吵架后当对方道歉时 老公认错怎么回答他

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lianaizhongdezhengchaoshihenpingchangdeshiqing，danshizhengchaozhihou，wulunshishuyuhaishishuyu“chuangtouzhengchaochuangweihe”shide，jiuzheiyang“xiangwangyujianghu”shide，chaojiahou，womendetaidushiguanjian。

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neime，zailianaizhongyudaozhengchao，duifangdaoqian，womengaizenmebanni？

1.当他说“我错了”不要得理不饶人，更不要急着甩一句话“你错哪了？

bunengpaichudeshi，dangduifangbuxiangjixuyinweizhengchaoerpohuaishuangfangdeganqingshi，tamenhuizhudongxiantuoxie，jishitajuedezijizuodedui，weilehuanjiehuoyaodeweidao，tayehuixianzhudongshuo“wocuole”。

danshi，ruguonibuzhidaotatuoxiebeihoudexiangfa，mashanghuiqushuoyijuhua“nihaihuicuoma？nicuole！”

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genghekuang，henduorendouzaishuo“wocuole”dangshi，womenzhendejinglilesikaohefansi，fazineixindichengrenlezijidecuowu。zaizheigeshihou，mianduidaoqian，womenbuyinggaigengbuyinggai“deliburaoren”le。

yuduifangjianliyouxiaodegoutongshixiufuzhengchaodeguanjian，youqishiduifangdaoqiandeshihou。

2.对方道歉时请安慰TA，请不要看起来高高在上

zaiaiqingzhong，henduoshihoutadaoqianbingbuyiweizhenishiduide。lianggerenzaiyiqi，youxieshiqingbushisheiduisheicuodedaoli，ershilianggerendesixianghejiaodubutong。

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danyouxieren，zaiduifangdaoqianhou，haishihuibaichuyifugaogaozaishangdeyangzi，shenzhiqiangdiaochulai“kanba，jiushitacuole，woshiduide。”

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