没结果却又不愿意分手？如何让前任主动挽回？

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1.把握机会

 gudairenwulunzuoshashiquanshizhuzhongtianshidili，jibawozhuyouyijihui，zhenduiwanhuinanshengeryan，bawozhulejihui，jiudengtongyubawozhuletadexin。

 fenshouzhihou，fenchengsigehuanjie：dichuqi，zhuiyiqi，zhengshiqiheyiqiezhengchangqi。gaoqingshangdenvxingzaidichuqixianneiburongyimashangshuohelingyifangfuhexing，dichuqiyibanyuewei1-2zhou，jiaruniyizhizaizheishilianluota，anshixingdewanhui，zongshishitadichu，jinershizhongsangshita。

ninnenggouraoguozhuiyiqibingzaizhengshiqixianneilijiwanhui。zuihaowanhuiqishizhuiyiqihehuifuguolaiqi。

 zaizhuiyijieduan，yejiushidagai2geyue，zhangqixingbuchupengzaochenglingyigerenjuedezheileiguanlianzaoyiwanbi，suihouturanmaochuzailingyifangderichangshenghuo。

 zheibudanjilingyifangchanshengleyiwaijingxi，bingqiechanshenglemingxiandeganqingcijixing，kuozhangbingkuozhanglezhangjiaotandecuobaigan。chucizhiwai，zaiyiqiezhengchangzhuangkuangxia，wanhuidegailvhengao，shishishang，henduorenfajuehenduorenzaoyilikailejiaozhangyiduanlu，daotoulaicaifajue，diediezhuangzhuang，huoshifanhuileqidian。

2.重构，更改和改进自身

 womenzhidao，aizaiyufengcai，wanhuiganqingzegenjufengcaihuodefuhexing。gaoqingshangdenvrenzaiwanhuidelumianshang，huitishengzijideyouhuoli。

 weilegenghaodiwanchengercixiyindezongtimubiao，dajiawubifujian，genggaihetishengziji。rutongaidezhujian，weilegenghaodirangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang，zhishixiyinzhubicizhijianshibuzude。

 gaoqingshangdenvrenhuibazijishenxinjiankangdexinlizhuangtaiheshehuizhengnengliangchengxianchuqu，lirumeiridoujianchibuxieyundongjianshen，xiaidaolenianshuzheixie。lingwaihaiyaotigaozijidebenzhishenmeiguan，erqiexuehaozenyanggenjuweixinpengyouquanzhanxianquanxinshengjidezishen。

3.未作、了解最重要

 qinggaoqingshanggaodenvxingyingdangfangzhibukexuedenanti。youyumanbujianglishidezuo，zheihuiranglingyifangjuedeyanfan，bingjiangtayinxianggengzhangyuandediqu。

 shishishang，aishigongpinggongzhengdekeshiyeshijianyide。nixuyaozuodebianshilejie。jiaonanwanhuideshilejieweihelingyifangzheibanlengdan，zheibanxintai。

 jinyougenjulejie，zheixiekanshangquhaoxiangshisunhailingyifangdegerenxingweidoubeihuodeleyuanliang。zaiwanhuiquanguochengzhong，gaoqingshangdenvxingnenggouranglingyifanggengkaixin，fuhexingdeqingkuangxia，lingyifangcaikeyirangtamenduodadao。

4.先从盆友逐渐

 buguannanshengshibushiyouxinganqing，gaoqingshangnvshengdougaoqingchutamenzaoyibuhuizaishiqinglvguanlianle，yincitamenhaowuyiwenhuibawoyigefencungan，erbushixiangzhiqianneibansuibian。congpenyouzhujian，jianjiandijiance，bubijiqiequdechenggong。zaibicidechupengzhongyihendangrandeqingkuangkaizhan，meiyoulingyifanghuiyingxinxideqingkuangxia，likechengxianzishendeyaoqiu。

 dengyoushihedejiyuzaiyueta。shishishang，ruguonizuoshangbiantijide“genggainiziji”shi，ninengqudechenggongxiyinnanrenlaiyueni，erbuhuafeidanaoshenjingquyueta。

congpenyouzhujian，shitazaidulejie，nizaoyibingbushizhiqiandeni，suihoutabianhuizhongxinlejieni，suihouzaidaoercilianai。

5.坚持到底

 zaiwanhuidequanguochengzhong，bulizhidejingshenshizhishiguangfande，ruguonixiangwanhuiyigerenshi，nixiangxingaoqingshangnvxingburongyiyouyubugaoxingersheqi。

 tamenbuqidaiyixiajiunengbaituokunjing，tamenmeiyouxinlikongzhizhuanyejinenglaixunsushixing。qiantitiaojianjiushinixiangxintayiranxinliyouni，bingbingbushizaizuoxiamang。ruguojuedeleilejiufenshou，meijieguoqueyoubuyuanyifenshouzhihuishanghaishuangfangdeqinggan。suoyinandefenshouhoubuzailianxinishibuailema？yuqiwenzheigewentiburukaishiwanhuixingdong！