男友说性格不合该怎么挽回？男人分手基本挽回不了吗？

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1.了解到性格不合的实质

 “xinggebuhe”jinjinyigehenguangdedingyi，danhenduorenbatadangzuozishenganqingzhongweiyidenanti，zhegaiquanbubiedenanti，suihoudanxinzishenxingqingdaodinaerbutaihao，hushibiedenanti，tongchangzaochenglianggerenfenshoudeyouhenduoyuanyin。xunzhaozhenzhenzhengzhengdeyuanyincaisuanshijiejuekunnandezhongyao，yincinixuyaohuiyizaigoutongjiaoliuquanguochengzhong，nishibushiduilingyifangbuzuguanzhu，bujianronglingyifangdejuece。shibushiyouyuzishentaiqianghan，lingyifangjienabushang。

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2.分手的真真正正原因不仅是性格不合

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