分手了该不该挽回女朋友

　　dangnidenvpengyougaosunitabuzaixihuannishi，zheijiangshiyicilingrenxinsuidejingli。raner，jishiyiqiesihudoujieshule，rengranyouyixiefangfakeyibangzhunihuifuzheiduanguanxi。yixiashicongbutongdejiaodulaifenxiruheshituzhengjiuta。fenshoulegaibugaiwanhui？

　　1.观察是否有明显变化

　　zaishituzhengjiunidenvpengyouzhiqian，qinglejietazuijindezhuangtai。tadeshenghuofashenglebianhuama？tadegongzuo、daxue、yujiarenhuopengyoudeguanxifashenglebianhuama？gezhongyinsukenenghuidaozhitadeqingganbutongbu，suoyizixiguanchatadexianzhuangyouzhuyujiashenniduitadelijie。

　　2.记住她所关心的

　　zhengjiunidenvpengyouxuyaonilejieta，youqishitaganxingqudedongxi。nikenengzhidaotaguanxindediquhuotaqidaideweilai，zhuazhutaxihuandedongxi，bangzhutazhaodaotadereqing。zheiyouzhuyuzhongjianqingganlianxi。

　　3.讨论你的感受

　　zheiduinilaishuoshiyigefeichangtongkudeshike。shizhelengjingditaolunnideganshouhetaduinideyingxiang。nikeyiwentashifounenglijienizheiduanshijiandeganshou。yidantalijielenideganshou，takenenghuibeigandong，zixikaolvnideguanxi。

　　4.给她留个空间

　　suirannizhendehenxiangjiunidenvpengyou，danyoubiyaojitayixieshijianqusikao。zaizheigeguochengzhong，nikeyirangzijibiandegenghao，danyekeyibiaomingniyoujuexinhuifunideganqing。zheiyeshiyigejihui，fenshoulegaibugaiwanhui？rangnidenvpengyouzhidaomeigerenzhijiandegehe。

　　5.记得解决问题

　　dangnikaishizhongxinxiangchushi，buyaowangjinimenzhijiandewenti。ruguoniyourenhezhengzhi、maodunhuowenti，nixuyaochuli。genjunidewenti，nikeyijianligengqinmideguanxi。liru，ruguowomenzhijianyougoutongwenti，nixuyaoqingtingta，rangtagandaoanquan。