爱你的人和你爱的人该如何选择

ainiderenheniaiderengairuhexuanze?zhenzhengdeaiqingshishenmeyangzide?zheijianzhigelaodiaoyadedanxuanti。ruguoninianqingdeneishihou，nihaowuyiwenhuitiaoxuannizuiaideren，zheijiufangforuguoninianqingshi，lanyanzhijiheshenghuobanlvyaoruhequshe，nihaowuyiwenhuijuebuchichuditiaoxuanlanyanzhiji，nicaibubiyigeshenghuobanlv。ruhejingying☞ hunyin ？

一、爱你的人和你爱的人该如何选择

zhihoudeyitian，nimeineimanianqingle，caiwozhongyumingbai，yaozhaogeshenghuobanlvbingbuyidingbizhaogelanyanzhijifeichangrongyi，naizhigengnan。zhenzhengainideren，nijianghuimeineimeaita，naizhibuxihuan，danniyingdangyizhiyufanganta。

ainiderenheniaiderengairuhexuanze?zhenzhengdeaiqingshishenmeyangzide?nizuiaideren，tajianghuiaizheni，yejianghuibuxihuan;jibianai，yemeiniaitaneimaduo。yigeshizhenzhengainideren，yigejiushinizuiaideren，ruguomeifamishangyigezhenzhengainideren，nijiububidanxinxinhanhepengshang，quaiyigenizuiaiderenba。

tangruomeiyouyigenizuiaideren，nijiuxiangfangshefaqumishangnagezhenzhengainiderenba。ruguomeifazuodao，nijiuzaicidenghou，huoshitiaoxuanzishenyigerenguoshenghuosuanleba。

niaiyeaizhenide，huoxuzuixingfu，keshi，renshijiandexingfuguoshao，zongyouyigeaideduoyixie，zongyouyigeguanzhelingyigeduoyixie。sheibuqingchuenaishi?sheibuqingchuqingsibidansixingfukuaile?kechenshiqihuibujinrenyi，youshi，yubudaojiushishuoyubudao。niyeshinenggoutiaoxuandenghouhuoshitiaoxuangudande，kenidoubuxiangyao。

yigeailingyigeduoyixie，huoshiliangrenaideyiyangduo，xiachangshifoujiuhuibuyiyang?youshi，quehuishiyiyangde。buguangangkaishideneishihoushiruhedeyizhongganqing，buguanzheiyirenjiushiniaidehuanshiaizhenide，buguannizenyangqinfenqulengzang，ganqingtazhibuguoshihuilaode，zheijiushishuoaiqingdebenzhi。laidaoneishi，yikaishidaodishisheiaisheiduoyixie，zaoyibuguanjianle。

ganqingyuanbenyebuzhangqi，zhizhitabianweiwobunengmeiyouni、niyebukeyiwuwoyou、niyeshimeiyoutarennenggoutidai，woshi。renhaimangmang，renmenzhaoxunxinzhongzhongdexingfuhunyin，zuizhongzongzaisuonanmianxinhan。renmenzuihouyaoxiangdeshiyigepeinizouzairenshijianzouyihuideren，tazhangwoni，taxihuanni，tajienanidehaohebutaihao、nideguangmangheheiyin。

ainiderenheniaiderengairuhexuanze?zhenzhengdeaiqingshishenmeyangzide?youxieren，ganqinghuibianchengzhenqing，yeyouxieren，ganqingbukeyidoubuyingdangbianchengzhenqing。zheierzhongjiaofadouduile，ganqingzhinengdangtabianchengyifenxiangzhenqingyiyangdeqinggancaiburongyiyouyanfan，caiburongyijianyisiqian，caiburongyifenli，cainenggouxiangshoudaolao。

shubuzhi，ganqingqueshibingbushizhenqing，liangrenzairuheenai，doushimeiyouxueyuanguanxide，shimeiyougende，shuozheishizhenqing，shiduoshaoyoudianerziqi，bingqie，ganqingyidanbianchenglezhenqing，yejiushiquganqinglanmanhemengliedebenxing。sheiyouqueshimingbaiganqingni?danshijiushinipengdaodeganqingyilugenggaini。

ganqingshizaitaixiangyichangwangluodubo?youshihouniduyingle，youshihounishudiao。genwangluodubobuyiyangde，shiwangluodubodejieguobiquanguochengguanjian，nizhixiangying。sheiyaoshuo：「jinguanshudiao，danshiyehenxiangyounagequanguocheng，dubodeneishihouyezhangdayihou。」zheileichunhuani?

ganqinggenwangluodubobuyiyang，ganqingdequanguochengbijieguoguanjian。aideneishihou，huoxuyaoxiangyigexingfudejieguo，kesheiyoulejieni?youderenlaidaowanhunneiyikejiuhuiyuele，youderenjiehunlehaozhangshijianyihoucaihuiyue，zhixiangjinzaoliqu，suihouquaitaren。

renmenxiangyouguoganqingdetianmei，renmenzaiganqinglizhangdalehechengzhang，zaiganqinglilejieziji、zhaojianzishen，zheijiuzaoyizhuanle，jieguozenyang，doubuneimaguanjianle，yebingbushirenmennenggoucaozongde。

wangluodubohuoxushiyoufengxianxingde，zaiyebuhuiyizhiying，ganqingjiranxiangwangluodubo，dazirandoushibansuifengxianxingde，niyongyuanbuzhidaorujinzhenzhengainiderennayitianhuranbuxihuanniba。huoxu，yeshijianghuijiushinizuixianbuaita。aiqinghehunyindanshishimingzhibukeweierweizhi。

ainiderenheniaiderengairuhexuanze?zhenzhengdeaiqingshishenmeyangzide?xiangxinaiqinghuoshijianxinhunyinshenghuoderen，ruguobushinichunzhen，jiushishuoqingshende、beichuangde，zhinengneiyangdeyouxiurencaihuimingzhibukeweierweizhi。

aizheniyuniaide，zhongjiuhuoxudouyiyang。ruguoniqingchunnianshao，nizuiaiderenbuaizheni，neizhenshiyaolenideming;shubuzhi，ruguonimeineimaqingchunnianshaole，ninengduanzizishen，tabuaiwo，woxubuxuyaoaita?meiyouta，nandaoshuorenshengzhilujiuburongyixingfukuailema?

genyigenizuiaiderenlianqing，suihoujiageyigezhenzhengainideren，neiyanghaome?neiyangsuanzuorangbuma?

huoxubingbushirangbu，zhishiyouxiuderenshipole，meineimayouxiuderenbianlanle，hennanbuyuanzhaoliaotaren，zhixiangbierenzhaoliao。tashishizaitaimingbaidelijie?queyaotaguoqianbaigekuyulegebandeshiriheneijieyouzhangjianxiandelu。