女生该不该为自己是处女感到自卑

 bushishaonvle，☞ hunyin shenghuozhongganjuetebiezibeihezizezenmeban?nvshenggaibugaiweizijishishaonvgandaozibei?ruhejiejuehunyinnanti？hunyinchuxianweijizenmeban？

一、女生该不该为自己是少女感到自卑

 womenxiangfenshou，dantashuowobushishaonv，yihouhuibeijujue。wozhangfubuhuiduiwohenhao。womenfenshouhou，wogandaohenbushufu。wohaipawoweilaidezhangfuhuipaoqiwo，danwobuxiangxiubuheqipianta。 womeitiandexinqingdouhenzaogao，zheiyingxianglewozhengchangdexuexihegongzuo。kongpawoyoudianjusang。

“shaonvqingjie”gengxiangshehuiduinannvdeshuangzhongbiaozhun zaiwenhuazhong，nanrenxiwangnvren“zhenjie”。

 ruhejiejuehunyinnanti？hunyinchuxianweijizenmeban？raner，nanrengengmanzuyutamendezilian，yinweixingdelingyimianshi“shaonv”。 danduizheigerenlaishuo，tayongyuanbuhuiyinweitabushishaonvergandaoxiuchi，ershiyinweitabushishaonvergandaojiaoao。 zheizhongfangshijinyibushuominglewenhuazhong“tuifei”debufenbeituxianchulai。 nidezizeyehuishoudaowenhuadeweimiaoyingxiang。 “wobuhao”zoushangqianlai，butingdipipinghezhizeziji。

 renmenyushengjulaidexuqiuzhiyijiushiwoshikeaihaishixihuan。 womenxuyaobeiai。 ruguonidejiarenyeqiangdiaoniyinggaikeai，neimetajiuxiangyige“jiasuo”baniliuzaizheili。 ciwai，zheizhongjiujiedeguanxikenengbiaomingniyilianguanxidejiujiebufen，zheizhongjiujiebufenlaizininianqingshiyuzhaoguzhehudongdefangshihefangfa。 zheikenengshinideneibuwenti。

 bushinizhendebutaorenxihuan，ershinineixindanxinzijibukeai。 keaiyufoushineixinziwokendingheziwojiazhidebiaoda keyixunqiuzhuanyedebangzhu，hezijineibudewentihejie mofei:shenghuozhuyeqianmiansanfenzhieryishangdeyemianmiaoshuleyunanyoujiaoliudeguocheng。houmiandekongjuhejusangyeyuanyutasuoshuodehua。

 xianran，kandaoyigehaizizaifumudedashengchizexiahaipadefadou，huozhezhuazhefumudequnzi，kenenghuiyoulurenbuganditoukanzhetashituanweita，dantamengenbenwufaxiaochutadekongju。 zheigenanpengyoutaizhongyaole，womenzenmenenghetafenshouni?“woduitadeweixiehenshengqi，hetafenshoule”;“woduihetafenshousansierhouxing”;liangcifenshoudoushifangdongtiyide。

 ruhejiejuehunyinnanti？hunyinchuxianweijizenmeban？linbieqian，fangdongyidingfanfukaolvguole。lizhizhanzhudaodiwei。 fenshouhou，tashuo，“wogandaofeichangnanguo”he“wogandaofeichangnanguo，zheiyingxianglewozhengchangdexuexihegongzuo。” tongzhenqingjiexianranshilingyige“zhananxiyinli” shenshentankouqi liujin:kanlaiguojiaerjixintaizixunshi/ihnmaguojicuimianshidefangdongjintuiliangnan。

 tongzhenbushihunyinheaiqingdechouma。shidaidebianhuajilenvxinggengduodexuanzehejueding。zheixiequanlizhangwozaitamenzijishouzhong，erbushibierenshouzhong。 yinweitongzhenerfangqiduiziwo、dulixuanzehejuecequandezhuiqiuyouxiebuzhide。 zhenchengdejiyuhequfushilianghuishi，airenhekongzhizheshilianghuishi，kuanronghezongrongshilianghuishi。

 conglingyigejiaodulaikan，ruguoyigenanrenzhidaoxingduiyigenvhaiyiweizheshenme，tayinggaigengjiazunzhonghezhenxita。 erbushiyongtazuoweishiyadechouma。 hunqianxingxingweibushiyigecuowu。zheizhishiyicijingli。ruguonibazhenggemanzhangdeshengmingxiangxiangchengyigezhangchidu，zheizhongkunjingxuyaoduozhangshijian?

 ruguonixiadingjuexin，tongkudejinglixuyaoduozhangshijian?wendazhuli:“zaishenghuozhong，zuiweibuzudaodanyouyiyidedongxibizuiweidadanwuyiyidedongxigengyoujiazhi。” weishenmerenmenshuobushishaonvdedongxijiushi“shiqulezhencao”?worengranshiwo。 womeiyoushanghairenheren。

 neixiezhenzhengshiqu“tongzhen”derenbuyinggaishineixierenweiangzangbingeyifeibangtarenderenma?ruguofangjianlidejiaquanchaobiao，womenbuhuiliuxialai。 ruguoqingxushanghailewomenziji，womenyeyinggaijiejueta。

 changshixunqiuzhuanyebangzhu,xian，zhuhenilikaizhanan zheizhongrenzhendebeizheizhongshiqingsuozenghenheweixie。 ciwai，nidiyicihetazaiyiqiyeshiniaidejianzheng。tashifouzhidebingbuzhongyao。

 zhenzhengainiderenbuhuiguanxinnideguoqu，ershinidexianzaiheweilai。 meiyourenhefudan，jixuanzhaonidemubiaonuligongzuo，tigaonidesuzhiheshuiping，tigaonidesuzhi。