如何择偶能够能白头偕老

 renshengdaolushiyigechixuxuanzedequanguocheng。jiejuezhaoduixiangzheiyizhuangrenshengzhongdedashi，dayuemeiyigezuobabamamade，bixubuyanqifandiquanmianzishendeernvjiqibieren，shuangyancaxilianga，haohaodixuanzea!ruhejingying☞ hunyin ？ruhejingyinghunyincainengzhangjiu？hunyinheaiqingruhebaoxian？

一、如何择偶能够能白头偕老

danshi，jiujingyaozeyigeruhedeou，caiheshiwanhun、hainengbaitoudaolaobuhuihouhuimojini?

 youxieren，jingshenshizhipeiduidiyiwei;youxieren，nianmaofeichanghenguanjian;youxieren，pinlvtongyangjinliangde;youxieren，zhilengzhirebunengshao……jiayuhuxiao，gezhiyiduan。zhenduineiyangzhongtedaderenshengdaoluqushe，jibenshangyiqiangerenzongyouyiqianbaizhongjianjie。

 jiarubajuedaduoshushenzhisuoyoushuying，yazaixuanzeshang，shijishangbuyidinghuiying。jiurutongzhuadeyishouhaopai，meiqurenzhenda，rengranhuishu。xiangfan，tangruoyunshiburuheyang，zhuodaodepaitingchou，bieqinei，yongxiesixuhemoulve，daoyebuyidingshu。hekuang，jiarujinjinhuaizheyouleshebeishijiandexintai，yiqieyingdangzhongshidedaliangshiquanguocheng，erbingbushizuihoujieguodeshengfu。

 ruhejingyinghunyincainengzhangjiu？hunyinheaiqingruhebaoxian？hunyinshenghuoyeshiruci。jingshenshizhibupeiduide，yebuyidingbukeyixinranduguoyisheng，liruduoliaoboshiyanjiushenghushihewenmangnongjianvjiangdongxiu。

 nianmaobufeichangde，yebuyidingbuhemu，lirudabaoyafengdao，haiburengranbeiwenweneryaxianliangshudedexufanxuzhenzhang，guanlifangfadefushoutieer，lezizixiewenpaixifumapi，“quleta，wosanshengyouxing”?

 pinlvmeiyouyichu，yebuyidingbukeyixingfukuailexiangai，liruhuangleihesunli，shijishangtamenyouxuduoshengzhangxixingdoubeidaoerchi，henduonianlaiyijiubeichengzuoyanyiquanlideenaifuqi。

 zheizhongren，yankeeryan，shijishangbingmeiyouxunzhaoshuobailedezuishihezuidengduidehouxuanrenzuoweiairen，keweishenme，tamenyiranyouzhepingjingdexingfukuailedeshenzhichushizantandehunyinshenghuo?guanjiansuozaixuanzeyiwaideshijian：jingying。

 yaowojiang，dahuoerbieyitouzharuzhaoxundexiangzi，wanbandanxinbuchu。xuanzesuiranguanjian，danyebiewangji，buguanzenyangdeairen，houbianderenshengzhiluzhangzheni，bixuanzegengzhongyaode，haidekannishifouhuiyunying。

 renminyuexialaorentaneiyangjiangguo：niruheguo，taquanshiyibeizi。tayinzhenglechengqianshangwanhongnanlvnv，xianghuzhijianzhongjiandexuanzehengliang，pingdingjianbie，buzhidaotazuoheganshou。

 haijideyouyiqi《feichengwurao》zongyijiemuzhong，lailayiweinanteyaojiabin，gusuanguannianjiaoweibuwanshan，haishichuyunanhaiduidianshizhizhongneileilanmanyoutuolishijiganqingdexiangxianghuanjie。neiweinanteyaojiabinyishangchang，jiuchuanyangzishenxiangzhaoyigehuxiangzhongaidenvsheng，tanyichangfenbugushendelianqing。

