因为彩礼相忘于江湖是分手吗？该怎么挽回男友

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1.清晰另一方的“整体实力”

cailiguigenjiedibianshiquanyinanti，pingchangwulundajiayouduotianmei，zhixuqianshedaoquanyinanti，bianhuipulushizhi。bukeyibacailidangzuoboyi，hushilelingyifang。youyixienvhaiganjuenanfangjiazhongjidecailiyuegao，yuenengzhengshitaduinidezaiyi，huoshishizaijiarendeguidingxiamingquetichugaoecaili。nvshengzijiyaogaoqingchu，jiehunhounishiyaohezheigenanrenrichangshenghuo，tadejingjifazhanbiaozhunniyeqingxi，meibiyaolingrenfuzhaileilei，cailiyijudiqufengsuxiguan，lianglierwei，jigeyitoujiukeyile。jiqinrenzuoyizuosixianggongzuo，rangtamenlejienidexingfukuailecaisuanshizuizhongyaode。

2.提早搞好“预估”

zaitancailideqingkuangxiabicizhijianxianjiechuanxiabicidefumu，genfumumingqueyigeedu。ruoxiangdetaigaohuoshijidetaidibicizhijiannenggouxiangenfumurongqiayixia，zuizhongquzhengzhongjianzuigaozhi。neiyangshuangfangdoujiaoweinengjiena。neiyangchulaibicifumupengmianshijiujinjinzouyizoufangshi，yebuhuiyouyutancailiershilesuihe。

3.立在同一方的角度观察难题

enaiyuezhangyuefeichangrongyihulvelingyifang，xiguanlingyifangdetouru，zuoweilisuodangran。yicailizuoweishibushixintengnideguifan，taganjuenihuaxuewuzhi，feichangrongyiwanbizheiyiduanjiangyaomaijinhunyindeqinggan。yingdangyichengdairen，lejienanfangdeburongyi，tawanhunyaotiqianzhunbeichelianghefangwu，yeyaoyingduigaoecaili，qianquanshileisileihuozanxiade，bingbushifengdagualaide。hunyinshilianggerendeshi，yeshi2gejiazhongderonghe，nanyibimianhuizaochengmoca。niyinggaibianchenglajinliangjiarenguanliandegongluqiaoliang，bicizhijianjiejinsuonengkaolv，weilingyifangkaolvdao。