dangyigenanrenshuofenshou,zheiyiduanganqingyingdangbianshiqueshigaoyiduanluo。eryigenvrenshuofenshou,zheiyiduanganqingshuzuiduozhiyousuanzuohuoxugaoyiduanluo。shijishangwanbishifouhuoshiyigedayiwen,wanliuzhuzheiyiduanganqinghuoshiyoufeichangdadehenyoukeneng。nanrenshikeguande,tamenjiangchufenshou,tongchangshizaoyilijingtamenbuduandianliangzuizhongcaixiadejielun。ernvrenni,guangfanquanshilixingde,yijufenshoufeichangdahenyoukenengjinjinyishichongdonghuoshiyishihenhua,yincidajiahuoshiyoufeichangdahenyoukenengyongfenshouhouwanhuinvpengyoudehuawanliuzhude。keshifenshouzheijianshiqingyebingbingbushiyijianxiaoshi。nvrentuchulaifenshoujigezihaowuyiwenbiaomingganqinghuoshifashenglenanti,youyixieshierranglingyifangwufajiena,yaoburanlingyifangbuhuineiyangyurenkoushi。neidajiafenshouhouzenmewanhuinvpengyouni?xiabianhuizonglejigenvyoufenshouhouwanhuijiqiao:
1.最先取出挽留的姿势
zaizuoxinlifudaodequanguochengzhong,xuduonanxingpengyoudoushihuishuo:“wohaishiwangbudiaolingyifang,wohennanshou,yinciwoyebatayuechuqu,suihougaozhitazishenxiangfuhexing,danshilingyifangyagenbudaijian。wogaizenmezuo?”meimeitingjianneiyangdehua,wodoushihuiganjueyouqigaoxiao,zishenbushufule,weilegenghaodibuxuzishenbushufu,yincicaixiangqifuhexing,yiqiedoushimousiyu,lingyifangweiheyaotongyifuheni。
ruguofenshouyihou,nixiguanmeiyouta,bubushufule,neinijiubuhuizaiquzhaotaleba。neiyanghuiranglingyifangganjuezishenbianshinishoushangzhaozhijilai,huizhijiqudegongzi。ruguowomenqueshixiangfuhexing,jiuquchuzishenxiangfuhexingdezishichuqu,nvyoufenshouhouwanhuijiqiaobushiguangpingzuibianshuoshuozishenailingyifang,zhishiyaotouruxingdongdeailingyifang,jiaruxingdongshijianhuodongle,lingyifangxianglaiyehuiganshoudaoniduitadeai,tashunlichengzhangbianhuihuidaonideshenpang。
2.多反思自己
lingyifangmingquetichufenshou,kendingshiyoulinglingyifangdequehenwunaidediqu。niuduncengjianghua:“zhenzhenzhengzhengdefengkuangbianshixiangyaoyiyangdefangfahuodebuyiyangdejieguo。”jiurudajiayiqianshiyiabianchengb,jicongliangrenzhujianzaiyiqi,keshiliangrenzhigezhonggeyangjianmoheqi,zuizhongbianchenglebfenshoudejieguo。ruguowomenxianggenggaizheiyijieguo,dajiayidingbixugenggaiquanguocheng。yaoburanjishiliangrenzaicizaiyiqihuidaoleadeqingkuang,keshilijingzhiqianpengdaodeyiyangdenanti,ganqingyidinghuihuoshixiangzhebfenshoudejieguofazhanqushi。
yinciliangrenjiaruqueshixianghehao,xiangzhihoubuqibuli,wubidegenggaizhengzhongjiandequanguocheng。danghenvyoufenshoule,nanshiyidingyaojingxiaxinlaifansiziji,daodinantichuzainaer,xiayicizaipengdaoshi,chukaiyongfenshoulaiduobichuliyiwai,zishendaodinenggouzuoyixieshenmekeyiqujiejuekunnan。jiaruyiweidezhuiqiuwanmeifuhexingzheiyijieguo,erbusikao,meiqusisuochulidejihuafangan,xiayicipengdaoyiyanghuizaicifenshou。
3.给另一方必须的而不是自身要想给的
youyibufennanxingpengyoufanying:nvyoumingquetichufenshou,shiyouyulingyifangpengdaobubian,suihouxiangyigerenjingjingdi。danshizishenfeichangailingyifang,yagenbuyuanfenshou。bingqiehendanyoulingyifangmeiyouzishendeguanai,huiguodebutaihao。yincisanfanwucidequjiuchanbuqinglingyifang,neiyangranglingyifangyulaiyufan。neiyangdezhuangkuangyinggaizenmebanni?ruhehuiranglingyifangbufannisuihouhuidaozishenshenpangni?shijishangcikehebuwenyiwenzishen,zishenshuobailedeailingyifangqueshibixuma?
