两败俱伤的分手了，怎么挽回出轨的人?

 liangbaijushangdefenshoulecongganqingdaohunyinshenghuo，zheiyiquanguochengbingbuyi，yiner，jibian lingyifangwaiyu，fenshoudehuaxianshidiandehenduorenyechangshiwanhuihunyin，erbushidianjizhehelingyifangliyi。yiner，ruhewanhuiwaiyuhunyinshenghuo，waiyuhunyinshenghuozaoyuhenduonanti，yinerfenshoulehaiyoubiyaofuhema，jiarujiejuebutaihao，zuihaoshibubiwanliu。

外遇过的人还能和好如初吗?怎么挽回出轨的人?

1.一同负责任

 youyuninshinanxing，yincininwuxudanfuquanbuyiwuheguocuofenshoulehaiyoubiyaofuhema。yebubijuedenishinanrenjiuganjuezishenzhigaoqiang。yaoqiunvxingzaiyiqiezhuangkuangxiadezerenheyiwushisha?wulunshinaxiedeqingkuang，nanshengxinlidedananrenzhuyiyizhizaibujingyijianeshalezishendeqinggangjiegou，yincinixuyaoxianghuzhijiangoutongjiaoliuhechengshou，yijiejueerzhedeqinggangengweizhazhashishi，jinerjiejuewaiyudeniantou。

2.公平交往

 chuguidehunyintongchangshiyinweijiazhongdeyayiganeryaoxiangzaihuwaishifangyali。fenshoulehaiyoubiyaofuhemaconggushihouzhujian，nvxingjiuyingdangzaoshounanshengdezhongshi，yingduizishendequanyishiyingdangyuzishenchuzaitongyigaokuanbi，erqielejiezenyangzhongshiheweihulingyibanzheicaisuanshitazuiyaoxiangdeganqing。weijiazhongquanyizuoyiqieshieryiqiandoubixukaolvdaotadeqingganhejingyu，fuqijiandegongpingnenggou gaibianxianzhuang，cainenggou ranglingyifangchicunwaiyudexiangfa。

3.相互之间沟通交流

 zaihenduohunyinshenghuoyujiatingzhong，nvshiyibanmeiyouhuayuquan，fenshoudehuaxianshidiandeerxiailingdaoganbudenanshengyizhixiaixiafazhiling。huoxuninjibenshangmeiyouzhuyidaonindelaopoxiangfayankeshiyouhaipajiangdemoyang。tadexinlizhuangtaishinaxiedeniyebuqingchu，yaoxiangzhengjiuchuguidehunyin，keshizuixianninbixubaituoyixieguanlijueceniantou，zuixianlejietadetiyiheniantou，zhengqiutadeniantou，fenshoudehuaxianshidiandebianweigeyigelingtinglaopoxinlihuaderen。tashizhengjiuwaiyuhunyinshenghuodeyizhongfangshi。

4.向另一方忍让

 zaifuqiguanxizhong，yibannanrendoushixiaiyaohaode，danzheibingbudaibiaozheshishikekedouxuyaoshiyanyigewanqiangdenansheng，keshixianrujin，youyixienvshichangchangyouzhezishendegongzuozhong，ergongzuozhongbubinanshengshaoxun。wanliuyiduanjianxindehunyinshenghuoshi，ninnenggou xuexipeixunzenyangshousuozishendedananrenzhuyi，renshounvxing，zaimingquetichumaodunshitingyitinglaopodetiyi，jiqimeiyigerendexiangchuzenyangyuelaiyueyulaiyuchangshun，fangzhirangneiyige2gebenrendouzaochengyaoxiangzaiwaimianxunzhaokuanweideniantou。

5.切勿揭穿

 jibian ninlejielingyifangzaimengpiannin，yebubiqiangdiao，yumeidenvxingyoushihoubiqingshanggaodenvrengengyouyouhuoli。keshi，ninnenggou zhengyizhiyanjingbishangyan，chufeishilingyirenweibeinindebiaozhun。biru，tawanhuijiale，xianeryijianwanerpukepai，keshitashuodaojiabanjiadiangongzuozhong，ninengtiqianzhunbeiyexiao，shunlichengzhangditaxinlihuiduoduoshaoshaoduiniyouyixieneijiu，zhihouyehuijinkenengkaolvdaonidetihui，keshi，jiaruniyingyaoxianchangjiechuan，zongshigengweijiajulingyifangduinidedichu，yinxiaoshida。

6.做最好的自己

 yigenvrenzhengrizainanshengshenpangfeibenzhongjiuhuinanguohebeipaoqi。jiaruninxiangbananrenxinjiuhuijia，liangbaijushangdefenshoulezebixugenggaixiangfa。dangnincongxinlingshenchuchongfenfahuifengcaishi，ninhaidanyounanshenghuiyiqingbielian?wuxudanyouninderichangrichangshenghuo，chongshizijiderichangshenghuo，jianshenyundong，yundongjianshenyouxianxiashijian，huoshigennindepenyoupeiyangyincha，maidongxihequkanshudexiguanxing，tamensuobumingbaideyiqiedoushihuizaishulizhuanjiajiaoshou。liangbaijushangdefenshoulenvxingnenggou budushu，keshijuebudebuqukanshu，weiyounishengmingfengyule，nicaijuyouchongzudeyouhuoli，nanshengcaiburongyisuibianyiqingbielian。