和男朋友冷战多久算分手，注意着三点！

 henduorendaoganqingzhongyuelaiyueshifenbijiaomingan，tamenchangchangwujinbiandasuoshi。nvhaimendouxiangbeilingyifangdangzuoxiaogongzhuyiyangguanhuai，qidailingyifangnengweizijidaliang。yiner，zaisuonanmianyoujiaozongdezihao。ruguonifahuobingshuoshenmedeshihou，fenqibianhuifasheng，henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshou？ruguolengzhanleyiduanshijian，qishidajiahuijuedehefenshouwuyi。neifenshouhouhaixianglianxita，keshifenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxizenmeban？

一、“过渡期”在分手中很重要

 henanpengyoufenshouhou，nikeyihenanpengyougoutongjiaoliu，qidaihuodeyigeyuede“fenshouguoduqi”，yijianqingfenshouchanshengdetongchu，dabufennanpengyoudouburongyihenxinhuijuetamennvyoudezheiyiguiding。

 mianduinidenanpengyou，nikeyishuo：“wozhongshizishenqingkuangle，keshiqingjiwoyigeyuedeshijianlaishuliherongruwomendeguanxi，dajiahuiyongzheiyiyuelaigaoqingchudajiayaoxiangnaxie。”neiyang，nikeyiyoudaliangdejiyuhenidenanpengyoujiaowang。zheihaoxiangshiyigequanyizhiji，keshizaizheigequanguochengzhong，nikeyixiangpenyouyiyanghenidenanpengyouhudongjiaoliu，xiangnidenanpengyouzhanxianyigexindeni。

 wodeyigepenyou，tadenanpengyou，hetafenshoule，youyutamenzaizhuiruqingwangdequanguochengzhongmeiyougongpingditouru，tadenanpengyouganjuehenlei，bukeyihetazaiyiqi，youyutazaizhuiruqingwangdequanguochengzhongmeiyouxiangtadenanpengyouneibanzijintouru，yincitadenanpengyoufenshoule。

 womingbaiwodenanpengyouyiranshenaizhezishen，keshijiaruwufadedaozishenyiyangdechoulaohehuifu，wonengsangshireqinghezixinxin。yiner，taqidaitadenanpengyounengjitayigeyuedeshijian，neiyangtadenanpengyoujiunengjuededaotayixinyiyidihetazaiyiqi，shitayinzhengtadezhuanbian。zaixiamiandeyigeyueli，taweitadenanpengyouganlexuduotananpengyouweitazuodeshier。dangtadenanpengyoukanjiantagenggaishi，tagandaokongjuhedadong，zuizhongtamenyoufuhexingle。taqudechenggongjiuletadenanpengyou。

二、讲话要当心，留意对你男朋友的危害

 ruguonihenidenanpengyoufenshouhou，niyaowanliuta。zheishi，meishenmebiniqueshixiangxiyintabinghetazaiyiqigengnengchudongtale。shitalejieniaita。zuixianyaozuodeshirenzhendicongzishendeshenshangxunzhaofenshoudeyuangu，zhenxinchengyirencuo，shinidenanpengyoujiandaotadexinxinhezhuanbian。biru，jiadingniyouyutaiqianghanerfenshou，changchangzaipenyouyanqianjixiaohequxiaonidenanpengyou，zheishinidenanpengyouganjuehenifenshouhenkuijiu，yenanyichengshou。

 zuixian，niwubiyishidaoshierzishendeyanzhonghouguo。duinieryan，neihenyoukenengjinjinyijuwuyijiandehuahuoyigexiaohua，danniyinggaizhidao，rujintazaoyibianchenghenifenshoudeyuanxiong。lingwai，niyinggaifansiziji，jiejinsuonengjizijikaolv，xiangyixiangninanpengyouneishihoudexinlitihui，ganshouyixiaduininanpengyoudaozhidexinlizhuangtaisunhai。nixuyaozhunbeichongfenyigejingcaifenchengganrenzhishendeyanshuo，binggaohaowengao。zheibingbushishuoniyinggaizhuangzuo，zhishiweilegenghaodibimianzaininanpengyouyanqianjiejiebaba。zhaoyigedajiadouningjingdeshijian，guidingshuoshuohua。zaijiaotanzhong，dajiayingdangpouxiliangrendexiankuanghejianglai，erqieyaoyouyijuhechongchizheqinggan。zaiqingxujidongdezhuangkuangxia，ninengjinbuzhufangshengdaku。zheishihou，nibeizijigandongle。nidenanpengyouburongyibeidadong，yebuhuijinidelihuahejiangshuijuedeshangxinma？

三、完毕苟且偷安的承诺

 dabufenfufuzaiganqingzhongdechengnuorutongfenglidechengnuo。jiarunirenzhenwanchengtamen，nihenyoukenenghuifushang。zheiyichengnuozaoyibukaopule，gengbieshuofenglidechengnuole。henduolianaizhongdenanhaierxuguodechengnuohenyoukenenghenjiuyihoujiubeiyiqile，yehenyoukenengburongyiwancheng。huoxuchengnuozuihoubuhuizaiguanjian.jianghuazhekeyiyongnaxiedexiucifangfalaishuodongwenzhejienatadechengnuo？

 qingchengnuomeiyouganranli，bukeyichongfenfahuishijixinggongxiao。ruzaichengrenkezishendebuzhengqueshi，tabuyinggaiyizhishuo：“womingbaiduibuqi，xiayiciburongyizaicifashengle。”huoxujinyoutanenglejieneiyangdehuayouduocanbai。

 jiarunijiangtagaiwei“wobaozhengzheijiangshizuihouyici，jiaruxiangjindeshierzaicichuxian，wonengjijixiaotuizainideyanxia”，“jiarunizaiweifafanzui，niyejiuzaiyebunengjiuchanbuqingzishen，huoshizuzhouzishenyebuhuihuodexingfukuaile”，zheixie，shijixiaoguohuigenghao。jilaozaizheigeshihouyaoduizishenyangeguanli，weilaininenggengkaixin。jinyouzhenshedechengnuozaizheishilingrenanxin。henanpengyoulengzhanduojiusuanfenshouhaishiyaokanzhijianyoumeiyoujihuiwanhui。fenshouhounanyoubujiedianhuabuhuixinxiqishibingbudaibiaomeiyouwanhuijihui，kenengshiduifanghaizainaopiqi。fenshouhouhaixianglianxitajiuyongganditachuwanhuidiyibu。