中国式婚姻为什么那么注重物质

 “buyigongjuliyiweimudedehuhuijiaohuan”zhengshishehuijiaohuanlilunzhongrendezizhuxingdetixian。fuqijingchangchaojiazenmeban？☞ hunyin qingganwentizenmejiejue？zhongguoshihunyinweishenmeneimezhuzhongwuzhi?

一、中国式婚姻为什么那么注重物质

raner，zheibingbuyiweizhewomentichanghunyinshijiandancailiaozhongde“quanliheyansejiaoyi”。

 fuqijingchangchaojiazenmeban？hunyinqingganwentizenmejiejue？zhengrulichade·daojinsizaitadezhuzuo《zisidejiyin》zhongsuoshuodeneiyang，womendejiyinkeyiqushiwomenzisidixingwei，danshiwomenbubizaiyishengzhongqufu。 zaidongwuzhong，zhiyourenleishoudaowenhuayijihoulaihuodehejichengdeyingxiangdezhipei。

 “buyigongjuliyiweimudedehuhuijiaohuan”zhengshishehuijiaohuanlilunzhongrendezizhuxingdetixian。 womenbuxuyaofangzihuoqiche，womenxuyaoyigekeyiyiqichifandeyingjundedidi。

 bujiuqian，womenchengleyigenvhai。1994nian，womencongribenliuxuehuilai。 tawaibiaotianmei，tebiexihuanxiao，shengyinyehenhaoting。 taxiangtatuijianletiaojiantebiehaodenanhai。tashuotabuxiangyaozheige，neige，buguanwuzhitiaojianruhe，bushigege，ershiyingjundedidi，takeyihewoyiqichidongxihewan。

 meirenxiangnanhaituijianshi，tagaosunanhai，nvhaibuzhongshiwuzhitiaojian，youhaoshihenzhongyaode。nanhaifeichangmanyi。 tamenyijianzhongqing，doujuederenshizuizhongyaode。 zheigenvhaifeichangxingyun。suirantashuotashiyangang，xihuanwanheyouqu，dantazuizhongfaxiannanhaiyongyouyiqie，fangjianheqiche。

 zheizhong“bugutiaojianzhikanren”denvhaicikezhendelingrenermuyixin，guangcaizhaoren。 raner，zheizhong“zhikanzheren”dejuecexingweirengyoushenmiganma?deque，mianduimianyinshi——youxiyinlidewaibiaoxintaixuejiafaxian，renmenqingxiangyurenweiyouxiyinliderenhaiyongyouqitashehuirenkedetezheng，ruxingfu、chenggonghezhihui。

 zheiyeshiyizhongziwoceshiyuce(yizhongqingxiangyuhuodejieguoyiyanzhengxianyouguandianbingshiyucebenshenchengweixianshideyuce)-youxiyinliderenyejingchangdedaoteshuzhaogu，lirugenghaodegongzuojihuihuogenggaodegongzi。

 fuqijingchangchaojiazenmeban？hunyinqingganwentizenmejiejue？huanjuhuashuo，yekeyilijie，“ren”shi“wuzhi”dechongfenhebubiyaodetiaojian yujingshenxiangjiao，wuzhicengmianbuhuixianggetaiyuan。duiyucailiaoxiangjiao，jieguokenengbulingrenmanyi。

 dangbeijinghehuanjingzaiyidingchengdushangjuedingletamianqianderendeqizhi、waimaohesiweifangshishi，“zhikanzheren”deyuanzeyekenenghui“yiwaidichengzhangweiyingzi” meixiangdao，yingjundehuangjinhaishishujilehuangdaoshiergong!

 xingshiyijingnizhuanle!duigongzhengshijiedexinnianrenwei，renmenzongshiyouyigejibendexuqiu，jixiangxintamenshenghuodeshijieshigongzhengde——meigerendounengdedaotahuotayingdede，tahuotadedaodejiushitahuotayingdede。

 zhangailingshuo:“zaichengshiwenhuazhongzhangdaderenzongshixiankandaodahai，zaikandaodahai。xianduaiqingxiaoshuo，ranhoucaizhidaoaiqing。 womendeshenghuojinglitongchangshidierlun。

 “yuqizunxuntongyangdejianyi，jianchizijideluxian，weixiangqinzhidingjiageqingdan，burukaigesirenhuiyi，ganshougerenguanxizhongdexiyinli，zailixingfenxizhiwaiquanhenglibi。

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