渴望爱情

xinlixuezhuanjiamingquetichu：ganqingdexuexidongjijizhaoduixiangdeshenjingxitongtizhizhuyaoshixingquli、yilaixitongruanjian、youhuoli。

shijishanghunyinshenghuoli，zuirangnvxingdejiaolvqingxudebingbushijinqianwenti，zhishicongcitihuibushanglingyifangdeai。jiarunanshengyiweidizaigongzuoshangchuangdang，hushilexifudexinlizhuangtaixuqiu，neimalianggerenzhongjiandeyilaixitongruanjianbianhuimanmantanta。

lianggerenshuhuduihunhouganqingdeguanlifangfayuguanxin，xianghubianhuikanbudaolingyifangzhenshideyaoqiu，daozhidejushibianshi：yishizhangfuzaiwaimianshiyechenggong，jiazhongdexifubianchengleshiqufengcaiderenlaozhuhuang、pofu、jiatingfunv;ershixifujinjinweiraojiazhongzhuanquan，duihunyinshenghuodeqingganxuqiushiqubijiaomingan，duizhangfuyouganqingbianchenglezhenqing。

yincixuduo nvxing，youqishijiatingfunv，zaihunhoubianhuijuededaoshifendegudan。

nanshiyibanhuiweilegenghaodifashengxingguanxierzhuangzuomishanglingyifang，ernvshiyibanbaxingzuoweiyizhonghuodeaidefangshi。yinci  ，jiarulaopochuguile，neimatahenyoukenengshizaihunhoutihuibushangzhangfudeai，jierxianghunneichuguizhaoxunganqingdezirun，huanjiehunhoudewuligan。

二、热情褪去：生理需要

nvrenchuguiwanhuilaogongma？conglaimeiyouxinglengtandenvren，youxieshidamahuyandelianren。xianrujin，nvxingdeguannianyulaiyuduiwaikaifang，xingxuqiudeyaoqiuyeyulaiyuliji。

hunhounvrenweishenmewaiyu?jiaruyuzhangfudefuqishenghuobulixianghua，liruzhangfurentibujili，bukeyirangxifushenglixueshanghuodekaolv;huoshizhangfudexingshenghuofangfaguoduculuhuoshiguoduruanruo，xifuwufadedaozishenyaoxiangdekaolvfangfa;neimaxifuweilegenghaodixunzhaoshenglixuedecijixing，bianhuiyukeyijiyuzishenshenglixuyaochongzukaolvdenansheng。

yinci ，fufulianggerenreqingtunqu，youmeiyoufeichanghaokaizhanguanyuxingairenzhinenglidegoutongjiaoliu，bianhuizaocheng fuqifangshibuhexie;hunhounvrendexingrichangshenghuogudujimo，yinerbianhuifeichangrongyi“hongxingchuqiang”，quhunyinshenghuoweiqiangwaibiankaolvzishendeshenglixuechongdong。

三、丈夫出轨：警惕心

yongwaiyulaiduifuwaiyudezhangfu，tashipianzhidexifucaiyongdefangfa。tashinvxingyingduizishenzaodaopanbianercaiyongdeyizhongzishenfangyutizhi。zheileixinlizhuangtaifangyutizhi，ganghaofanyingchunvxingdemingan。

tamendewaiyu，jinjinweilegenghaodixiaochu、taobi、qianyi、xiangdizhangfuchuguiduizishendepanbian。tamenhuaizhe“zijian、jianren”xinlizhuangtaijijiquwaiyu，shenzhiyou，haiyouyirangzhangfulejiezishenwaiyu。

zheileixinlizhuangtaideren，zhuiqiuwanmeidebingbushiqingyuhuoshidekaolv，chunsuishiyizhongxinlizhuangtaishanglinshikaolv。

manhuaijingtixinchuguidelaopo，bingbukeyichongzuxiangyouhunwailianchanshengdexingfuganshou：yishibaochiqingxingzhihouhuiganjueexinxiangtu，ershiyuanbennichedizhanli，zheiyilaifandaozhizishenyuchuyubeidongqingkuang;sanshineiyangdefangfa，shijishangshinazhangfudebuzhengquelaichengfaziji、zuojianziji，chedibingbushiyinweiai。

zuoweiyigenvren，dajiawubigaoqingchu，duiaishangyoufuzhifudezuihaoshiduifubingbushiweilegenghaodisunhaizishen，zhishiweilegenghaodirangzishenfaliang。

xifuweihehunhouchugui?laopochuguizenmewanhuitadexin？bulunshinayizhongyuanguzaocheng dewaiyu，waiyudoudaibiaozheduifuqiguanxidehuihuai，duiairenmanyidudepanbian;jiaruxianghuifuyinerzaochengliefengdehunyinshenghuo，jiubixutourudaliangdeqinfencaiyoukenengbaituokunjing。