离婚了前夫又来找我复合该答应吗

 lihunzhihou，woduizishendehunyinshenghuohezhangfudouzaoyiwanquansilexinle，keshixiangbudaohaidabannianbushang，zhangfujiulaiyaowofuhe，lihunleqianfuyoulaizhaowofuhegaidayingma?ruhejingyinghunyincainengzhangjiu？hunyinheaiqingruhebaoxian？ruhejingying☞ hunyin ？

一、离婚了前夫又来找我复合该答应吗

 woyuzhangfudehunyinshenghuozaoyibuduanshijinianle，erqierenmenyeyou2gexiaohai，renmendeqinggandoushineileishuozenmeyang，shuohuaiyebulandeneilei。pingchang，woyuzhangfudoumangliuzishendezuoshengyi，meiyouguoduodehudongjiaoliu。woneixingaoqingchuzishendehunyinshenghuozaozhongwanhuiyouyitianhuigebendongxi，keshixiangbudaodeshi，zheiyitianjuranlaideneimekuai。

 ruhejingyinghunyincainengzhangjiu？hunyinheaiqingruhebaoxian？zhangfushihuranguidingliyide，youyutashuotapengdaolezishendezhenqing，tabuyuanzaiwoliangdehunyinshenghuozhongshechilangfeixianghudeshijian，erqietadeshifendeguoduan，yibianyaowoxunsuyuanyi，yinciqueshuoyaoshinengliyi，tanenggoujingshenchuhu。

 woquanyequanyiguo，shuoweilebaobao，lianggerennianlingdousanshihaojile，nengbuzhetengjiubuzheteng，danshitaquandoutingbujin，zuizhongrenmenhuanshililehun。

 keshidabannianhou，tazaicifashengzaiwoyanqian，huranyougenwoshuoshuoyaoyuwozaihun。tashuotarenqingledisanzhedezhenzhengchouezuilian，lingyifangchangshiqian，lingyifangduizishendebabamamayaowuheliu，erqieyeduizishenbutaihao......tashuozishenlejiedaobuzhengque，huanshiwozhen，qidaiwokeyiyuanliang。

 shijishang，niwangwangneimedanxin，jiushishuoyouyunidexinliyeyaoxiangfuhexing，keshilingwainiyelejie，tishizishenbiewangjiyiqiantaduinideshanghaishi。yinci，xubuxuyaofuhexing，jitamenyicijihui，zheiquankannidexinlile。

 jiaruninjuecefuhexing，neimaganwanbukeyitingtayiliangjubianbodehuajiusuibianyuanliang，rangtayongxingdonglaizhengshizishendechengxin。yaolejie，rijiujianrenxin，rijiujianrenxin，dajiazhongjiandeqingganyaoxiangxiubu，haizhenbingbushiyijubuduijiunenggouyibigouxiaode。

 zaihoubiandeyiduanshijianli，ninnenggoumoliantayiduanshijianzaizuochujuece。jiarutaqueshixianghuiguo，neimayuanlianghaiweishiweiwan。ganqingwanhui，bixushijianhexixin。

 ruhejingyinghunyincainengzhangjiu？hunyinheaiqingruhebaoxian？rujinyouxuduoliyi，lihunhoufuhundeyeyibujishaoshu，kelihunzhihouxubuxuyaozaihun，zaihunhounengfouxingfukuaile，xubuxuyaozaihun，quanshibixukaolvdaode，hunyinshenghuobingbushierxi，jiarupengdaozhangfulaiqiuzishenzaihundeshiergaizenyangbanni?

想一想离婚原因：

 zhangfulaizhaodaozaihun，nihuanshiyaoxiangxiangdangniandajiaweihelihunle，shibunengkuanrongdecuo，huanshijinjinyishichongdongdeliyi，jiarudajiashiyibianzhengyikouqi，neihuanshiyoufuhexingdejiyude，jiarudajialiyiyouyushejiyixieyuanzexingdenanti，neihuanshishensishulvyihouzaizuojueceba。

duizhangfushibushiyeyouxiwang：

 zaihunyihuoshibuzaihun，zheiyichedizaiyunidexinli，nixinlishifouhaiduizishendezhangfuyouyidingdexiwang，jiushishihenduo，huanshiaiduo，jiaruneixinhaiwangbudiaota，dengnilizhileyihou，juedehuanshinenggouhelingyifangguoxialaide，bushejidaoyuanzewenti，neimazaihunyehuanshinenggoude。

小孩也应当考虑到：

 liyizaoshousunhaijiaodadehuanshixiaohai。jiaruzhangfuweirenfeichanghao，duizheiyijiayejiaoweiyouyiwu，jinjinyishibuzhengque，yejijirenkele，qiuzishenkuanrongle，neihebuyibianjixiaohaiyigexiangxidejia，kaolvdaozaihun，yaoshimeiyouxiaohai，zishennanyishihuai，neiyebiecouhezishen。

biezhejizhezaihun，lizhikandai：

 zhangfuguidingerhun，jiububijuedeliyishizhangfumingquetichulaide，zishenyoubuxianglihun，lingyifangmingquetichuzaihun，jiuliketongyile。huanshilizhiyixia，jiusuanjiushishuojilingyifangayidiandemolianshijian，neiyangyekeyiranglingyifangzhongshizishen，keshiniyidingyaozhangwohaofencungan，yiliangcihuijuelingyifangkeyijiena，ruguopinciduole，lingyifangjiuhuiwanquansangshizixinxinde。

处理矛盾是重要。

 zaihunbuzaihundezhongyaoshijishangshikanliangrenzhongjiandefenqiyoumuyouchuli，yaoshimeiyouchulidehua，jinliangbuyaosuibianzaihun，youyuzaihunhoufenqihaiyao，haihuizhengzhichixu，huitiaoxuanliyide，lirupoxiguanxi，buyuanhejiapozhuyikuaizaochengdeliyideng。

wenyiwenzishenshikaixinhuanshibukaixin。

 zaihunbuzaihun，yeyaowenwenzishendexinli，duizheiyijia，duizheiyirenyeyoushiduoshaoxiwang，jiaruzaozaoyiwanquanshiluohanxinle，juedezaihunjiushishuonanaodehua，neimejiububicouhezishenle，kaixinbukaixincaisuanshigengguanjiandeshier。