zhenzhengdeaiqingyijianshifenxingfudeshier,eryiguolianyibanhuirangneimeyizhongxingfudeganshouhanyouyisikuwei。yiguoliancushiliangrenganqingchuxianwenti,xianghuzhijiandegoutongyegengjiadepinfa,yinciyibanyiguoliandezhongguijieguodaliangdeshifenshou。danshifenshoudeyaosuhuoxudaliangshiyinweiliangrendegoutonggoutongqianque,yewufashifenhaodebicizhijianlejieherongna,yincihenduonvxingqujueyuyiguoliannanpengyoufenshoujianglaiyouhuizhujianfajuelingyifangdehao,youyoufuhexingdexiangfa。qishiyouxuduorendechulianzuihoubushibaijiganqing,ershibaijishijianhejuli。dangcengjingdeqinglvyidifenshoujianmiannenghehaoma?chulianfenshouhuitoulvyouduoshao?qishineixieyidilianfenshoudezhengzhaonvshengdoushifenmingan。
一、提升沟通学好容纳,将两人中间的对立面都很好的解决
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二以感情基础为驱动力,主动进攻去挽留
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