是什么让我们走进了婚姻

 dayingwo“qinaide，woaini，niyuanyijiajiwoma?”shishenmerangwomenzoujinle☞ hunyin ?hunyinqingganshenghuoruheweixi？xingfuhunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie？

一、是什么让我们走进了婚姻

shenmefengbawomenchuidaohunyindiantang?

hunyinqingganshenghuoruheweixi？xingfuhunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie？

 zheikenengshilianrenmendouxiwangdelangmanhunli，danshi...suoyoudexingguanxidouhuijinruhunyindiantangbingyongyuanyanxuxiaquma?renmenzaishenghuozhongzongshibudebumianduiyixieguanxizhangai，conggongzuoyalidaojiatingchongtu，zaidaodilibuxiangrong。

 raner，mianduitongyangdewenti，zuoweifuqidelianggerenwangwangnenggoupingjingdichulibingzuizhongxiaochuzhangai，danshiduiyuguanxizhongdeqitarenlaishuo，zheixiewentibiandenanyijiejue，congershiguanxinanyihuifuzhengchang。

 shide，aizongshiyoutazijilangmanhemeilideshuxing。yixieyanjiufaxian，lianggeyouaiqingguanxiderenbiqitarengengrongyiweichihefazhanzheizhongguanxi。

 daduoshufufudoushizhitongdaohederen，tamenkeyihenrongyidixianghulianxi，yekeyihenrongyidirongruduifangdeshenghuo。 dangran，niyehuifaxianyouxiefufu，jishishizaihunyinzhong，mianduiyixiewentiyechangchangbuzhisuocuo。pinfandezhengchaohewujieshishuangfangyuelaiyueyuan。

 neiweishenmehuiyouzheiyangdebutongni?hunyinyinggaiduiwomenyouyixieteshudeyiyima?nihaijideyonghengaiqingdeshiyanma?butongdechengnuoduihunyindeyiyinannvpengyouzongshibixubicitongyi，jinruhunlidating，wulunshi“buguannishipinqionghaishishengbing，haishi“congxianzaikaishizhiaini”，doukeyikanchumeiyouchengnuohunyinshiwufashixianheweichide。

 hunyinqingganshenghuoruheweixi？xingfuhunyinjingyingfangfayounaxie？xintaixuejiabulaien·aogesijiheqitarenyanjiulenaxiechengnuojiangzaizuizhongjiehundefufuzhongqiguanjianzuoyong，naxiechengnuobuhuizaibutongdechengnuofangshixiaqizuoyong tamendeyanjiushujubaokuozai9geyueneiduisuijixuanzedeyixingfufudexianchangfangtan，ranhougenjuhunyinchengnuodebutongtezheng，jiangfufudechengnuofangshifenweiyixiasizhongleixing：

 (a)xijuxing xijuxingdechengnuoshifeizhengshidehuayu，yexuzhishiyigemeiyouzixikaolvdexiaohua，yexuzhishiweijingzhengshidelangmanganqing，shenzhishizaiweijizhongbudebusadeshanyihuangyan。

 (b)chongtubuduan maodundechengnuoshidangyigerenbuyuanyihuobuyuanyideshihoushuodehua，liru，mianduilianrenfenshouhuozishadeweixie，weilewendingjumianerzuochudefuyanchengnuo。tamenzhishizaifennudeshihouzhizaode，erbushifazineixinde。suiranzuochulechengnuo，danrenmenbingbumanyi。

 (c)shehuicanyu shehuicanyuchengnuozhangfuheqizidoujiangcanyugezideshejiaowangluo，bingxihuanzaishejiaohuodongzhonggongdudabufenshijian。

 (d)yihezuohuobanweizhongdian zhuyibanlvleixingdechengnuo，fuqishuangfangzaigezhongshijianzhongzongshibaduifangfangzaizuizhongyaodeweizhi，jiuxiangzailianggerendeshijieliyiqiduguodabufenshijianyiyang。

 raner，henrongyicaiceqianliangzhongleixingdefuqizaihunyindehouxufazhanzhongkenenghuiyoubumanyidejieguo。zheixiechengnuohenrongyigaibian，yinweitamenshifeizhengshidehuobuyuanyide。

raner，neixiezhuzhongshejiaohuohuobanguanxidefufukenenghuiyougenghaodeweilai。