婚后该如何生活才会幸福

 hunhougairuheshenghuocaihuixingfu?youyigeguanyuyinanyinvdexinwengushi，tamenjiehunhouzuichutongyiyaodingke。jieguo，nanhaiwufakangjufumudeyali。jiehunyinianhou，tashiyan，xiangyaohaizi。 zheigenvrenbuxiangyaohaizi，suoyitamenjuedinglihun。☞ hunyin aiqingnengbaoxianma？ruhejingyinghunyinqingganhejiating？

一、婚后该如何生活才会幸福

 hunyinaiqingnengbaoxianma？ruhejingyinghunyinqingganhejiating？yibanlaishuo，jiehunqian，womenjingchangxiangxianghunyinshenghuodeyangzi，baokuozhuzainali，shifouyaohaizi，ruhefenpeishouruhezhichudeng。

raner，chulezheixie“liangren”quanzizhiwai，haiyouyixieduihunyinzhiguanzhongyaode“quanwai”wenti。

 jiehunqian，womenxuyaolejieduifangdeshenghuoquanzi，lejieduifangde“shehuizhichixitong” chuantongdeshehuizhichixitongdaduozhi“feizhengshizhichixitong”，jiyigerendeshehuizhuangkuang，baokuotayujiaren、pengyouhetongshideguanxi。

chulefeizhengshidezhichixitong，womenhaixuyaozhidaoyigerenduizhengshizhichixitongdeshiyong。

 zhengshishiyongbaokuoshehuibaoxian、yiliaodeng。 ciwai，zhengruxuezhe(cut rona，c . e & russell，d . w .)zhichude，zhichixitongdeneihanbaokuowugexiangmu:xinxi、wuzhi、zizun、wangluoheqinggan，suoyouzheixiedoushiyigerenshenxinjiankangdeguanjian。

yinci，zaiwomenjiehunzhiqian，womenkenengxuyaolejieduifangdewudian:

xinxi:danghunyinyudaozhurufuyanghaizizhileidewentishi，niyoushenmeyaoxunqiujianyihezhishideduixiangma?

wuzhi:jiehunhou，youzugoudejingjinengliweichibiyaodeshenghuoma?

zizun:renweiziji(lingyifang)shiyouyongde，keyizaizheiduanguanxizhongchengdanjiaose?

wangluo:youpengyou、qinqiheqitaduixiang，ninengdedaoyouyi、lianxiheguishuganma?

qinggan:yourenkeyiqingting，gandaotongqingheguli，bingqiebiciyouchongfendegongming?

 yongyoulianghaozhichixitongderengengrongyibaochishenxinjiankang，bingyouqudaoshifangyalihexunqiubangzhu。 buguannidegerenzhuangkuangyouduohao，nijintianhunyindeduixiang，ruguotaquefashehuizhichi，neimenikenengchengweitaweiyidezhichiduixiang。

 hunyinaiqingnengbaoxianma？ruhejingyinghunyinqingganhejiating？yidannimenlianggezujiandejiatingchuxianneibuhuowaibuwenti，xunqiugengduodewaibuyuanzhujiangbiandegengjiakunnan，wentibenshenhexiangguandeyalijianggengrongyidaozhihunyinpolie。