lingyifangdexinlishijishangzuibixushenme?dajiasuojiyudebingbuyidingshilingyifangzhenzhenzhengzhengbixude,jinyoujiyulingyifangqueshibixude,lingyifangdeyaoqiucaikeyihuodedadao,yaoqiuhuodedadaolecaihuixinqingyukuai,xinqingyukuailecaihuiqujienani。lingyifangpengdaobubian,suihouxiangjingjingdi,dajiahebujiuliudaotashenpangjingjingdishouhoutajiuxing,qulejieshiyongta,zhixutaturanyounaxiebixu,likequxiezhuta。xianglaizheishihoudeta,yidinghuiganxinqingyuandehuidaonideshenpang。
4.能够表述自身念头可是不可以奢求
zairichangshenghuozhong,dajiayizhihuipengdaoneiyanghuoneibandenanti,yinciliangrenzhongjianfashengzhengzhi。zuizhongnvxinghenzhirugu,yincimingquetichufenshou。danshidangfenshouhou,zishenlikeyishidaozishendeshenshangcunyouzhefeichangdadenanti,yincihenkuijiu,henkuijiu,qidaimashanghuodenvxingdekuanrong。suihouchixudequzhaolingyifang,qujilingyifanglishizishenzhihouyidingruheruheduilingyifanghao,qidailingyifanghuidaozishendeshenpang。lingyifangyicibutongyi,suihouzaizaicixunzhaolingyifang,quchengnuodaliangdechengnuo,qidailingyifangmashanghuidaozishenshenpang。lingyifangyicibutongyi,suihouzaizaicixunzhaolingyifang,quchengnuodaliangdechengnuo,qidailingyifangmashanghuidaozishenshenpang。
zaiwomenyiciyouyicidequgenjuchengnuosuihoubipolingyifangmashanghuidaozishenshenpang,neiyangdezuofabudanbukeyibanvyouzhaohuijia,haihuijixulinglingyifangyulaiyudichu。zaiganqingli,womenkeyibiaoshuzishendeniantou,fenshouhouwanhuinvpengyoudehuazhongdebiaoshuzishenduijianglaideyizhongqidai,danshidajiaquemeiyouzhipeiquanqubipolingyifangyidingyizhaodajiayaoxiangdeneibanquzuo。ruguowomenkeyilejiedaobuzhengque,suihoudongxianglingyifangqubiaoshuzishendeyizhongfangan,zishenquxingdong,xianglainvyouhuijianjiandidejieshouni,zuizhonghuihuidaonideshenpang。
5.能够依靠她的好闺蜜
nvrenjingchangquanshijiaoweilixingde,zaiganqingliyehuijiaoweizaiyitarendedianping。dangtabuqingchuzheigerendaodikaobukaopushi,tangruociketadehaoguimizaipangbianshanshanfengshuozheigenanrenyouduomedehao,youduomededefeichangzhideaixi。cikenvrenxinlidetianpingchengbianhuizhujianpianzhongyuhuidaonanshengshenpangle。yincidangnvyoumingquetichufenshouhou,nanshengyidingyaoquchuchengxinquzhaozhaonvpengyoudeguimi,rangtajizijishuojiangqing,chuandizishenyeyouduomededeshenaizhelingyifang。
tangruohaoguimiyehenkanzhongdajialiangrenzhongjiandeganqing,haoguimihaowuyiwenhuilaibangzheiyimang。neiyangliangrendezuozhan,zongshihuibiyigerendenengliangqiang。nvyouhuidaozishenshenpangyejiugengyoukenengle。fenshouhouzenmewanhuinvpengyoubingbushiyijianfeichangrongyideshi。ruguowomennengmingjishangbianhuizongdejigefangmianquanshinvpengyoushuofenshouhou,wanhuiganqingzuiyouxiaodefangshi,zheizhongdoushihuishiwomenshaozouyixiewandao。yehuidadazengjiaqudechenggongwanliujilv。
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