 shuohuasulaiqudoudemengyeyezuizhongjinbuzhu，liaolejushangrendehua——worenwei，meisigebarenbenzhibukeyijiaofenbugushen，tanganqingjiushishuoyiqiguangjiegouwu，yongcan，xianliao，kandianshijume，pingdanrushui，zhihouguoshenghuodoushizheiban。

 tadelaopo，shiyitadechuzhongtongxuemenbianchengchuliannvyou，youbianchenglaopo，zaibianchengxiaohaitaniang，yiluxiangxie，kankankekeyiqizouleershinian。

 shuodaozhaoduixiangzheihuishi，tagongxiangleyizejingdiangushi：tadeliangweidabo，haojinianqianlingwaiquxuangoudianbingxiang。zaiqizhongyiwei，feichangrongyijiutiaozhongyitai，erlingyiweini，fanfuditiaolaixuanqu，guidingjiweikeke。

 jieguotingqilaiyoudianerchuhuyiliao，qianmianyizhongxuangoudeneitaidianbingxiangyixiangyonglehenduonian，houmianyizhongjishinianlimailaiduotaijiuhuaidiaoduotai。

 ruhejingyinghunyincainengzhangjiu？hunyinheaiqingruhebaoxian？ruchuyizhe。wolejieyiweizuodiannaoshangzuoshengyidepenyou，tayegongxiangguoleisidegongzuojingyan：youderenlaimaibijibendiannao，meiruhetiao，huaizhe“leisikeyile”dexintaizhuangtai，tamendediannaoshangyibandoubuyihuai，fanershizheixiexuangoushitiaosanjiansitiaomaobing、huaizhe“ruheyangdoubukeyijizhi”xintaizhuangtaideren，tamendediannaoshangfeichangrongyichuxiangeshigeyangdeqingkuang。

zheizhengshiyigenaxiedadaolini?

 woxiangyao，dayuejiushishuorenyurengoutongyeba，huoshirenkandaiwuyeba，douyingdangyaoyoujinkenengdekuanrong、qianjiuyuguanzhe，shaoyixieyanke、zhize，fangqizhuanyetiaomaobingdemuguang，caikeyikekeqiqi，caikeyizairenshenglumanmanshangliangkanxiangbuni。

 yaozaiganwanrendangzhong，baiwanniandangzhong，zaishijianwujidehuangyeli，zhaoxundaodongnideren，queshishigenzhongwubaiwanyiyangshuxiaogailvshijian。daliangde，haidejiezhushenghuoqijuzhongdeyunying。

ruguonirenzhenquyunying，kanqilaibudongnideren，yejiangbianchengxingmingzhongdeno.yi、

shehuixuejiaairuike·fuluomuqueshuoguoneiyangyijuhua：aidenantibingbushimubiaonanti，zhishifazhanqianlinanti。

 zaineiweijingshenfenxishehuixintaixuechuanglizhelaikan，wulunganqinghuanshihunyinshenghuo，quanshibixuchixuquanmiantigaodeyimenzaoxingyishu。jingshenshizhishangdejiyucaisuanshizuizhongyaozuibaoguidejieduan，liangrendexingyingbuli，buyiyulidigongxianglingyifangdegezhonggeyangganshouyuqingsi，chuantouzheizhongtihuiheganshoudeshencenglianjie，shibicidexingmingdounengdedaobaomanhechongpei。

 yinci，yaoyouyigehaodeganqinghuoshihunyinshenghuo，xuanzesuiranguanjian，zhongyaohuanshiqujueyuaidefazhanqianli，jiqiyunyingyifenganqingdefazhanqianli。

 jiarurenzhenyunying，hesheiguo，quanshi“xiangkanliangbuyan，weiyoujingtingshan“;jiaruobushanyunying，hesheiguo，zhongguishi“jininide，shiwowodefangwei，nihaijideyeba，shiniyiwang”。yibieliangkuan，hainengxincunkaixin，yisuanyouhaodegebendongxi。

bumingbaiyunying，zhaoruhederen，douwufajuyouwanhaowusundehunyinshenghuo。xuanzesuiranguanjian，yunyingcaishiyingdaoli。