如何挽回想要分手的女友，分手断联半年后来联系

 jiarushuoxiangaishiyizhongyuanfen，neimexiangaibianshiyizhongfangfa。tanlianaishiyizhongyansurenzhendeshehuishijianhuodong，neimejiranyoutanlianaiderenjiuhaowuyiwenyouyouyugezhonggeyangyuanguyaofenshouderen，zhongjiuxuduoqingkuangxiajinyoujingliguokankejingtaohailangdeaiqingcaifeichangzhidexiaoqinglvquaixi，yincichenjinyuaiqinglichaochaonaonaoshizaipubiandanshidele，neimezenyangcainengfangzhizheizhongshishifeifei，rangaiqingshunlijieguo。congnvqingrenxiangfenshoudebiaoxianfenxi，fenshouhouduifangmeibawoshanchu，danshifenshouduanlianbannianhoulailianxishishenmeyisi？gairuhewanhuita？

 jiarushuoxiangaishiyizhongyuanfen，neimexiangaibianshiyizhongfangfa。tanlianaishiyizhongyansurenzhendeshehuishijianhuodong，neimejiranyoutanlianaiderenjiuhaowuyiwenyouyouyugezhonggeyangyuanguyaofenshouderen，zhongjiuxuduoqingkuangxiajinyoujingliguokankejingtaohailangdeaiqingcaifeichangzhidexiaoqinglvquaixi，yincichenjinyuaiqinglichaochaonaonaoshizaipubiandanshidele，neimezenyangcainengfangzhizheizhongshishifeifei，rangaiqingshunlijieguo。

 doushuoyijianshiqingyoujieguojiuyidinghuiyouyuangu，yincimeiyicidefenshouquanshiyouyuangude，yehuishiyouyixieyuzhaode，jiurutong：yiduanshijiandebulianxi、jianghuameiyouxintai、buhuizaixiangyaoheniyiqizuoshiqingzheixiequanshi，yinciruguonidenvyouyongyouzheizhongyuzhao，jiubiaomingnixuyaochongfenzhunbeile。

第一步：自我反省

 haohaodixiangyixiangzheiduanshijianyoushenmedifangmeiyourutadeyi，huanjuhuashuonizainaerzuobuduishierzishenmeiyoufajue，yinciyigehaodezhanshishiburongyidayichangmeiyoutiqianzhunbeidezhang，xianzishenhaohaodisikaoyixiazheixiediquzuodebuzu，yidingyaokaolvdaoquanfangwei、xini。xinidaomeiyijianxiaoshi。

第二步：积极了解自己的不正确

 jiranzaoyifajuelezishenshizainaerchulecuo，jiuxuyaojijilejiezijidebuzhengque，jiaruniyaojiangcuojiucuoniyejiudacuotecuole，nvhaiquanshiyizhongjiaoweibijiaomingandexiaodongwu，yincibubichangshitiaozhantamendedaodedixian，huoshijijichengrencuowujiaowei，jianxinneiyanghuihuanjienidekuxingde。

第三步：用其所长

 shenmejiaoyongqisuozhangni？bianshinijiangnvyourefahuo，rangtaganjuekanbujiandajia2gedejianglai，yaoxiangwanbizheiyiduanmeiyoujieguodeaiqing，yinciyundongnidenaozihaohaodixiangyixiangruhezuocaikeyirangnvpengyouganjuedajia2geshiyoujianglaide，bixunizenmezuocaikeyirangnvyouduiniyouxinxin。

第四步：讨好卖乖

 meiyousheiyaoqiuzhiyounvhaizisajiao，nanhaizihaikeyi，zaizheileiqingkuangxiajiuxiangyaonimaixietaxiaidexiaolipin，zuoxietaxihuanchidecai，daitaquyizhidouyaoxiangqudediquwanyiquan，zaizheigeshihoushidudetiqianzhunbeiyidianyiwaijingxi，biaobiaonidezhenxinshiyi，jianxinhuoshishibeigongbande，zhixubingbushichedisixinjiuhuoshinengjiude。

 renbayizhibuzhenxiyanqianyouzhede，xiaiqudaoniansangshide，yincijiuxianzaiyeyouwanliudekongjianquboyiba。fenshouhouduifangmeibawoshanchuqishijiushiliulejihui，fenshouduanlianbannianhoulailianxiyouhendadewanhuijihui，tongguonvqingrenxiangfenshoudebiaoxianzhaodaofenshouyuanyin，jiunengzaoriwanhuitale。