分手后有必要挽回吗

　　zheishihenduonanxingpengyoudoukaolvguodewenti。nvpengyoushuoleile，shibushishuomingganqingjieshule？ruhehuifu？benwenjiangcongduogejiaodutaolunzheigewentidedaan。fenshouhouyoubiyaowanhuima？

、　　shouxian，xuyaomingquedeshi，fenshouhouyoubiyaowanhuima？nvpengyoushuoleibingbuyidingyiweizheganqingdejieshu。youshi，nvpengyoushuoleizhishizanshide，yexuzhishiyinweishenghuo、gongzuoheqitafangmiandeyali，huozheyinweitamenzhijiandemaodunhechongtu。

　　qici，ruguonvpengyoushuoleile，neimenanhaiyidingyaorenzhenzhengqiunvpengyoudexiangfaheganshou。jinliangbuyaorenweinvpengyouleishiyinweiaiqingyouwenti，ershizhudongxunwennvpengyoudexin，zhaochutaweishenmezheimeshuo。

　　ruguoshiyalizaochengdepilao，neimenanhaikeyicaiquyixiejijidefangshilaibangzhunvpengyoujieshengkaizhi，biruhenvpengyouyiqisanbu，huozheyiqilvxingfangsong。ruguoshiliangrenzhijiandemaodunhechongtuzaochengdepilao，neimenanhaibixuzixifenxibicizhijiandewenti，bingzhudongchulitamen。

　　ziran，ruguonvpengyoushuoleile，zhendedaibiaoleganqingdejieshu，neimenanhaijiubuyinggaizeguaizijihuojusang。ganqingdejieshushilianggerenzhijiandeshi，youshijishinijinlezuidadenuliyewufamibu，yebuyaogandaoshiwang。hepingfenshoushizuihaodexuanze。

　　首先，不能有无休止的纠缠。如果女朋友已经明确表示不愿意继续发展，那么就不要纠缠，不要让女朋友有任何无聊或厌恶的心态。

　　qici，buyaojiyuqiucheng。ruguonvpengyouduifuhehaiyouyouyuhedanxindetaidu，neimenanshengbuyinggaitaijigongjinli，eryinggaizunzhongnvpengyoudexiangfa，manmanhuifu。

　　zuihou，chengrennidecuowu。ruguoyigenanhaiqueshifanleyixiecuowu，bingshanghailetadenvpengyou，neimeyidingyaochengrenbingrenzhenjiuzhengta。ruguonimeiyouyongqimianduinidecuowubingjiuzhengtamen，neimezhengjiuninvpengyoudenulijiangshitulaode。

　　zongzhi，nvpengyoushuoleibushiganqingdejieshu。nanshengyaorenzhenzhengqiunvpengyoudexiangfaheganshou，caiqushidangdefangfabangzhunvpengyou。ruguonvpengyouyijingmingquebiaoshibuyuanyijixufazhan，neijiubuyaozaijiuchanle。zaijiunvpengyoudeguochengzhong，nanshengyeyaozhuyibuyaojiyuqiucheng，chengrenzijidecuowu。