daduoshurenzaiyikaishitanlianaideshihoudoushimanhuaixiwangde,danshidaohoumianhuijuedeaibibuaigengkebei,ruguolianrenzhijianjuedeaibibuaigengjimo,shuomingnimenyinggaifenshoule。buaiwodewobuai,fenshouxuyaoyongqi。
一、对未来不看好,觉得没有希望
weilaitingqilaihenyaoyuan,queyoujinzaiyanqian,xiwangtingqilaihenxuwu,danyoubunengmeiyou。xiangxindaduoshuqinglvzailianaishi,kendingduibicideweilaichongmanqidaihexiwang,biruyikaishinanrenyiwusuoyou,dannvrenxiangxinnanrenweilaikendinghuishiyeyoucheng,yehuiduijiatingfuze,ernanrenyehuijuedenvrenweilaihuichengweiyigexianqiliangmu、wenroutitiedehaolaopo。
ruguolianggerenzaixiangchuyiduanshijianzhihou,faxianduifangbingmeiyouanzhaozijidexiangfaqufazhan,bingqielizijixinmuzhongdebiaozhunchajuyuelaiyueda,duibicideweilaiyidiandoubukanhao,zhiqiansuoyoudexiwangyedouzhujiandebianchengleshiwang,neimenimenzhijianyijingbushihezaiyiqile。buaiwodewobuai,manmandebiciganqingbiandanhoujiuxingchenglezheizhongxiangfa。
二、彼此失去了耐心,没有包容和理解
shenghuozhong,qinglvzhijiandexiangchushuonanbunanshuojiandanbujiandan,nengbunengrongqiayukuaidexiangchu,zuizhuyaohaishikanzijizaiduifangxinlideweizhishifouzhongyaoruguobicixiangai、zaihuduifang,neimeyiqiedouhaoshuo,ruguobicibuzaixiangai、xinliyebuzaizhongshiduifang,neimeyiqiedounanshuo,yehuibiandehennanxiangchu。ruguolianrenzhijian,yikaishikeyiyounaixinhaohaoshuohua、haohaozuoshi,youmaodunyenenglimajiejue,nengbaoronghelijieduifang,danshixianzaigoutongbiandeyuelaiyuenan,bicizhijianshiqulenaixin,shenzhiduiduifangmeiyouleyidianbaoronghelijie,aibibuaigengkebei,neimejiuyinggaifenshoule。
三、总在不断妥协,不断委曲求全
lianaizhong,lianggerenzaigefangmiandouyinggaishigongpingeryoupingdengde,chulelianggerendenenglifangmianyaoxiangdang,biruyigezhuanqiandelihai,lingyigeguanjialihai,gengzhongyaodeshizaiqingganfuchufangmianbaochixiangdang。ruguoyoumougefangmianzhangqichuyubupingdengdezhuangtai,neimelianggerendeqingganjiuhuizhujianbiandejixing,zuizhongnanyiweichixiaqu。
suoyiqinglvzhijian,ruguozongshiyifangzaiwudixiandetuoxiehebuduandeweiquqiuquan,lingyifangquegaogaozaishang,sihaobukentuirang,lianggerenzhijian,yigezhiyouwuxiuwuzhidefuchu,lingyigedecunjinchidehuoqu,neimezheifenganqingchizaoyaowan,haiburuzaodianfenshou。
四、越来越觉得对方一无是处,看不顺眼
duiyigerendepingjiayueshiqinjinderenyueshihennanzuodaokeguanduidai,tongchanghuidaiyidiansirenqingganzailimian,bingbuyidingzhendeshizheigerenyouduohaohuozheduocha,daduozhishigerenxinzhongdezhuguanyiyuan。dangnixihuanduifangshi,ziranhuijuededuifangdeyiqiedoufuhenideyaoqiu,rangnimanyizhiji,dangnibuxihuanduifangshi,jiuhuijuededuifangdeyiqiedouburuniyi,nalidouchajing。
suoyizailianaizhong,ruguoqinglvzhijiancongyouzuikaishide“qingrenyanlichuxishi”,bianchengle“yichaoqingyidan,yangyangbushunyan”,shuominglianggerenzhijiandeganqingyijingbianle,aibibuaigengjimo,shidaoleyaofenshoudeshihoule。
五、双方不愿意待在一起
shenghuozhong,daduoshurendouzhihuibayouxiandeshijianliujizuizhongyaoderen,yuanyizaimangliudegongzuozhongjinliangchouchushijianduopeipeijiaren,tongyang,zailianaizhong,duifangjiushizijizuizaihuderen,yiyoushijianjiuhuixiangzhegenduifangdaizaiyiqi,zhanzheduifang,yuanyigenduifangyiqiduguoshengmingzhongdemeifenmeimiao,yiqijianzhengmeiyigexingfudeshike。
danshi,ruguoqinglvzhijianyouzuichudejiuchubuyanbianchenglexiangkanliangshengyan,yidiandoubuyuanyiduokanduifangyiyan,gengjiabuxianggenduifangdaizaiyiqi,neimejiuyinggaifenshoule。
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