老公说不想过了怎么办 要离婚怎么办？

shishishang，duiyuyigenvrenlaishuo，hunhouzuihaipadeshiaitadezhangfuturanshuotameiyouganqingyaolihun，zheiduinizheigemomofuchudenvrenlaishuoshijueduibukejieshoude，shenzhizhiyinizhijianguoqudeganqingshifouzhenshi。laogongshuobuxiangguolezenmeban？

xuduolihunfufubuhuitingzhiai，danxianshideyalirangtamenhenlei。suoyi，nixianzaiyaozuodebushifangshou，ershisikaoruhezhengjiuzheizhongqingkuang，zhongxiannidejiuai。yunidezhangfugoutong，zhaochumaodun，youxiaodiyunidezhangfugoutong，zhaochuniweishenmexianglihun。ruguoyigenanrenjianchiyaohenilihun，nimenzhijiankendinghuiyoubukediaohedemaodun。goutongshi，nibixulengjingxialai，jinliangzhiting，shaoshuo，zheiyangnicainenglengjingxialai，zixifenxinizaihunyinzhongdemaodun。congbicidejiaodulaikan，zhiyouzheiyang，nicainenglijiebicidexiangfa。

一、给对方适当的空间

zaihunyinzhong，nixuyaojiduifangyigeheshidekongjian。buyaoguofenkongzhinidezhangfu。youshinikongzhideyuejin，tajiuhuipaodeyueyuan，nidezhangfuhuigaosuni，tameiyouganqing，xianglihun。henizhangfuxiangchudezuihaofangfayinggaishifangfengzheng，fangsonghejinzhang。zhiyaoxianzainizijishouzhong，nijiubupatabuhuihuijia。ciwai，niyinggaiyouzijidesirenkongjian。buyaobanisuoyoudexiangfadoufangzainizhangfushenshang，nikeyibatazhuanyidaogongzuoshang。zixin、duli、chongmanhuolidenvrenshizuimeilide。woxiangxinnizhangfuhuikandaonidebianhua。

二、改变自己

dangnibeiduifangxiyin，zhuiruaihebingjiehunshi，niyidingyoushenmedongxinengxiyinnidezhangfu。zhaochunizhangfuyikaishibeixiyinleshenme，ranhoushizhexiangyiqianyiyangzhongxianchangjing，rangnizhangfujuedezijihuidaolechulian，zheiyouliyuwanjiuhunyin。laogongshuobuxiangguolezenmeban？tongshi，niyaofaxianzijidewenti，zhenggai，chengweiyigechengshumirendenvren。woxiangxinzheihuixiyinnizhangfuhuilai。