女友说分手还能挽回吗？让自身越来越出色

 ganqingruhe？liangrenzairichangshenghuozhonghaizaiyiqishitianmeide，huoshizaozaiyigexuehuapiaoqidezhongwujiujiangleyiju“baoqian”？dajiahengaoxingxiangyouganqingchanshengdexingfuhexingfu，lingwaiyechenjinzaifenshouhoudetongchuhequehanzhong，neimenvyoushuofenshouhainengwanhuima？huazhenfenxiguoxuduonvyoushuofenshouhouwanhuichenggonganli，zongjieleyitaofenshouhouruhewanhuiduifangdefangshi。

 xiangwanhuiganqinggaizenmezuo？zheisizhongzuihaoyongdewanhuiganqingfangshi，huixiezhunikuaisuzouchushiliandeshangtong，qudechenggongwanhuiganqing。rangwomenyiqiruhekuaisuxuexi。

一.分手后并不恐怖

 fenshouhoubingbukongbu，kongbudeshifenshouhou，niyizhichanzhezishenqutianbu。neiyangzongshiranglingyifangsangshiduinideneiyidianganqing，duinigengweiyanfan。

 yinci，bubizaimeiyoulizhidezhuangkuangxiazuoyixiezishenkongzhibuledeshier。niyishidefengkuanghexianlaiwushidereqing，huibianchengnizhihouwanhuiganqingdejidazuai。.

二.不必惦记着分手后，勤奋提高自己

 henduorenzouzaiaiqingshishangdouhuimilelu。zuixian，tamenshiquzheiyiduanganqing，gengguanjiandeshi，tamenshiquzishen。zheigeshihou，biezheji，xiancongchajuezijizhujian，tigaoziji。nvyoushuofenshouhainengwanhuima？huazhenfenxiguoxuduonvyoushuofenshouhouwanhuichenggonganli，zongjieleyitaofenshouhouruhewanhuiduifangdefangshi。

 neiyang，xiayicilingyifangjiandaozishendeqingkuangxia，bingbushixiangtaohaota，zhishiyouhuibeinidefengcaixiyinzhu，youxianghenizaiyiqi。nanshengyeshizheiban。dengtamengerenmeilitigaole，nvyouhuizaicishenshiziji，henizaiyiqi。

三.储存操纵的机遇

 zuihaoshidewanhuiganqingshijianfenshoudediyigeyue。zaijinglilefenshoudetongchu、jiaolvqingxuhemaiyuanyihou，liangkouzijiujinruleningjingsikaodehuanjie，zheigeshihouyeshizuifeichangrongyixianghuzhijianwanhuiganqingdeqingkuangxia。

dangyigechongzuhaodezishenfashengzainanyiwanghuaideqingjingzhong，neimeliangrendeganqingbianhuizaizheiliqitedexiangfengzhonghuodediaohe。

四.懂得珍惜和把握当下

 meiduanganqingdelaibuyi。wulunjinglileshiduoshao，chiguoshiduoshaoku，jiranzaiyiqile，jiuxuyaohaohaodizaiyiqi，xuehaolijixiangyoumeihaoshiwu。