因为吃醋和男友分手，分手挽留的话怎么做？

youyunanyouguanxintarenerfahuo，chibuxiaoqinglvdeqianrenyizhizaishenbianhuanglaihuangqu，biandehusiluanxiang，zheizhongquanshidianxingxingdechicugerenxingwei。jiaruniduizheizhongshierzuochuyumeidexingwei，liruzeguainidenanyou，gentazhengzhi，manbujianglihuoshijingongnilianrendeqianrendouzongshibazheifenairenyuetuiyuezhang。gennanshengfenshoudezuihaofangfajiushiliuyouyudi，yinweizheiyangdangnihouhuifenshoulewanliudehua，nicaiyoujihuiwanhuiduifang。danqishijishikansimeiyouwanhuijihuideganqingweiji，yongduilefangfayenengrangfenshouwanliudehuayouchengxiao。lixingdiwanliu，jingmiaojuelun，youyuchicuhenanpengyoutichufenshouzenmewanhui，nenggoukanyixiazheihaoduogefangshi：

1.为何吃醋

feichangshaoyouxiaosanjijizhanchuqurangnichicu。xiangduieryan，qingganzhongdechicuyibanlaiyuanyuduizishenhuozheiyiduanguanliandebuxinrenhequefaanquangan，yincishizhequzhaodaonantidegenbenyuanyin。ninengfajue，yaochulizheizhongnanti，bixugenggaideshinizijihuoshizishendexinlizhuangtai，erbushitashenpangdemouyirenhuomouyirendezuofa。

2.塑造你的自信心

henzixinderenyibanburongyisuibianchicu，youyutamenlejiezishenmeibiyaoneiyangzuo。wulunzaimangmeiridoushizhejiyayidianshijianzuohaozijixiaideshier，huirangnigerenganjuebiandeyouliang。danghusiluanxiangdeniantouzainaozilishanguoshi，shizhebatamenganpao。jianjiandide，nidexinxinbianhuisuzaoqilai，jiuburongyineimezaihutarendeniantouhuoshizuofale。

3.不必有意较为

nihenyoukenengchangchanggenjuhenanpengyoudeqianrenhuoshishenpangdenvshengzuobijiaolaiduidaizishen。baoxianqijian，niqidaizaitayanzhongganjuenibitarenchuse，bisheidouhao。yaojiejuezheileixiaochenqingkuang，jirantatiaoxuanleni，neiweiheyeyoukaizhanzheileibubiyaodejiaoweini。wuluntadeqianrenheshenpangdenvshengshinaxiede，taxihuandeshini，weiyouni！

4.从他人的视角独立思考

jiarunanpengyoudeqianrenxiangshitahuishou，congtadeshijiaoxiangyixiang。huichuxiannaxiedetihui:wunaihedanxin。xiangbishengtadeqi，gengyingdangshenyoutihui，jitamenxiangyong。

5.主要表现出吃醋是没有用的